couple with different views

• meemaamoo

  11 Nov 07, 22:34

  can 2 people with different perspective of relationships be tgt? should they compromise or live with the "with love, anything is possible" philosophy?
• sEphIrOth

  11 Nov 07, 23:26

  its either u 2 work things out before love or let love deal with things. i doubt the latter would be good as we must know how strong can the love be to overcome the differences, and how long will it take? will both parties get fustrated before anything?
  
  juz some food for thought
• angel7030

  12 Nov 07, 10:45

  All of us have different perspectives, different school of thought, no body can have the same perspectives ya. One of the wonder in love is, it has the ability to accept, tolerant and respect each other perspectives otherwise, it is not love at it very best.
• rain-coat

  12 Nov 07, 10:50

  Originally posted by meemaamoo:

  can 2 people with different perspective of relationships be tgt? should they compromise or live with the "with love, anything is possible" philosophy?

  Seriously, with love everything is possible. i think it all comes down to accepting and knowing that there are things more impt that perspective.
  Its not easy to fall in love with someone, its even more difficult for that person to fall in love with you. So dont lose all that just because of perspective. Everything can be worked out.
• udontknowme

  12 Nov 07, 10:55

  it really depends....on what the differences are. and how much each person is willing to accept/change etc....
  
  and things like 'opposites attract'/'with love everything is possible' etc just gives pple false hopes. really. sometimes it's true. but nothing will apply to everyone.
• Zarks

  12 Nov 07, 13:16

  doesnt matter with different perspective..
  
  i and my babe have codes to follow.. We agreed on this
  
  HITC
  
  H = Honest
  I = Inform
  T= Trust
  C = Communication
  
  and she seems to think the same way..wel, other than that just a small matter to tolerate
• newcomer

  12 Nov 07, 13:25

  fwah 1st time see u tok so chim sia.
  
  

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  All of us have different perspectives, different school of thought, no body can have the same perspectives ya. One of the wonder in love is, it has the ability to accept, tolerant and respect each other perspectives otherwise, it is not love at it very best.

• angel7030

  12 Nov 07, 13:54

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  fwah 1st time see u tok so chim sia.
  
  

  Me a small girl only, not so chim lah, very shallow only.
• maskedangel

  12 Nov 07, 14:59

  Originally posted by meemaamoo:

  can 2 people with different perspective of relationships be tgt? should they compromise or live with the "with love, anything is possible" philosophy?

  Do u believe in opposite attracts?
• newcomer

  12 Nov 07, 15:17

  come.
  
  

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Me a small girl only, not so chim lah, very shallow only.

• angel7030

  12 Nov 07, 15:46

  Originally posted by newcomer:

  come.
  
  

  Huh? what come? u come liao??
• newcomer

  12 Nov 07, 22:41

  Ride with me.
  
  

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Huh? what come? u come liao??

• Jezmeister

  13 Nov 07, 21:36

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Huh? what come? u come liao??

  come fly with me lets fly lets fly awaaaayy
  
  guess if you love her you'll respect her for her different opinions and you'll just accept them and carry on...