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• Samuelpsw

  13 Nov 07, 20:19

  recently i got to know one gerl from a friend's place..thn i start to have a liking for her..and last wk she suddenly ask me whether do i like her nt..so i jus say yes but wat she told me is tat i am nt the onli one tat like her and she is nt ready for a relationship..
  
  but whenever i see her close with other of my friends..i will get like jealous and will think all sorts of things like is she avoiding or watsoever...
  
  and i shared this with one of my friend..and he jus started spreading ard and my other friends say that they will help me..but i did nt wan as i jus wan to remain as friends with tat gerl onli..
  
  but i am very confused..i did nt know whether do i really like her or it is jus a crush..cos i kip thinking of her nw and then..
• CannyOng

  13 Nov 07, 21:07

  I think u shall have reply her as u have some liking for her but cannot comfirm her as the one. If possible , Hoping u and her can try out this r/s.
  
  But since she reply u that she don't want to commit r/s during her this stages. Suit her! But somehow or rather she is waiting for her right guy to come out as she mention she got a lot of suitors,right? She is just trying to pick the best out of u all..
  
  Open yrself more to other gals. U may even seek a better one and yr jealousy of her being with other guys will slowly diminish..
• fairlady_xoxo

  13 Nov 07, 21:10

  Hmmm why not you give yourself more time...start out by going out on group dates lor...then slowly find out if both of you can click...and have the chemistry...at least that reaffirms the feelings...and you can slowly see how it goes...
  
  Let nature take its course...don't rush into things =) and good luck!
• necrolyt3

  14 Nov 07, 16:34

  I think you gave the wrong reply.
  
  You should have replied "You very special meh? why should i like you"?
  
  I don't know why she asked you if you like her, then said a lot of guys are after her and she is not interested. Perhaps she just like the feeling of being liked. Instead of saying yes, You should have challenged her.
• de_middle

  14 Nov 07, 16:54

  not ready then juz let it be, cannot handle then get lost.....simple
• Q.C.Pak

  14 Nov 07, 17:09

  Sounds like a fishing trip to me...
• Uncertain

  15 Nov 07, 08:46

  Originally posted by Samuelpsw:

  recently i got to know one gerl from a friend's place..thn i start to have a liking for her..and last wk she suddenly ask me whether do i like her nt..so i jus say yes but wat she told me is tat i am nt the onli one tat like her and she is nt ready for a relationship..
  but whenever i see her close with other of my friends..i will get like jealous and will think all sorts of things like is she avoiding or watsoever...
  
  and i shared this with one of my friend..and he jus started spreading ard and my other friends say that they will help me..but i did nt wan as i jus wan to remain as friends with tat gerl onli..
  
  but i am very confused..i did nt know whether do i really like her or it is jus a crush..cos i kip thinking of her nw and then..

  WTF!!! Ask whether u like her, then say u are not the only one and not ready for r/s... She is playing with u TS, forget her
• angel7030

  15 Nov 07, 18:07

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  WTF!!! Ask whether u like her, then say u are not the only one and not ready for r/s... She is playing with u TS, forget her

  Ya, right, she is playing with you, TS, but dun forget about her, instead, play her back, and let see how it goes ya.
  
  But dun play too much hor.
• Aaron8209

  15 Nov 07, 18:11

  walao...all gals only know how to say this....whoever just break up not long will say.Sorry.im nt ready for a relationship..dots.haiz..sian
  
  
• Uncertain

  15 Nov 07, 18:49

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Ya, right, she is playing with you, TS, but dun forget about her, instead, play her back, and let see how it goes ya.
  
  But dun play too much hor.

  First time angel agree with me
• Isis

  15 Nov 07, 20:35

  Originally posted by Samuelpsw:

  recently i got to know one gerl from a friend's place..thn i start to have a liking for her..and last wk she suddenly ask me whether do i like her nt..so i jus say yes but wat she told me is tat i am nt the onli one tat like her and she is nt ready for a relationship..
  
  but whenever i see her close with other of my friends..i will get like jealous and will think all sorts of things like is she avoiding or watsoever...
  
  and i shared this with one of my friend..and he jus started spreading ard and my other friends say that they will help me..but i did nt wan as i jus wan to remain as friends with tat gerl onli..
  
  but i am very confused..i did nt know whether do i really like her or it is jus a crush..cos i kip thinking of her nw and then..

  Ehhh what is the difference btw really like or crush hur ?
• darknessfall

  15 Nov 07, 22:40

  maybe she is playing hard to get...
  ignore her for a while, and see if she gets worried..
• nanren4ever

  16 Nov 07, 06:22

  Originally posted by Samuelpsw:

  recently i got to know one gerl from a friend's place..thn i start to have a liking for her..and last wk she suddenly ask me whether do i like her nt..so i jus say yes but wat she told me is tat i am nt the onli one tat like her and she is nt ready for a relationship..
  
  but whenever i see her close with other of my friends..i will get like jealous and will think all sorts of things like is she avoiding or watsoever...
  
  and i shared this with one of my friend..and he jus started spreading ard and my other friends say that they will help me..but i did nt wan as i jus wan to remain as friends with tat gerl onli..
  
  but i am very confused..i did nt know whether do i really like her or it is jus a crush..cos i kip thinking of her nw and then..

  You are a bag of contradications.
  
  You claim u like her, then 2 paragraphs later, u say u just want to remain friends.
  
  If u really like her, u wouldn't be questioning urself if u really like her or not.
  
  Hope ur question is answered.
• AndrewPKYap

  16 Nov 07, 07:23

  Originally posted by Samuelpsw:

  recently i got to know one gerl from a friend's place..thn i start to have a liking for her..and last wk she suddenly ask me whether do i like her nt..so i jus say yes but wat she told me is tat i am nt the onli one tat like her and she is nt ready for a relationship..
  
  but whenever i see her close with other of my friends..i will get like jealous and will think all sorts of things like is she avoiding or watsoever...
  
  and i shared this with one of my friend..and he jus started spreading ard and my other friends say that they will help me..but i did nt wan as i jus wan to remain as friends with tat gerl onli..
  
  but i am very confused..i did nt know whether do i really like her or it is jus a crush..cos i kip thinking of her nw and then..

  You are having a crush on her... 99% of the post puberty people in the world has/had a crush on someone/some people.
  
  Enjoy it while it lasts... it will disappear as suddenly as it comes but you will remember this till the day you die...
• Zarks

  16 Nov 07, 09:19

  shes making fun of u dude.. lol
• angel7030

  16 Nov 07, 16:22

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  First time angel agree with me

  Huh! it you!!!, aiya forget to read the nick, if know earlier, shouldn't have agreed with you.
  
• Uncertain

  16 Nov 07, 16:50

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Huh! it you!!!, aiya forget to read the nick, if know earlier, shouldn't have agreed with you.
  

  lol so hostile haha