This love story, its not beautiful.

• NotADream

  25 Dec 07, 16:10

  Hello i am Elaine... I dint know about this until yesterday and to be frank, I am very very happy. It just meant that he is bent on us being together. 3 Weeks ago, we actually E-Filed our registration of marriage to the Registry of Marriage. It was just a rush of rashness at that time but after lots and lots of thought, we decided to go along with the marriage. Too, we also booked a bridal package, with gowns, bridal car and photoshoots. The only thing that is lacking now is that, we donÂ’t know if we should book a banquet at the hotel. The thought of relativesÂ… We still have lots to do, like getting a house, our responsibilities and much more, but we can work those out in time to come.. The cost is slightly over what we thought it would be, but still we are happy with it.
  
  Thanks to everybody here, I think that the people here affected our (or rather his) decision a lot.
  
• Yunhaier

  25 Dec 07, 20:44

  Originally posted by NotADream:

  Hello i am Elaine... I dint know about this until yesterday and to be frank, I am very very happy. It just meant that he is bent on us being together. 3 Weeks ago, we actually E-Filed our registration of marriage to the Registry of Marriage. It was just a rush of rashness at that time but after lots and lots of thought, we decided to go along with the marriage. Too, we also booked a bridal package, with gowns, bridal car and photoshoots. The only thing that is lacking now is that, we donÂ’t know if we should book a banquet at the hotel. The thought of relativesÂ… We still have lots to do, like getting a house, our responsibilities and much more, but we can work those out in time to come.. The cost is slightly over what we thought it would be, but still we are happy with it.
  
  Thanks to everybody here, I think that the people here affected our (or rather his) decision a lot.
  

  I don't think it's the people here.
  
  Some posts merely spoke his courage; he just acted upon it.
  
  You see - you can't act on something if you don't have it inside of you.
  
  All the best!
  
  Cheers
• M©+square

  26 Dec 07, 02:31

  Interesting outcome.
  
  All the best.
• 787180

  26 Dec 07, 19:13

  Originally posted by NotADream:

  Hello i am Elaine... I dint know about this until yesterday and to be frank, I am very very happy. It just meant that he is bent on us being together. 3 Weeks ago, we actually E-Filed our registration of marriage to the Registry of Marriage. It was just a rush of rashness at that time but after lots and lots of thought, we decided to go along with the marriage. Too, we also booked a bridal package, with gowns, bridal car and photoshoots. The only thing that is lacking now is that, we donÂ’t know if we should book a banquet at the hotel. The thought of relativesÂ… We still have lots to do, like getting a house, our responsibilities and much more, but we can work those out in time to come.. The cost is slightly over what we thought it would be, but still we are happy with it.
  
  Thanks to everybody here, I think that the people here affected our (or rather his) decision a lot.
  

  ..My warmest congrats...btw is this the first relationship for each of u?
• purpledragon84

  27 Dec 07, 03:12

  this is one beautiful love story
• HyuugaNeji

  30 Dec 07, 14:06

  so how TS, did you manage to make it beautiful?
• lonestar86

  31 Dec 07, 12:18

  To TS..
  
  Your love story is so beautiful..
  Wish u guys have a blissful marriage..
  
• Lin Yu

  14 Feb 08, 23:24

  Originally posted by NotADream:

  Hello to everybody. We have decided to get married on 2008 Feburary 14th.
  
  We would not have an extravagant wedding and will get small one held at YMCA hotel with just a few tables for close friends and families. I have a saving of 20K and she has around 10 k more then me. We plan to spend about 15K on the wedding, but really depends on the hotel. She wanted to do it at other places, but i would not want her to miss out on what every woman deserves.
  
  The rest of the money would be used for our house downpayment's, and hopefully we would be able to convince the owner of her rented apartment to sell it to us, as it is a beautiful place with great memories.
  
  I would be graduating in 2 years time, and meanwhile, i would still be working full time and studying part time and she would still get on with her career.
  
  We figured that financially, it would hopefully not be a problem. At the most, i take on more jobs during free time.
  
  Now, its just about convincing both parents, and friends.
  
  Thanks everybody here, the advices and questions you guys posted helped alot, and yes, we would definitely be smiling as we walk down the aisle.

  
  Congratulation to NotADream & Elaine

   

  May this Day be full of Memories and Love

    

• purpledragon84

  15 Feb 08, 01:17

  Originally posted by Lin Yu:

  
  Congratulation to NotADream & Elaine

   

  May this Day be full of Memories and Love

    

  
  CLAP CLAP!! initially i thot why bump old thread.. woo so happy for them!

• sorasky

  15 Feb 08, 15:49

  YAO XING FU WOR

• hao_hao

  15 Feb 08, 17:02

  wow .. happy ending ... all the best to the couple :).... zao sheng gui zi ....

• ahseng1515

  23 Apr 08, 22:30

  Just do it brother!

  It is your happiness and not others. No worries... If everything is fine they will not say anything also. Don't resort to any ideas of making her pregnant then tell the whole world. I'ts not the right thing to do! :)

• purpledragon84

  23 Apr 08, 22:37

  friend, welcome to sgf, but this thread is way expired..=)

• I miss old annoucements

  23 Apr 08, 22:50

  I think age really does not matter as long as you love her.

• RedizAlertz

  24 Apr 08, 13:15

  So wat's the news now?? It has been 2 mths after TS & Elaine is married..

  Sure hope can see TS update us soon!

• BadzMaro

  24 Apr 08, 13:28

  A rare happy ending in A.A.

   

• Karma88

  24 Apr 08, 16:33

  Hope u guys wont regreat getting married

• cuddles

  24 Apr 08, 16:47

  wonderful! Best wishes!

• MS

  24 Apr 08, 22:52

  I know a poor chinese bloke many years back had an Indian gf. He wanted to marry her and buy a 4 room HDB estate and buy a Honda Civic. He didn't really have the absolute acceptance from his in laws initially. But being a very dynamic person, he proved his worth. They now have a son and runs his own business. By the way, he drives a Lamborghini and stays in a bungalow now. His wife also runs a retail chain. They went on TV sometime back to talk about his success in his business.

   

  And naturally, his in-laws were convinced their daughter didn't choosed the wrong guy.

   

  It is all about the content of the man that matters most. Racial discrimination, age, appearance are merely fleeting images that will fade with time.

• Sagara

  24 Apr 08, 23:03

  nice. All the best : )

• Beyond Religion

  25 Apr 08, 16:48

  Originally posted by Lin Yu:

  
  Congratulation to NotADream & Elaine

   

  May this Day be full of Memories and Love

    

  
  I wonder if their wedding has proceeded according to plan? Have not heard from them since Dec last year... A little worried about them.

• purpledragon84

  25 Apr 08, 23:48

  Originally posted by Beyond Religion:

  
  I wonder if their wedding has proceeded according to plan? Have not heard from them since Dec last year... A little worried about them.

  there are many ppl who come and go in sgforums.. if they dun post back den we can only give them our blessings=)

• CrabbyShaSha

  26 Apr 08, 02:41

  wow o.O I'm so impressed! I haven't logged in for a while and am glad that I did to see this post. I agree with someone out there saying age is not a guarantee of maturity. I have met older guys who were far more immature than younger guys, and they still don't seem to get it I guess till today. Congrats to TS for registering their marriage. It's always so heart-warming to know that there're such brave people around. It's a beautiful story.
• FirePig

  26 Apr 08, 02:47

  i agree with the title. Its not beautiful.