Yunhaier Betrayal Poll
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B.
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B
It's one heck of a situation to get yourself stuck in. Many times you won't know what to do next and 'Breakup' is often on your mind and you don't wanna let go -
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still A.Originally posted by Yunhaier:
My topic is very straightforward - A is only A; it doesn't include B with A in it.
I can quote you a hypothetical scenario (A):
- You indulge in your career, because you love your woman and wants to earn as much to settle down.
- As a result you neglected her
- Her good friend substituted your presence, although she merely sees him as a very good friend.
- One day, you had a quarrel with her and she went drinking with this good friend.
- Out of confusion, she ended up in bed with this good friend.
- But she regreted it and never loved him - but the fact remains: she betrayed you physical, even though emotionally, her soul is still yours.
Cheers
if she can do once, she can do twice.
Guys who say B, i salute them.
they are too wei da.
unless it happened when we are not together, else cannot forgive.
however, in B, nothing "seeable" is lost. -
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B sooner or later will go into that somebody's hands.. -
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B
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i would choose A.
perhaps i haven't reached the stage where only love matters.
physical attractions still come into play.
but guess ultimately in the long run i would choose B.
as of now, A is my choice
what's yours Yunhaier -
B.
When the mind's not there, the battle's lost. -
B for sure
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B
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It would be A because this is a matter of self control and responsibility.
B is something emotional, and is much more difficult to control. -
x2 . AOriginally posted by extrinsic:still A.
if she can do once, she can do twice.
Guys who say B, i salute them.
they are too wei da.
unless it happened when we are not together, else cannot forgive.
however, in B, nothing "seeable" is lost. -
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i will choose B
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Definitely B for me.
What's the point of us being together if her heart is no longer with me... -
if u say this . can u accept her if she with u but on bed with other guy? u can accept? i salute people who choose BOriginally posted by nanren4ever:Definitely B for me.
What's the point of us being together if her heart is no longer with me... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
is it possible for case A to happen ? physical affair with someone but heart still with you? maybe the heart is not really with you?
Which is worst to you?
A) Physical betrayal? (She/He had a physical affair with someone, but his/heart is still with you)
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B) Emotional betrayal? (He/she has another person in mind; but no physical affairs).
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A) 4 (25%)
B) 12 (75%)
Total (9): hondapons, popikachu, extrinsic, Darkness_hacker99, bluejuice, turbo_drift, laurence82, angelfairy, 798, fairlady_xoxo, martin_lim85, tinuviel07, Patrik, oOprinceOo, BrUtUs, KrenByte
P.S: [b]To be included in the poll, one must either state 'A' or 'B' in their post.
Cheers [/b]
doko -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
First and foremost, my apologies as I do not mean any insult. But I do find the following option hilarious.
Which is worst to you?
A) Physical betrayal? (She/He had a physical affair with someone, but his/heart is still with you)
OR
B) Emotional betrayal? (He/she has another person in mind; but no physical affairs).
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A) 4 (25%)
B) 12 (75%)
Total (9): hondapons, popikachu, extrinsic, Darkness_hacker99, bluejuice, turbo_drift, laurence82, angelfairy, 798, fairlady_xoxo, martin_lim85, tinuviel07, Patrik, oOprinceOo, BrUtUs, KrenByte
P.S: [b]To be included in the poll, one must either state 'A' or 'B' in their post.
Cheers [/b]
A) Physical betrayal? (She/He had a physical affair with someone, but his/heart is still with you)
If the person still has you in his/her heart in the first place, will he/she even subjects himself/herself into a risky situation whereby the temptation to betray can be overwhelming?
It is hypocrital & extremely humiliating to all 3 parties to have a sexual relationship with a person yet professes his/her heart is still with his/her official lover. -
i have been asking myself this q these few days also..
and i think both are unacceptable.
it's still betrayal, be it emotionally or physically.
but if really have to choose one, i'll choose physical..
coz i believe to get physical, there muz be some emotional betrayal involved too. -
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Definitely A for me. The mind is subject to change, even if you love some other man/woman outside your marriage does not mean you do not love your spouse anymore.
But if you have physical affair outside your marriage, its already a fact that can never be change since you have commited adultery. -
beeeeeeeeeeeee~~~
i dun mind if the other person wans to fark arnd...but i find a relationship useless if he/she loves another person instead of u...
if that's the case might as well say byebye~~~