breakup..
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i stead with this guy for almost 3 years le...
because of certain conflicts, we 'broke up' a few times but in e end oso patch back..and now, we broke up again...i don feel extremely sad or anything..because i have this hope that we'd get back together again..but i know sooner or later, it'd all come down onto me..both of us are still very much in love..im jus afraid that he'd fall for other girls during this break.. im quite insecured la..sighz..why am i liddat.. -
after so many times of breakup, you still feel the same for him?? and how can you assure that he love you as much/the same as u do? normally after 2-3 times of breaking, i guess its time to give it a stop... cuz it will bcum like wad u menioned,u wn feel anything, as u find it —��Š“–‘R�B break liao will patch.. so wun give much thought abt it.. den wad's the point? if breaking up means nth to either party, wad's the point of patching up again? u can say both are still heavily in love, how long u think this relationshp can last?? this kind of break patch break patchu think cn last u till u marry to him? till you both grow old?
anyway.. give it a thought..its just my opinion..
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if both of u really mutually love each other, there is no need to worry!
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This is pretty common. Just make sure he still loves you. Girls often feel insecure. You are doubting your boyfriend. Thats all I can say. You have to give him your trust.
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i thought u say both of u patch back many times..
should be season oredy wat
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1) What is the reason that lead to both of you keep breaking up?Originally posted by mir4cle:i stead with this guy for almost 3 years le...
because of certain conflicts, we 'broke up' a few times but in e end oso patch back..and now, we broke up again...i don feel extremely sad or anything..because i have this hope that we'd get back together again..but i know sooner or later, it'd all come down onto me..both of us are still very much in love..im jus afraid that he'd fall for other girls during this break.. im quite insecured la..sighz..why am i liddat..
2) Is he handsome ?
3) is he rich ? earning more than $3k? -
er..no..he's not..we both are jus students..Originally posted by Guardx:1) What is the reason that lead to both of you keep breaking up?
2) Is he handsome ?
3) is he rich ? earning more than $3k?
e reason why we break up this time is cos we feel that it is the best way to solve our problem..other times, it's cos we both quarrel..yeahh..but in e end he always say 'sorry' even though sometimes it's my fault.. -
through each conflict... did you guys learn anything to manage your r/s better. If now, then its a constant cycle that will wer you both out eventually...
Its not the break up but the lesson that you need to quickly learn, correct and move on.. -
look just because you are a girl doesn't mean he has to say sorry to you. And you do admit it's your Princessy ways..Originally posted by mir4cle:er..no..he's not..we both are jus students..
e reason why we break up this time is cos we feel that it is the best way to solve our problem..other times, it's cos we both quarrel..yeahh..but in e end he always say 'sorry' even though sometimes it's my fault..
forget this relationship. you drove him away... cos the cracks are there.
doko -
you story is very very similar with mine...
well...
we are also together for 3 years... but not 3 full years... as we broke and patch a number of time...
and we break off just because of an argument...
Me and her still like each other til now...
And we know we won't be together with each other again...
Well... life still goes on...
so... Move on...
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If it is meant to be, both of you will be together in the end.
Being insecure sometime gravitate towards negative results.
Cos insecurity can lead to paranoid behavior which can lead to argument/accusation.
Be yourself and have a little bit of faith that things will work out eventually.
Ps: Love is a game, an investment.. there is ALWAYS a risk. -
IMO I felt that couples should not break up so easily. Yes there may be differences and challenging situations i.e. quarrels, tiffs, misunderstandings and etc. But as mature adults I felt that one should not break up unless you really want to.
A lot of times I find that values like faithfulness, commitment, loyalty and patience are in short supply. Being attached already means that both parties are stepping forward towards a more serious r/s which will culminate to marriage. And I find that couples should exercise more tact and values that are healthy towards a long term r/s.
If we cannot be serious during this stage I think it will be harder during marriage. Don't forget romance isn't stopping upon marriage. In fact it is just the opposite, it is the beginning indeed. Think about it.
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y so many kids break up and patch again so many times.. its so funny
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u said it urself dduudeOriginally posted by Zarks:y so many kids break up and patch again so many times.. its so funny
im a kid too
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i'm sorry la but i just feel that yr r/s don't seem quite stable. breakup isn't the best solution to a quarrel or disagreement. and don't let him always say sorry and admit to mistakes first. he will get tired and eventually, he will come to hate being the one sustaining the r/s when it is about to collapse.
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old one dun go,new one how to come in.
e feeling u have are "used to" and not "like" anymore.
move on.
dun waste his time,most importantly,dun waste ur time. -
ya lor, dun waste time, study first hor.
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You're insecured cause you're not sure what he really thinks about you. How do you know he really really loves you ? Is it just because he says "I love you", gives you a kiss, makes you feel all warm inside ?Originally posted by mir4cle:i stead with this guy for almost 3 years le...
because of certain conflicts, we 'broke up' a few times but in e end oso patch back..and now, we broke up again...i don feel extremely sad or anything..because i have this hope that we'd get back together again..but i know sooner or later, it'd all come down onto me..both of us are still very much in love..im jus afraid that he'd fall for other girls during this break.. im quite insecured la..sighz..why am i liddat..
Remember - guys are manipulative freaks. (: -
be true to him and have a good talk with him. u will feel better