Puzzled...
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I always find this behaviour of guys disturbing. Or does it apply to girls too?
Guys can appear so interested in you and the next minute, they are attached to another girl even though the period between dropping hints to you and getting attached is just a mere 2 weeks.
So, does that mean:
1) They are just not seriously interested in you anyways
2) They are afraid of rejection
3) Besides dropping hints to you, they are also dropping hints to other girls at the same time. Which means, the first one who reciprocates, gets the guy?
4) ???
What's your views? -
if he no get any respond from u, he assume u not interested, so dun waste time, move on to next available one
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Wow! That goes to show that the guy is really desperate! really dun have a lot of time to waste, man!
Sigh...
What happens to the guys/girls nowadays? Or, what happens to Love nowadays?
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Nope you cannot just conclude desperate.Originally posted by ILPSY:Wow! That goes to show that the guy is really desperate! really dun have a lot of time to waste, man!
Sigh...
What happens to the guys/girls nowadays? Or, what happens to Love nowadays?
So sad!
Guys are not girls remember. Girls have the power to reject. You expect the guy to wait and wait? nah~ Coz some girls just don't like some type of guys.
I believe the same goes for girls right? It's not considerate to let people wait. It's not about being desperate.
doko -
wah this qn very chim...
i better go ask my gf...
oh wait maybe my very very very very frenly girl neighbour i am very very well acquainted with...
nah... i think still muz ask my darling at the next block.... -
ok la... i ans seriously this time...
This one natural... coz he just reach puberty mah...
all guys reach that age sure like to drop hint to a lot girls coz they hot blooded.
It DNA and hormones....
dun blame men. without the egg, the sperm cant produce males. So females are also half at fault. -
2 weeks?
one day also have lor..
those guys are damn despos.
be glad that he's not ur bf. -
Love doesn't come from the mouth, it need to be shown through action and important is that heart needed to be proved to other party.Originally posted by ILPSY:Wow! That goes to show that the guy is really desperate! really dun have a lot of time to waste, man!
Sigh...
What happens to the guys/girls nowadays? Or, what happens to Love nowadays?
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Oh, doko, an expert in giving advice on relationship. Anyway, you make sense.Originally posted by dokono:Nope you cannot just conclude desperate.
Guys are not girls remember. Girls have the power to reject. You expect the guy to wait and wait? nah~ Coz some girls just don't like some type of guys.
I believe the same goes for girls right? It's not considerate to let people wait. It's not about being desperate.
doko
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Guys, ha ha ha. Guys are just like women, nan ren xing hai ti zhen. Shake head
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haha lol poor thing kena rejected by guy is it?Originally posted by ILPSY:I always find this behaviour of guys disturbing. Or does it apply to girls too?
Guys can appear so interested in you and the next minute, they are attached to another girl even though the period between dropping hints to you and getting attached is just a mere 2 weeks.
So, does that mean:
1) They are just not seriously interested in you anyways
2) They are afraid of rejection
3) Besides dropping hints to you, they are also dropping hints to other girls at the same time. Which means, the first one who reciprocates, gets the guy?
4) ???
What's your views?
haiz nowdays 2 weeks is consider short.
In the old days a guy waited so long for an answer in the end still do not get the gal so why wait?
The question is simply why wait for someone who only wants the feeling of kena chase but refuse to commit.
I admit I was like that once, I chase and waited for a long time but in the end I found that it was a total waste of my time and effort.
Since this thread is about the waiting time. my questions for the TS are as follow,
1) How long will you wait for the guy to answer if you hint that you like a guy ?
2) Are you able to face him and your friends if he rejects you?
3) Lets change the story a bit, lets say that hinted a guy that you like him, along came another better looking and richer guy who asked you to be his gf.
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If I can lose interest in a girl very quickly, I don't see why such things don't happen.Originally posted by qlqq9:Oh, doko, an expert in giving advice on relationship. Anyway, you make sense.
It's human nature.
doko -
It's partly your fault. If you are interest in that guy, then you should also give some obvious hint.Originally posted by ILPSY:I always find this behaviour of guys disturbing. Or does it apply to girls too?
Guys can appear so interested in you and the next minute, they are attached to another girl even though the period between dropping hints to you and getting attached is just a mere 2 weeks.
So, does that mean:
1) They are just not seriously interested in you anyways
2) They are afraid of rejection
3) Besides dropping hints to you, they are also dropping hints to other girls at the same time. Which means, the first one who reciprocates, gets the guy?
4) ???
What's your views?
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tt guy is just being friendlyOriginally posted by ILPSY:I always find this behaviour of guys disturbing. Or does it apply to girls too?
Guys can appear so interested in you and the next minute, they are attached to another girl even though the period between dropping hints to you and getting attached is just a mere 2 weeks.
So, does that mean:
1) They are just not seriously interested in you anyways
2) They are afraid of rejection
3) Besides dropping hints to you, they are also dropping hints to other girls at the same time. Which means, the first one who reciprocates, gets the guy?
4) ???
What's your views?
the girl is reading too much into it
if he treats every girl like tt, then tts the way he treats his friends -
very complicated
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Well...
Maybe some of you will say that it is uncommon for a person to show concern/interest/friendly to another person. But, I am a person who is friendly almost to my friend until that if a guy dates me consecutively for the whole week, I will not perceive it as something unusual. I just treat it as that person is bored and needs some company.
The fact that I am not looking for a relationship, makes me unable to "decode" the hints that have been dropping onto me. Its only when I was chatting with my friends that they commented that the guys were actually interested in me. So, when I decided to give it a try, the next minute when you finally get in touch with the guy within a 2-week span, the guy had already found himself a gf.
So, this sometimes keeps me wondering that am I really that undesirable for someone to wait around longer than that 2 weeks....
Well, of course, I would agree with some forumners that it is better to move on if you realised that the person you are interested in, is not interested in you. But if the person that they met is like me, then, maybe, they would have miss something, isn't it?
Why do guys only drop hints and don't ask directly? I guess it has to do with age. The older a person gets, the more subtle they become. hmm.... -
Guys are very visual when it comes to attracting their attention. We all naturally like what we are attracted to but this attraction only remains in the "RAM"(temporary) only unless we decide to transfer the attraction to be saved onto the harddisk(heart). It is only at this time when the attraction becomes more serious, as in a fondness that may inspire development into some relationship.
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I guess that happens to girls as well....Originally posted by :Guys are very visual when it comes to attracting their attention. We all naturally like what we are attracted to but this attraction only remains in the "RAM"(temporary) only unless we decide to transfer the attraction to be saved onto the harddisk(heart). It is only at this time when the attraction becomes more serious, as in a fondness that may inspire development into some relationship. -
What if a person whom you don't like confessed to you. What will you do? Will the friendship with him be strained? Please stand from his point of view and think.Originally posted by ILPSY:Well...
Maybe some of you will say that it is uncommon for a person to show concern/interest/friendly to another person. But, I am a person who is friendly almost to my friend until that if a guy dates me consecutively for the whole week, I will not perceive it as something unusual. I just treat it as that person is bored and needs some company.
The fact that I am not looking for a relationship, makes me unable to "decode" the hints that have been dropping onto me. Its only when I was chatting with my friends that they commented that the guys were actually interested in me. So, when I decided to give it a try, the next minute when you finally get in touch with the guy within a 2-week span, the guy had already found himself a gf.
So, this sometimes keeps me wondering that am I really that undesirable for someone to wait around longer than that 2 weeks....
Well, of course, I would agree with some forumners that it is better to move on if you realised that the person you are interested in, is not interested in you. But if the person that they met is like me, then, maybe, they would have miss something, isn't it?
Why do guys only drop hints and don't ask directly? I guess it has to do with age. The older a person gets, the more subtle they become. hmm.... -
Yoy have arrived at the wrong conclusion lah.........Originally posted by ILPSY:Wow! That goes to show that the guy is really desperate! really dun have a lot of time to waste, man!
Sigh...
What happens to the guys/girls nowadays? Or, what happens to Love nowadays?
So sad!
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Well.. I guess for me, I will tell him that I am not interested in him. And yes, I will be friends with him. This happened to me before after I confessed to the guy, years back, and even though we are not an item, we still keep the friendship. Sometimes, its easier to move on when there is a closure, even if the result is not what you wanted.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:What if a person whom you don't like confessed to you. What will you do? Will the friendship with him be strained? Please stand from his point of view and think.
But, I guess, not many people are like me.
I don't blame those guys behaving like that at all. Their behaviour are normal. That happens to girls as well. However, their actions just made me think that I am that undesirable to for them to hang around for more than 2 weeks. Thats depressing!
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Well, there are always desperate guys out there. That goes the same for desperate girls out there too....Originally posted by :Yoy have arrived at the wrong conclusion lah.........
Well... maybe, desperate is not the word to use. They are able to let go much more easily than others....
Sounds better?