Why is it the Girl...???
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3 years ago, it was my final year in my secondary school. During the last few months in school, I have the chance to meet a girl, then in Secondary 2. When I first seeing her at the assembly area, I started wanting to be her friend. However, some of my classmates dislikes her because she was a prefect, and so I did not have the chance to approach her.
Every night, I will be thinking of her. I don't know why is that so. Maybe is the feeling. I went online to the school's chatroom to look for her but she was not there. Asking her friends about her, most of them don't know.
After my final year, I have even lesser and lesser time to see her. Have to say, only 1 year at most 2-3 times, which include going back to school for teacher's day and chinese new year celebration.
Once, I went to school to look for her. I want to make friend with her. However, when she came out of her school, there was too many people. I do not have any chance to approach her. Therefore, what was in my mind was: Follow her to her place, at the void deck, walk up to her and ask her to friend.
However, upon reaching the place, I lost touch with her. Then I went home and went to irc. Surprisingly, I saw her there and she admitted that she is the girl. I told her that I wanted to be her friend and to be very honest with her, I told her I followed her home. Actually, I should not tell her. She was angry with me and I knew I was in the wrong.
How, I deciding whether I should stop this 3 years torture or not. Even if she really agree to be a normal friend with me, will we have any chance to go for a meal, show, etc? Will she? Will I get to see her often even? Worse still, I will be enlisted for NS very soon, prehaps mid of next year.
Should I rather go for my few best male friends instead, who are all without girlfriends?
I have been thinking of her these few days and it is making me sick.
I really hope that any of you can suggest to me. I am very frustrated already and I hope no stupid comments. Hoping all of you can understand my situation and need some good and usable advise. Any of you with such problem can also comment and share your view. -
It's part of growing up, infatuation happens to every mortal, it will be beautiful if yours shall blossom; do your best action, don't guess: just ask her directly. Godspeed my fren. -
Sometimes, its best to take action rather than planning for it. If you really think planning for the right time (the right scenario) to take action, it will definitely be too late & you will live to regret this.
Go forward and either : realize this dream or wake up your idea
after being rejected
anyway it's better for you to take action than to plan. Coz in life, there is never the right time, only the right action. 
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As Liu Bei says:
Brothers are like your limbs,
woman are like clothes
so go for woman -
Did you manage to get her number beside email? The best way to to "personally" meet her and tell her your feelings. Nothing beats that in sincerity, but both must be willing party. Her reaction to you will be solely based on her maturity. If she's mature you might have a chance to meet, if not she might even hate you. But that's the kind of gamble we take when we go for the love of our life. Besides, it's better to clear things up than to have that suspense that's driving you crazy/sick.Originally posted by sgboy:3 years ago, it was my final year in my secondary school. During the last few months in school, I have the chance to meet a girl, then in Secondary 2. When I first seeing her at the assembly area, I started wanting to be her friend. However, some of my classmates dislikes her because she was a prefect, and so I did not have the chance to approach her.
Every night, I will be thinking of her. I don't know why is that so. Maybe is the feeling. I went online to the school's chatroom to look for her but she was not there. Asking her friends about her, most of them don't know.
After my final year, I have even lesser and lesser time to see her. Have to say, only 1 year at most 2-3 times, which include going back to school for teacher's day and chinese new year celebration.
Once, I went to school to look for her. I want to make friend with her. However, when she came out of her school, there was too many people. I do not have any chance to approach her. Therefore, what was in my mind was: Follow her to her place, at the void deck, walk up to her and ask her to friend.
However, upon reaching the place, I lost touch with her. Then I went home and went to irc. Surprisingly, I saw her there and she admitted that she is the girl. I told her that I wanted to be her friend and to be very honest with her, I told her I followed her home. Actually, I should not tell her. She was angry with me and I knew I was in the wrong.
How, I deciding whether I should stop this 3 years torture or not. Even if she really agree to be a normal friend with me, will we have any chance to go for a meal, show, etc? Will she? Will I get to see her often even? Worse still, I will be enlisted for NS very soon, prehaps mid of next year.
Should I rather go for my few best male friends instead, who are all without girlfriends?
I have been thinking of her these few days and it is making me sick.
I really hope that any of you can suggest to me. I am very frustrated already and I hope no stupid comments. Hoping all of you can understand my situation and need some good and usable advise. Any of you with such problem can also comment and share your view.
To succeed, never fear failure....that's part and parcel of life.
sgboy....it's time to be sgman..... goodluck... -
I tried to approach her this morning. I waiting at the void deck for her. She came down and when I saw her, I turned around to avoid her. When i deceided to approach her, she was lost.
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aiyoh wasted...Originally posted by sgboy:I tried to approach her this morning. I waiting at the void deck for her. She came down and when I saw her, I turned around to avoid her. When i deceided to approach her, she was lost.
go all the way there then no guts ar? muz psycho urself.. *jiayou*jiayou* -
Sigh. There is no place in the world for shy guys anymore. Next time (if there is any), do be bold.Originally posted by sgboy:I tried to approach her this morning. I waiting at the void deck for her. She came down and when I saw her, I turned around to avoid her. When i deceided to approach her, she was lost. -
Hmm.. since u like her al0t.. den try approaching her..Originally posted by sgboy:I tried to approach her this morning. I waiting at the void deck for her. She came down and when I saw her, I turned around to avoid her. When i deceided to approach her, she was lost.
U dunno whether u haf a chance when u nv even tried rite?
Maybe she oso likes u?
=) but if she realli dowan .. den u enter NS cum out.. may like someone else alreadi..
So.. either u try to forget her.. Or try to approach her.. gd luck man!
Regards,
Stephanie -
I approached her this afternoon. I did not turned back this time round. I walked towards her and she was shocked at the first place. But later, she agree to be my friend. However, why she refused to give me her number and keep on say she got my number and will call me? I asked her for a meal and she say she is busy. Why?
What is the next step(s) I should do? -
Plan B
You-didn't-call-me-so-I-thought-you-were-sick-so-I-came-to-visit-you-but-saw-you-here-instead-haha-what-a-concidence-want-to-walk-together plan. -
Well juz my 2 cent's worth...but I tink dude, the signs are not too gd for u...maybe U can try harder lor....but dun be too persistent though...else it mite put her off...Originally posted by sgboy:I approached her this afternoon. I did not turned back this time round. I walked towards her and she was shocked at the first place. But later, she agree to be my friend. However, why she refused to give me her number and keep on say she got my number and will call me? I asked her for a meal and she say she is busy. Why?
What is the next step(s) I should do?