To Ask Or Not To Ask

• DownAndOut

  2 Dec 07, 10:56

  i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
  so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?
• dbowie

  2 Dec 07, 10:57

  Uhh ..
  Ask ?
  If not you might regret later ..
• Lin Yu

  2 Dec 07, 10:58

  to ask, you stand a little chance.
  not to ask, you know you don't stand a chance at all
• DownAndOut

  2 Dec 07, 11:01

  any tips on asking? im sure gonna look like the fool..
• eagle

  2 Dec 07, 11:04

  Just go and ask la. No special method, just open your mouth and ask.
  
  Ask already then come back post what to do
• dbowie

  2 Dec 07, 11:04

  Buy her products, then open your golden mouth.
• infantry

  2 Dec 07, 11:06

  go to her and give her a RHK
• DownAndOut

  2 Dec 07, 11:06

  u know i already tried once.. went to talk to her , ended up only buying.. T_T
• Scania N113CRB luver

  2 Dec 07, 11:37

  Originally posted by infantry:

  go to her and give her a RHK

  Wtf is RHK?
• eagle

  2 Dec 07, 11:38

  Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:

  Wtf is RHK?

  rabbit horse kangaroo
• Daisuke-kun

  2 Dec 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by eagle:

  rabbit horse kangaroo

  
  evil eagle.
  
  is round house kick
• angel7030

  2 Dec 07, 15:25

  Originally posted by DownAndOut:

  i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
  so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?

  We gals are very scare of giving off h/p nos, this is because sometime when we give, there are so many calls per day that we have to change nos again, and also sometime that boy may give nos to all his other frens or wrote in some toilet or places and state our name and h/p nos, resulting in people call us and asking how much is the price!!!
  
  So, dun just go in and ask for nos, get to know her first, prove your sincerity, wait for her, ask her out, if she likes you, she will give u her nos for easy communciation. Dun be shy ya, we are not lionness. Happy courting.
• aremeis

  2 Dec 07, 18:43

  I do not think it is wise to go for her h/p no. point blank. I think a subtle greeting and casual issues are good ice breakers and then conclude by saying that you enjoyed talkiing with her and would like to continue this conversation......then pleasantly offer her your cell phone number with your messenger id....
• Isis

  2 Dec 07, 20:01

  Ask. It is really painless to ask for her number de.
• ifish

  2 Dec 07, 20:05

  u mean she salesgal?? try approach after work la..
  
  ppl working then u disturb.
  
  if not, can try smiling at her first if she smile back then just walk over la.. say hi or some thing then go introduce yourself.
  
  always work one..
• rain-coat

  2 Dec 07, 23:31

  ask lah don hum
• Nadare

  2 Dec 07, 23:34

  from my experience... just ask... if she gives u ... good.. if not .. just say thanks then walk away.... no point thinking about losing face cos u won't die or what if u get rejected...
• de_middle

  3 Dec 07, 11:12

  Originally posted by Lin Yu:

  to ask, you stand a little chance.
  not to ask, you know you don't stand a chance at all

  fantastic way of putting it
• selfobliged

  3 Dec 07, 11:17

  Originally posted by DownAndOut:

  i saw this pretty cute girl somewhere and i somehow know that shes working only till today.. i wanna get to know her but i scared of rejection.. T_T
  so im here to ask opinions.. to ask or not to ask for her number?

  ask her if there's any way to contact her.
• angel7030

  3 Dec 07, 15:00

  Since u are so lame to ask or approach her, I suggest you go home, ask mommy to make some milk for you, drink it and go to sleep nice nice..
• Aaron8209

  3 Dec 07, 15:01

  U work wit her meh?if no then forget it.
• Hanagata

  3 Dec 07, 15:02

  Originally posted by angel7030:

  Since u are so lame to ask or approach her, I suggest you go home, ask mommy to make some milk for you, drink it and go to sleep nice nice..

  lols don't be so bad lah....
  
  to TS
  
  ask and get reject better then not trying you will never know what you get until you try...
• MyParentsDunWanMe

  3 Dec 07, 15:02

  Ask for her msn
• Daisuke-kun

  3 Dec 07, 15:03

  o.
  so ur that person who has been stalking my fren.
  i tellin u.
  get away from her!!!
• angel7030

  3 Dec 07, 16:02

  Originally posted by Hanagata:

  lols don't be so bad lah....
  
  to TS
  
  ask and get reject better then not trying you will never know what you get until you try...

  Yes, I am bad, but if u look at the brigher side, I am using reverse psychology, some boys need to push abit with harsher intimating words to get them moving. If not, they will remain lame forever and in the end dun tell me we gals have to go against the rules of courting and be shameful to ask them for phone nos instead of them asking us.
  
  I am an Angel, bad and condemned by many, but with a good heart.
  
  As stated, there are more women than men in Singapore, and if men are becoming more introvert and opt for foreign gals, we Sggals will be history.