HOW?

• IMAINLUV

  3 Dec 07, 19:36

  i juz got to know this girl through a friend. most of the time my friend will try to arrange for her to meet me. she will either give excuses saying that shes shy , etc; ytd she came n look for me and my friend for lunch. we talked a little, she being shy. then sent her back to sch in my car, talk a little again. most of the time i was asking Qn.. i got her MSN 1st i was the 1 who always initiate the conversation. now i got her mobile no. but i got no idea wad to text her. i think im interested in her and hope to get to know her better 1st
  
  QN is shes always shy towards me when im around but not other guys and i got no idea whether she is interested in me.
  
  and what to text her to mayb start a conversation to know her better
• thoreldan

  3 Dec 07, 20:03

  try to fix a one-to-one outing with her
  
  
• Lenne

  3 Dec 07, 20:13

  find any topic just to start her talking, warm her up.. den through the various topic, there are bound to be some which she is more interested in? then after that confirm got more things to say.. most importantly is to say things that will make her laugh... maybe tell her jokes or wad.. dun let the conversation die off..
  
  remember to call her n not sms.. cos sms u will not know her reaction.. hope that will help..
• caleb_chiang

  3 Dec 07, 20:16

  just find an excuse to meet up with her lor... else it would be all talk...
• annoy-you-must

  3 Dec 07, 20:28

  Originally posted by Lenne:

  find any topic just to start her talking, warm her up.. den through the various topic, there are bound to be some which she is more interested in? then after that confirm got more things to say.. most importantly is to say things that will make her laugh... maybe tell her jokes or wad.. dun let the conversation die off..
  
  remember to call her n not sms.. cos sms u will not know her reaction.. hope that will help..

  But sms can give the girl time to think of a tactful answer mah. If call her then she have to respond faster, then maybe she'll answer something she don't really mean to say.
  
  She's shy, remember?
• popikachu

  3 Dec 07, 20:31

  hmm...
  
  just ask her what she doing lor...
  i always do this to strike up a conversation with someone using handphone...
• de_middle

  3 Dec 07, 20:38

  welcome.....
• IMAINLUV

  3 Dec 07, 23:06

  Originally posted by Lenne:

  find any topic just to start her talking, warm her up.. den through the various topic, there are bound to be some which she is more interested in? then after that confirm got more things to say.. most importantly is to say things that will make her laugh... maybe tell her jokes or wad.. dun let the conversation die off..
  
  remember to call her n not sms.. cos sms u will not know her reaction.. hope that will help..

  Call her?
  
  i only talked to her a few times...
• IMAINLUV

  3 Dec 07, 23:13

  hmm another problem..
  
  most of the time im the 1 asking Qn...
  
  im afraid too much questions will make her think im disturbing her or sumthing...
• Lenne

  3 Dec 07, 23:15

  hehe. i think as long as u know each other, its ok to call la. cos for sms, i think u might be happily sms-ing each other, but turns out when meet face to face still nothing to talk about one, and i believe talking on the phone does help to break the ice bah..
  
  u can sms her also la. as long as dun lose contact, let her know of ur existence can le..
• jojobeach

  4 Dec 07, 04:56

  Originally posted by IMAINLUV:

  i juz got to know this girl through a friend. most of the time my friend will try to arrange for her to meet me. she will either give excuses saying that shes shy , etc; ytd she came n look for me and my friend for lunch. we talked a little, she being shy. then sent her back to sch in my car, talk a little again. most of the time i was asking Qn.. i got her MSN 1st i was the 1 who always initiate the conversation. now i got her mobile no. but i got no idea wad to text her. i think im interested in her and hope to get to know her better 1st
  
  QN is shes always shy towards me when im around but not other guys and i got no idea whether she is interested in me.
  
  and what to text her to mayb start a conversation to know her better

  When she is shy only in your presence, then YES, she is interested in you.
  
  You can stop making your friend the messenger and start asking her out for a date on your own.
  
  Quit the messaging game and just ASK HER OUT.
  
  For the first date, always give at least 4-5 days allowance in case the date clash with her schedule. ( She still have a life too you know).
  
  " I'd like to invite you out for a drink/dinner this weekend. I'd be a very happy man if you'd say yes."
  
  Dating a girl out does not means you are in a relationship.
  It just means you want to get to know her more IN PERSON.
  
  NEVER say things like " hey I'm bored, you free tonight ?".
  No girl wants to feel like she's just a spare at your disposal.
  
  
• Hello Kitty

  4 Dec 07, 04:59

  bang her 1st.
  
  aft dat, she wil tok le.
  
  by den, u wan ask her stop tokin oso diff.
  
• T.Ryousuke

  4 Dec 07, 08:00

  1st time date huh? try harder, nothing to be shy of, treat her as a normal friend. Just call and talk lah.
• subaru67

  5 Dec 07, 10:11

  just ask her out on a single date and slowly proceed from there
• red_amoeba

  5 Dec 07, 10:17

  you have dick right? BE a man and just ask her out - why beat around the bush and act coy?
  
  If you are interested in her, just ask her out for a nice dinner and get to know her better. If she on, then on, if not, move on...its Internet age liao...no need to scared this scared that...scarely ppl come and take her first...
• Uncertain

  5 Dec 07, 10:31

  The forumers have given u splendid replies and i gonna used those tactic.
  
  Let's work hard TS, de_middle also go used this method lol haha
• de_middle

  5 Dec 07, 10:33

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  The forumers have given u splendid replies and i gonna used those tactic.
  
  Let's work hard TS, de_middle also go used this method lol haha

  aiya bro, me gone case liao lah...u still have a long way to go.
• subaru67

  5 Dec 07, 10:38

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  aiya bro, me gone case liao lah...u still have a long way to go.

  what happen?
• Uncertain

  5 Dec 07, 12:52

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  aiya bro, me gone case liao lah...u still have a long way to go.

  Relax la bro.. 30+ is still reasonable age to get married lol... act fast. I dun want to c u in old folk home leh...
• jojobeach

  5 Dec 07, 13:08

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  Relax la bro.. 30+ is still reasonable age to get married lol... act fast. I dun want to c u in old folk home leh...

  No worries, you can always find one while you're IN the old folks home.
• subaru67

  5 Dec 07, 13:27

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  No worries, you can always find one while you're IN the old folks home.

  omg
• IMAINLUV

  5 Dec 07, 18:31

  thank you for the replies
• Uncertain

  5 Dec 07, 18:35

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  No worries, you can always find one while you're IN the old folks home.

  
• kensongs

  6 Dec 07, 14:22

  ask her out on a date, asap
• jojobeach

  6 Dec 07, 14:40

  Originally posted by Uncertain:

  

  What !
  
  I seriously don't understand why men are so kan chiong to find a woman.
  They have all the time in the world to get one that is truly suitable.
  Why do they keep rushing into a relationship and then find that it wasn't meant to be ?
  
  It's not like they have a shelf life like a woman for getting pregnant.
  And in our society, it's ok for men to marry a young wife.
  
  So guys.... take your time~