I hate my job
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It just makes me so miserable
I cant stand my supervisor. Sometimes the way he speaks to me makes me feel so degraded. I hate the way he talks.
He really expects too much from me.
I cant communicate with him at all.
After every conversation with him just makes my mood drop to an all time low.
Dunno how long i can take it anymore.
Every tiny mistake i make gets amplified by the thousands.
I really wanna do my job well but i'm just getting more and more demoralised, i have no mood to be enthusiatic and optimistic like i had been trying for so long.
I'm just so sad.
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er, cannot change meh?
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quit and change lor
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I wish
Ok, for more info, i'm having attachment.
U think can quit meh?
If not why u think i so stress.
At the end of the whole thing he has to write my evaluation, and that plays a big part in whether i pass or fail.
But so far things have not been not so good..no.. things have been TERRIBLE!
Is like..no matter how hard i really try, he thinks i'm not making enough effort, thinks i'm those boh chup ppl.
Ok. i'm not exactly very hadworking but i really did try my best. Seriously.
Really envy those ppl with slack attachment, those with those type of job nothing to do one, so no room for mistakes and no worrying whether u will pass or fail. sigh
Why my supervisor so hard to get along with. Why is it some of my friends get supervisors that are so easy going, can joke around with, go outing together some can even share their BGR problems with their supervisor. wtf right. -
attachment nia, dun care so much & enjoy life
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well, i was once (ok, maybe more than once) on the verge of failing.
Its just so strict here.
If not why u think i so stress. I dont wanna retain ok. I'm almost graduating already.
I also have to continue my education. Everyone has high expectations from me. Retaining will never be in my dictionary.
Just have to tahan 2 more months.
God, give me strength. Sigh, time to be religious. -
aiya...depend how many % the attachment score determine your over all score.
If not very large, then don't take it too seriously - just be punctual, do your work and f*** off.
But then again, its also the same in outside world, you may not have a supervisor that love you - so, you need to manage him.... -
You decide your own importance.
If you feel that you're not important in the company, then probably you're just nothing.
But actually, the company really needs you. And I feel that you need a praise~ You decide your own importance.
Hope you can understand what I say. -
Training makes one tougher...
Scolded by him, proved to him of ur capability. When i was working in one of the government sector, got one lady also very picky and fierce of me.
But then, i prove to her of my ability and we ended being gd friend, she even ask me when can i go back and help her cos i am still in uni now.
When she scolded me, i also lan lan though a bit buay song. Somemore, that time she wants me to process like 400 passes per day, i also obliged cos i am working
I proved to her, i can do much more advanced thing and i can do them fast with no error.
Dun cry over minor scolding, it is a form of training. -
gather evidence, talk to ur industrial attachment coordinator
but then, i think this is oso good training
cos when u go out and work next time, this is wat u will face! -
Not all bosses are unreasonable. With the job market so hot, employers wont dare to treat their employees like shit or they might find their employees walking off one by one...Originally posted by FireIce:gather evidence, talk to ur industrial attachment coordinator
but then, i think this is oso good training
cos when u go out and work next time, this is wat u will face! -
Hmm... yeah. The thing is, if i dont pass my employer's evaluation i also wont pass my atttachment.Originally posted by red_amoeba:aiya...depend how many % the attachment score determine your over all score.
If not very large, then don't take it too seriously - just be punctual, do your work and f*** off.
But then again, its also the same in outside world, you may not have a supervisor that love you - so, you need to manage him....
And if fail attachment means have to stay back one more semester.
So thats how important it is. Sigh -
attachment nia... serve and f-uck off... who cares...
when you really work there for long, then you know what is miserable, what is hate, what is f-uck you...
so "REN" -
I guess you're saying bout my self esteem.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:You decide your own importance.
If you feel that you're not important in the company, then probably you're just nothing.
But actually, the company really needs you. And I feel that you need a praise~ You decide your own importance.
Hope you can understand what I say.
Quite true, i dont have very high self esteem.
My friend also told me, u think u are good can already. I also tried telling myself that.
Maybe i just get too affected by other ppls comments. -
What u gone through is NOTHING compare to what i have gone through ok.
I faced hooligans and xia lan kia at my workplace last time without fail. I even meet CEO of big company, giving me those cb attitude. U only face one nasty supervisor everyday, u cannot tahan. I faced mutiples of ur supervisor everyday ok, a bit of hardship also cannot endure.
How are u going to survive in the workforce in ur next 60-70 years of ur life
What FI said is true. U will face this kind of people in the future, go and learn how to handle them -
I've already tried my best. I dunno how i can work any harder. Work OT or volunteer to go back during weekends?Originally posted by Uncertain:Training makes one tougher...
Scolded by him, proved to him of ur capability. When i was working in one of the government sector, got one lady also very picky and fierce of me.
But then, i prove to her of my ability and we ended being gd friend, she even ask me when can i go back and help her cos i am still in uni now.
When she scolded me, i also lan lan though a bit buay song. Somemore, that time she wants me to process like 400 passes per day, i also obliged cos i am working I proved to her, i can do much more advanced thing and i can do them fast with no error.
Dun cry over minor scolding, it is a form of training.
I also have my own life to lead, i also have Final year project to take care of. Moreover, i need time off from all the shit i face during work.
You are right, even though i havent finish my attachment yet, but i feel i have really gained valuable experience. Some incidents that happened to me was indeed an eye opener.
But i just wish this nightmare would end soon. -
If this was real life experice i dunno whether i will be so worried. Cos if i cant stand my job, i can always quit, provided i dont have family or what to support yet lar.Originally posted by Uncertain:What u gone through is NOTHING compare to what i have gone through ok.
I faced hooligans and xia lan kia at my workplace last time without fail. I even meet CEO of big company, giving me those cb attitude. U only face one nasty supervisor everyday, u cannot tahan. I faced mutiples of ur supervisor everyday ok, a bit of hardship also cannot endure.
How are u going to survive in the workforce in ur next 60-70 years of ur life
What FI said is true. U will face this kind of people in the future, go and learn how to handle them
But now i'm still schooling. I feel this is a very critical stage of my life. How my results turn out and what kind of testimonials i get are very important to me.
I dont wanna jepardize(spelling?) my future cos of this.
As i have mentioned earlier, i've had many close encounters of retaining, thats why i'm so stressed. -
ya dude, at least u understand that job is not as easy as u think.
Ok the fact that u want to quit given it is not an attachment is not really a good mentality. Yes i agree that u cannot stand ur boss' fussiness but then this is life.
There is absolutely no need to volunteer urself back during weekend but rather the key here is to prove urself to him that u can performed. I believe the assignment he gave u can be a bit tough but always remember that there are people much worse off then u.
My old colleagues have to stick to the old, stupid administrative procedure that serves no significant meaning. But what to do? Because of this system, they work OT EVERYDAY and sometimes have to go back on weekends. This is life dude. I know is stressful but learn to overcome it. U will become a stronger person later in life.
Wish u success in advance -
Thanks for your advice. Even though i've told myself that a million times its good to hear it again from someone.Originally posted by Uncertain:ya dude, at least u understand that job is not as easy as u think.
Ok the fact that u want to quit given it is not an attachment is not really a good mentality. Yes i agree that u cannot stand ur boss' fussiness but then this is life.
There is absolutely no need to volunteer urself back during weekend but rather the key here is to prove urself to him that u can performed. I believe the assignment he gave u can be a bit tough but always remember that there are people much worse off then u.
My old colleagues have to stick to the old, stupid administrative procedure that serves no significant meaning. But what to do? Because of this system, they work OT EVERYDAY and sometimes have to go back on weekends. This is life dude. I know is stressful but learn to overcome it. U will become a stronger person later in life.
Wish u success in advance 
U said to prove my ability? I dont get into trouble is already xie tian xie di (thank heaven thank floor? )
I think my supervisor already has a very bad impression of me.
So unless i do something bombastically good its not gonna change how he views me.
Even if i do everything right from now on it wont make any difference. Cos its just expected of me.
Somemore only 2 months left, i just wanna stay out of trouble and survive till i graduate -
...just find another another company to work for and when you find one, get out of this one... 9-5 like that is not worth it...Originally posted by Nickname88:It just makes me so miserable
I cant stand my supervisor. Sometimes the way he speaks to me makes me feel so degraded. I hate the way he talks.
He really expects too much from me.
I cant communicate with him at all.
After every conversation with him just makes my mood drop to an all time low.
Dunno how long i can take it anymore.
Every tiny mistake i make gets amplified by the thousands.
I really wanna do my job well but i'm just getting more and more demoralised, i have no mood to be enthusiatic and optimistic like i had been trying for so long.
I'm just so sad.
ok. Thanks for reading -
hmm.. i dun really know how to advise u ba...Originally posted by Nickname88:Thanks for your advice. Even though i've told myself that a million times its good to hear it again from someone.
U said to prove my ability? I dont get into trouble is already xie tian xie di (thank heaven thank floor? )
I think my supervisor already has a very bad impression of me.
So unless i do something bombastically good its not gonna change how he views me.
Even if i do everything right from now on it wont make any difference. Cos its just expected of me.
Somemore only 2 months left, i just wanna stay out of trouble and survive till i graduate
Anyway, i will give u one last piece of advice:"there is nothing in this world that one cannot accomplish provided he put in his heart and soul."
U think ur supervisor have a bad impression of u, this is an assumption. U will never know what ur supervisor is thinking. As per my case, i ended being best friend with my most hated supervisor.
Now the only thing that hinders u is ur mentality. Are u a fighter or a peace-lover? This is your choice. Gd luck for attachment and treat this as a learning process that last only 1/100 of ur life? -
Think bout it..
I rather have ppl putting high expectation to me than putting low expectation
DO you like it if ur boss think your useless and said directly to you, " I dont expect much from you cuz i know you cant do it ?
well. up to you if u like ppl to put low expectation for you -
wat u can do now is to be better and do less mistakes. Show him waht u got is the best revenge instead of whining here
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DO NOT - Live to work -
to TS: what comp is that?
normally, no comp will place great emphasis on interns..
my last comp, interns just vet documents, check grammers/vocab of docu niah..