how do you deal with it.

• cApitaland

  6 Dec 07, 19:18

  knowing that this gal meant for you is so close.
  
  but u haf to focus on your studies.
  
  haiz. everyday feeling so confused and depressed.
• angel7030

  6 Dec 07, 19:41

  Good gf will alway support her bf studies, if your gf loves you, she must understand you, support and share your problem, if not dump her and carry on your with your studies.
  
  There are lots of gal out there including me. After you get your degree, you can alway have a gf anytime but you seldom get a degree in your lifetime.
• ghast.

  6 Dec 07, 20:37

  sure yeah, you have to focus on your studies but did it ever occur to you that when you are an adult, you will also have to juggle family and career, and it would be way harder to manage. so, don't think of r/s as a journey you have to run, or something extra. it's part and parcel. just my half cents' worth la.
• T E M P O

  6 Dec 07, 20:44

  Originally posted by ghast.:

  sure yeah, you have to focus on your studies but did it ever occur to you that when you are an adult, you will also have to juggle family and career, and it would be way harder to manage. so, don't think of r/s as a journey you have to run, or something extra. it's part and parcel. just my half cents' worth la.

  Totally agree, part and parcel of life. Just that u make sure ur girl understands and u dont waste too much time dating and stuff.
  
• popikachu

  6 Dec 07, 21:09

  just concentrate on studies bah...
  
  studies is the top priority...
• CannyOng

  6 Dec 07, 22:59

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  knowing that this gal meant for you is so close.
  
  but u haf to focus on your studies.
  
  haiz. everyday feeling so confused and depressed.

  Care to explain more specific?
• cApitaland

  7 Dec 07, 00:30

  Originally posted by angel7030:
  Good gf will alway support her bf studies, if your gf loves you, she must understand you, support and share your problem, if not dump her and carry on your with your studies.
  
  There are lots of gal out there including me. After you get your degree, you can alway have a gf anytime but you seldom get a degree in your lifetime.

  ok i will keep that in mind.
• cApitaland

  7 Dec 07, 00:35

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  Care to explain more specific?

  im not realli sure where to begin. maybe you can ask me pointed questions and ill decide whether to answer anot.
  
  
• Father Lim

  7 Dec 07, 00:38

  drown my sorrows in coke and ice cream...
  and then forget all about it or go do something about it...