first time in my life, i feel so degraded as a human..
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i have been working with this organisation in singapore for a few weeks now. thought that they are nice people until today. the boss treated everyone to lunch except me. its like so obvious and i feel degraded. its not as if i did not do work..
feeling so upset! it sucks. -
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nvm lah...
mabbe u r there for only a few weeks... -
there were some intern guys who were there a week lesser than me. and they got treated as well..Originally posted by Ferret:-pat pat-
nvm lah...
mabbe u r there for only a few weeks... -
err...
did your boss did it on purpose or really forgets about you?
anyway... dun be sad...
cheer up
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maybe he didnt notice u ?
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i am quite sure he did. i was like so puzzled whether shud i take a receipt, so i asked my colleague to ask him. he was like no and he keep telling the others to take it.
AND to add on, i am a volunteer with that damn organisation. doing it for my work attachment with school. i am not paid and yet i have to receive such shit. what sort of an impartial boss is him! -
i have this hunch dude, that it wasn't quite intentional. your boss won't do it so obviously la, don't feel so bad. to make yourself feel better and not so tiny, maybe casually ask your boss or the other interns about the lunch and maybe you can mention you didn't go, they are bound to notice.
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see open a bit... kan kai yi dian
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Originally posted by pinkroses:i am quite sure he did. i was like so puzzled whether shud i take a receipt, so i asked my colleague to ask him. he was like no and he keep telling the others to take it.
AND to add on, i am a volunteer with that damn organisation. doing it for my work attachment with school. i am not paid and yet i have to receive such shit. what sort of an impartial boss is him!
Take a chill pill. Dont fret over small stuff. -
Why don't I buy you dinner instead? Surely you'd be happy to oblige?
Jokes aside. I guess it is fair to say that as humans beings, we all desire recognition one way or another. Personally, I do not believe that, in most circumstances at least, one could "silently carry a torch" for a prolonged period of time - be it for a significant other, or for an organisation.
Was your boss biased? Or was it a genuine slip of mind? I dare not make wild guesses. But do continue, excelling in what you do best - and I pray the next dinner, you'd be invited.
You may also wish to talk to him about your discontentment. If indeed, he left you out this time deliberately and show no sign of repentance... Then I can only submit to you that he is not a worthy boss to serve under
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mmmm, since u said u're a volunteer staff which means u're not directly under him, so maybe he stingy not to include u? and oso, did u ever cross his line b4??
dun brood abt it, dun be as petty as him.
be magnanimous instead, let him be a narrow-minded person for all u care.
JIA YOU!! -
hmm,don sad la
sayang sayang
i treat u lor -
hmm..is TS a local?
Why don't TS have lunch with his friends outside? Then show your company that you are having a better time outside than with them.
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liddat oly.
feel sad fer wat.
if he is indeed dat kind of person, den u shud fil sad fer him instead. -
Being the only one neglected is a bit saddening, i know. But then, there is nothing u can do right? Therefore, dun ponder over it too much and continue with ur work lor. The only thing u can blamed is that ur boss won't paiseh one, when dun treat u
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aaawww...
dun worry la.. sometimes will forget one..
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sads leh....
how can the boss liddat...should treat all workers equaly mah. worst of alll you only have less than half of the pay nia -
Are u crazy, nothing is free ok, boss gives free lunch got his motive ok, later all those who ate the lunch have to work harder ya.
In fact the boss left you out is good, cos he trust you dun need lunch to get motivated.
Alway work and think smart ya, dun just work hard ya. -
Don`t let this incident weigh u down. Your happiness does not depend on people like your boss. If u allow yourself to be affected by his childish behaviour, he has won the battle.
Remember that you are the master of your own destiny. So just put it behind you and make money.
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hey thanks for the comments! appreciated it! now feeling much better.. after what you all said.
its really not worth my time. anyway, i am leaving soon!