what topic to start?

• siansterr

  9 Dec 07, 01:50

  i got this prob,everytime i get to noe a new frens from frenster or msn,firstly i add them to my msn,then chat wif them for the first day,like asking wat sch are they,etc.but after certain times i had no topic to tok,so no tok,other then saying hi.how to make them like become a close frens?like to craps..i seen some ppl got so many gans or frens.so how? pardon my stupidlity n ignorance
• skeujin

  9 Dec 07, 01:58

  ask them about their day, talk about personal interests / hobbies, food where to find n whats good to eat. organise outings....
• gunner77

  9 Dec 07, 01:59

  try and understand the way they talk
• 798

  9 Dec 07, 02:05

  start off by introduce urself, ask them for some background bout themselves but not to extend of investigating their personal space.
  
  finally ask bout their interests n share wif them ur interests as well. most important thing is chicks love praise n sweet talk.
• siansterr

  9 Dec 07, 02:09

  Originally posted by gunner77:

  try and understand the way they talk

  hmm..like how?if they the ones that like to ''hehe'' "haha" then nth to tok liao..
  
  i try toking craps or certain topics to them,but ending up onli got 2 words came out.."hehe" "haha" don know wat to do next or tok next liaos..
• siansterr

  9 Dec 07, 02:11

  Originally posted by 798:

  start off by introduce urself, ask them for some background bout themselves but not to extend of investigating their personal space.
  
  finally ask bout their interests n share wif them ur interests as well. most important thing is chicks love praise n sweet talk.

  hmm..thx fer ur info still not enorgh nidda gather more
• gLc

  9 Dec 07, 02:15

  ppl can always tell u what sorta topics to start and blah blah.. whats important is it must come naturally, this kinda thing, cannot teach one lah.
• 798

  9 Dec 07, 02:16

  Originally posted by siansterr:

  hmm..like how?if they the ones that like to ''hehe'' "haha" then nth to tok liao..
  
  i try toking craps or certain topics to them,but ending up onli got 2 words came out.."hehe" "haha" don know wat to do next or tok next liaos..

  dunno bout u, actually i find online is very easy to express oneself when one can be cheeky, naughty n outspoken.
  
  u will be surprise dat many pple r daring when they r online.
• gunner77

  9 Dec 07, 02:23

  Originally posted by siansterr:

  hmm..like how?if they the ones that like to ''hehe'' "haha" then nth to tok liao..
  
  i try toking craps or certain topics to them,but ending up onli got 2 words came out.."hehe" "haha" don know wat to do next or tok next liaos..

  if u talk crap and they "hehe" "haha"
  i suggest u don talk to them, coz they don bother.
  if u talk crap and someone crap back at u, tat means she is interested in the convo. get wat i mean ?
• gunner77

  9 Dec 07, 02:24

  Originally posted by gLc:

  ppl can always tell u what sorta topics to start and blah blah.. whats important is it must come naturally, this kinda thing, cannot teach one lah.

  i agree with tis 100%