This kind of friends?!
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She is fickle minded or Maybe she just couldn't decide? btw, is she a Yes person?Which mean she say yes in everything but later didnt do things nicely for people.
I think you should try talk to her if she is stilll your friend. open her up and ask her why she is doing this as it's not the first time. or maybe she is hiding something which u all dunno..
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hmmm... she is not exactly a yes person per se. but i noticed at times she feels shy or awkard of saying no despite she would still do it. but i think she is yes person to her bf.Originally posted by CfCJ:She is fickle minded or Maybe she just couldn't decide? btw, is she a Yes person?Which mean she say yes in everything but later didnt do things nicely for people.
I think you should try talk to her if she is stilll your friend. open her up and ask her why she is doing this as it's not the first time. or maybe she is hiding something which u all dunno.. -
I certainly know more about the law of averages than you ever will about your insecurities. Carry on living in self-denial and being on the defensive...Originally posted by petti:Law of averages. What makes you think most of my friends, or averagely my friends are like that?
Presumptions, arent you?
Or maybe you should really learn about 'law of averages' before regurgitating the words (without knowing its meaning) like a parrot?
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Well, you certainly know human so well! just a few ranting threads and you dare say you know me so well, Mr Smart Alec? Well done! LOL!!!Originally posted by walesa:I certainly know more about the law of averages than you ever will about your insecurities. Carry on living in self-denial and being on the defensive...
Carry on living in your fantasy that you are MR KNOW ALL ! Or do you actually think that you are Dr Psychologist? -
to handle this type of people you can,Originally posted by petti:My friend,
Incident 1: keep jio-ing us play MJ. finalli i can find one weekend to play, planned for 2 weeks. 2 hours b4 mj, i received a sms: "sori, MJ cancelled!" didnt even bother to say reason.
Incident 2: jio me out, i say me going out with our friends. she wanted to join. ok so confirm time put date put place liao, when times up, she never turn up and dont even bothered to call or sms.
Incident3: she called me. i was in meeting. i returned call, she watching tv. so she asked me i goin out tonite anot, i said yes. she wanted to join, but half way, phone cut off. i called her, no answer. sms her no reply. almost two hours until now already! still no reply!
walau!??!?!!? where got this kind of people wan!?!??! !@#$#@$!@#$
ban her from your group
play her out a few times until she learnt her lesson
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It doesn't take a genius to figure only insecure sods would whine about such trivial matters, does it? It must be just sheer coincidence someone with "impeccable character" like yours keep running into such "friends".Originally posted by petti:Well, you certainly know people so well! just a few ranting threads and you dare say you know me so well, Mr Smart Alec? Well done! LOL!!! Carry on with your self denial too! -
suggestionOriginally posted by petti:My friend,
Incident 1: keep jio-ing us play MJ. finalli i can find one weekend to play, planned for 2 weeks. 2 hours b4 mj, i received a sms: "sori, MJ cancelled!" didnt even bother to say reason.
Incident 2: jio me out, i say me going out with our friends. she wanted to join. ok so confirm time put date put place liao, when times up, she never turn up and dont even bothered to call or sms.
Incident3: she called me. i was in meeting. i returned call, she watching tv. so she asked me i goin out tonite anot, i said yes. she wanted to join, but half way, phone cut off. i called her, no answer. sms her no reply. almost two hours until now already! still no reply!
walau!??!?!!? where got this kind of people wan!?!??! !@#$#@$!@#$
change your nick
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If you would just stop assuming that you know everything and really open your eyes to read PROPERLY, you would have learned that she is not exactly my friend. It is her bf who is in our circle of friends.Originally posted by walesa:It doesn't take a genius to figure only insecure sods would whine about such trivial matters, does it? It must be sheer coincidence someone with impeccable character like yours keep running into such "friends".
It is alright, i never expect you to be able to read properly anyway. People like you thought they know it all! Why bother to read and understand about people anyways right? Keep living in your fantasy! Go on!
Seriously, i noticed that you do go around telling everyone that he or she is insecured. Or are you the insecured sod? or actually got dumped by some insecured women? Have been feeling sore since? -
If some feel that way just because of my nick, that they are just superficial and presumptuous.Originally posted by Space1999:suggestion
change your nick
it does make your compaint sounds petty even if its not
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maybe they are , maybe they are not..Originally posted by petti:If some feel that way just because of my nick, that they are just superficial and presumptions.
Yes walesa?
we will never know , after all we are just sitting and hiding behind our computer ..
but you know
some ppl have life
some ppl only have this... -
How trueOriginally posted by Space1999:maybe they are , maybe they are not..
we will never know , after all we are just sitting and hiding behind our computer ..
but you know
some ppl have life
some ppl only have this...
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soOriginally posted by petti:How true
keep on complaining
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Are you speaking English? Am I assuming or am I merely taking the facts of the matters at face value in your words? So what is it your ignorance can't live with?Originally posted by petti:If you would just stop assuming that you know everything and really open your eyes to read PROPERLY, you would have learned that she is not exactly my friend. It is her bf who is in our circle of friends.
It is alright, i never expect you to be able to read properly anyway. People like you thought they know it all! Why bother to read and understand about people anyways right? Keep living in your fantasy! Go on!
Seriously, i noticed that you do go around telling everyone that he or she is insecured. Or are you the insecured sod? or actually got dumped by some insecured women? Have been feeling sore since?
By the way, your first and third paragraphs make for a humorous read. If you weren't insecure, why would you be so bothered about attending to the concerns of the girlfriend of someone merely "in our circle of friends"? We know better who's insecure - just take a look at the reply from countless others in this thread... -
LOL!Originally posted by Space1999:so
keep on complaining
i love to hear all this bitching !!
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Originally posted by walesa:
I will like reply your above retort in 2 parts:
Are you speaking English? Am I assuming or am I merely taking the facts of the matters at face value [b]in your words? So what is it your ignorance can't live with?
By the way, your first and third paragraphs make for a humorous read. If you weren't insecure, why would you be so bothered about attending to the concerns of the girlfriend of someone merely "in our circle of friends"? We know better who's insecure - just take a look at the reply from countless others in this thread... [/b]
1) I dont know about you, but i would attend to the concerns of the old lady pushing the cart of disposed cardboards despite i do not know her. Or i will offer my listening ear to my pantry lady, and i wil stand up for her should anyone bully her despite we are not close.
Let me teach you one word. It is called compassion!
2)Are you pulling in others' comments to support your case?
Look, I do not need such support to justify myself! I know where i am coming from and i know where i stand. This is called understanding of oneself and self-confidence.
Only an insecured person needs others' support to justify himself. Understand? Walesa, now you know who is the one who is insecured? -
Then don't whine! You're doing so out of your own free will. So what is your agony in this thread? Your insecurities dictate you need the endorsement of others that what you're doing is irresistibly noble and right? Or are your insecurities getting the better of you that you ought to shower more concern to someone who is, in your words, hardly a friend just so you have more company?Originally posted by petti:I will like reply your above retort in 2 parts:
1) I dont know about you, but i would attend to the concerns of the old lady pushing the cart of disposed cardboards just for a few dollars despite i do not know her.
Let me teach you one word. It is called compassion! So much for self-confidence!
It was really confident and secure of you to rebutt every view which did not converge with yours - and yes, you sure need fans to retain your security. Like I said, it's just sheer coincidence someone with impeccable character like yours keep running into such people.Originally posted by petti:2)Are you pulling in others' comments to support your case?
Look, I do not need such support to justify myself! I know where i am coming from and i know where i stand. This is called understanding of oneself and self-confidence.
Only an insecured person needs others' support to justify himself. Understand? Walesa, now you know who is the one who is insecured? -
I realised aruging with you is just a waste of time! for you are not rebuking in sense! I do not rebutt all views that did not converge with mine, like many asked me to give her up which 'does not converge with my opinion', did i shoot them down? Oh sorry, of course i dont expect you to have caught that. for you only read what you want to read, if you even read! haha!Originally posted by walesa:It was really confident and secure of you to rebutt every view which did not converge with yours - and yes, you sure need fans to retain your security. Like I said, it's just sheer coincidence someone with impeccable character like yours keep running into such people.
Anyways, i really dont care about what a presumptuous and uncompassionate person like yourself will think of me! Seriously, i dont give damn sh1t.
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Oh, it must have been just another coincidence that your thread has drawn more criticisms of you from different people than any others in AA. My commiserations for having so many unfortunate coincidences befalling someone with such impeccable character indeed!Originally posted by petti:I realised aruging with you is just a waste of time! for you are not rebuking in sense! I do not rebutt all views that did not converge with mine, like many asked me to give her up which 'does not converge with my opinion', did i shoot them down? Oh sorry, of course i dont expect you to have caught that. for you only read what you want to read, if you even read! haha!
Anyways, i really dont care about what a presumptuous and uncompassionate person like yourself will think of me! Seriously, i dont give damn sh1t.
Adieus
If you could even read, infer and address your insecurities, you probably wouldn't be posting here anyway... Then again, given your history of exaggerating trivial issues, it shouldn't be long before you return with another ridiculous complaint. -
i just love to see girls fight,, i presume those fighting with you are of the same gender?Originally posted by petti:LOL!
This petti gal found a fan! -
Yes, walesa gotta a gal! Look at how b1tchy and long winded she is! Keep wanting to fight! Non-stop and refuse to stop! Broken recorder with the words that she found from dictionary. Keep repeating those new words that she has just learned without knowing the real meaning to them.Originally posted by Space1999:i just love to see girls fight,, i presume those fighting with you are of the same gender?
Well, what to do. some people can only get attention in that manner! For there is none they can get in real life! -
It takes two hands to clap - and it hardly addresses the issue of your insecurities...Originally posted by petti:Yes, walesa gotta a gal! Look at how b1tchy and long winded she is! Keep wanting to fight! Non-stop and refuse to stop! Broken recorder with the words that she found from dictionary. Keep repeating those new words that she has just learned without knowing the real meaning to them.
Well, what to do. some people can only get attention in that manner! For there is none they can get in real life! Did I mention insecure souls also have a knack of desperately seeking attention? -
Ha! Now i see who is the desperate soul dying for my attention despite my persistent ignore.
Well, i get unwanted attention all the time. This is really nothing new to me in real life. And im armed with experience to ignore such poor sods -
i agree with some of your points but if you let her talk alone and not entertain her post, wouldnt that be better?Originally posted by walesa:It takes two hands to clap - and it hardly addresses the issue of your insecurities... Did I mention insecure souls also have a knack of desperately seeking attention? -
in short, you mean live me alone?Originally posted by Space1999:i agree with some of your points but if you let her talk alone and not entertain her post, wouldnt that be better?
Hey! that means no more cat fights for you!
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You sure are in some agony given your desperate attempts to draw attention to someone whom you don't even regard as your "friend" (which is an even greater irony given the contradiction found in the topic of this threadOriginally posted by petti:Ha! Now i see who is the desperate soul dying for my attention despite my persistent ignore.
Well, i get unwanted attention all the time. This is really nothing new to me in real life. And im armed with experience to ignore such poor sods ). It must be the greatest mystery around that you actually even wonder why you get "unwanted attention" all the time... Then again, what else can you reasonable expect from someone desperately insecure?
It really is some agony she's having it seems.Originally posted by Space1999:i agree with some of your points but if you let her talk alone and not entertain her post, wouldnt that be better? Mind the insecure lass having a pop at you for defecting from being a fan of hers (or so she claims to sooth her insecurities). As a matter of fact, she's already delusional...