Enchancing Relationships
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TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, “Public Utilities Board.” There was silence. She repeated, “PUB.” There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady’s voice, “Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry , I got the number from my Husband’s pocket but I do not know whose number it is.”
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just “Hello” instead of “PUB”.
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, “Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?”
The father-in-law answered in a smile, “Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you.”
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? {...} -
nice read
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Its all logic.....most teenagers dun use this logic....they use impulsive acts or take actions by listening to their desires thats why got alot of break ups
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Nice as it make sense.. but what if if trust complicate with white lies? Listen to white lies might comfort you to some extend, but after knowing the truth, do you still have the trust?
But I agreed the fact of not pointing at people... -
nice tips.
Thumbs up
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thks for clearing my heart
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Always see the positive in every situation and you will be a happier man...
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One you point one finger at other hor, say the index finger. Actually the thumb is also pointing at the other leh.
So actually is only 3 fingers point back at you nia.