how to rebuild trust?
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hi all... how to u rebuild trust that u have lost in him/her?
(not saying he/she has done something behind yr back that u have proof) -
u can start with yourself. Be honest and open. But bear in mind that it takes time.
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effort, communication and time, these are the 3 main criteria.Originally posted by subaru67:hi all... how to u rebuild trust that u have lost in him/her?
(not saying he/she has done something behind yr back that u have proof) -
start with myselft first right and not with the other party right?Originally posted by selfobliged:u can start with yourself. Be honest and open. But bear in mind that it takes time.
(as now the other party is buyers towards you) -
if u do all these... but yr other partner like sometimes ignore u etc?Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:effort, communication and time, these are the 3 main criteria. -
very hard to elaborate all the pts as u only devulge so little information.Originally posted by subaru67:if u do all these... but yr other partner like sometimes ignore u etc? -
what can i type more?Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:very hard to elaborate all the pts as u only devulge so little information.
(meaning during these times... she ignores me.. when we are out with her sis n bf.. i was like a stranger to her) -
something like how the trust was broken and such. regaining trust in a relationship shld be working on mending where it is broken and not trying to go around it and do other measures.Originally posted by subaru67:what can i type more?
(meaning during these times... she ignores me.. when we are out with her sis n bf.. i was like a stranger to her) -
biasedOriginally posted by subaru67:start with myselft first right and not with the other party right?
(as now the other party is buyers towards you)
if u think its worthwhile putting in effort then do it.....don't bother about the other person. U cannot control others but u can control urself
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oic... well she said something that made my trust level in her fall downwards... since that word from her... i have been doubting her... not trusting her...Originally posted by sLeEpWaLkErInG:something like how the trust was broken and such. regaining trust in a relationship shld be working on mending where it is broken and not trying to go around it and do other measures.
she has commented that since after that incident that she has not felt any trust on my side to her... i told her that she cant blame me as since what she told me left a great impact on me.
now in return... she said i am not trusting her n is suspicious of anything she do...
haiz -
hmm see my replyOriginally posted by de_middle:biased
if u think its worthwhile putting in effort then do it.....don't bother about the other person. U cannot control others but u can control urself -
then do u still think its worthwhile trusting herOriginally posted by subaru67:hmm see my reply if u dun, then don't bother carrying on 
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i wanto trust her again... but that fear of me kept me for doing that as i have poor past bgrOriginally posted by de_middle:then do u still think its worthwhile trusting her if u dun, then don't bother carrying on
as too be fair... since what she said... i have not seen it happening... but the moment she open her mouth n talk abt it it has haunt me.... -
trust is like a vase.Originally posted by subaru67:i wanto trust her again... but that fear of me kept me for doing that as i have poor past bgr
as too be fair... since what she said... i have not seen it happening... but the moment she open her mouth n talk abt it it has haunt me....
once broken, no matter how u mend, there's still bound to be holes n cracks... -
thats why...Originally posted by aHGer^83:trust is like a vase.
once broken, no matter how u mend, there's still bound to be holes n cracks...
its like somethings said although u dun mean it... but said liao cannot be taken back... how?
i really wanto forget what she said... but my mind not strong enuf -
im struggling it myself too...Originally posted by subaru67:thats why...
its like somethings said although u dun mean it... but said liao cannot be taken back... how?
i really wanto forget what she said... but my mind not strong enuf -
can elborate?Originally posted by aHGer^83:im struggling it myself too... -
so how to make yrslef forget all these... and maybe look forward to happy oncomings
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no 1?Originally posted by subaru67:oic... well she said something that made my trust level in her fall downwards... since that word from her... i have been doubting her... not trusting her...
she has commented that since after that incident that she has not felt any trust on my side to her... i told her that she cant blame me as since what she told me left a great impact on me.
now in return... she said i am not trusting her n is suspicious of anything she do...
haiz