About a girl II
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Seriously?!
Haha. You are 5 years younger then me.. -
Just do it...Originally posted by Misogynist:Seriously?!
Haha. You are 5 years younger then me.. -
Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas.
/me pat pat.
Cheers -
She still refuses to pick up my calls.
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Move on..... and Merry Christmas!
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I just don't like things to end on a bad note.
There's no happy ending I understand, but I would prefer a friendship rather than make another enemy. -
Originally posted by Misogynist:I just don't like things to end on a bad note.
There's no happy ending I understand, but I would prefer a friendship rather than make another enemy. Perhaps your lesson is about acceptance?
Cheers -
maybe a little cool down time for both parties til the anger to go off first then start to contact her again?
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You can't expect perfect endings for every of your fairy tales.Originally posted by Misogynist:I just don't like things to end on a bad note.
There's no happy ending I understand, but I would prefer a friendship rather than make another enemy.
You don't need a friendship to avoid making another enemy. -
Girls are sensitive and over reacting animals
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1. Who are make such a statement to her? If you care for her, make sure you care for the ego too...Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
2. Talk is cheap and you just talked, spoilt the night and screwed yourself up. Aren't you supposed to be supportive?
3. Advices here are (hopefully) insights so that you act before things happens, and not psycho-analysis someone, and then try to see it happen.
Sigh.....merry x'mas and a ??? new year. -
She got another guy and she just dumped you. Get it ?Originally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas. -
dun think too much.. let it go..
Ignorance is a bliss .. haha
TS, once u have broken a gal's heart.. it means the scar is there..
Just leave her alone for now.. just concentrate on your career or study for now...IF she wanna go away, then let it be.. are u goin to wait for a gal who keeping quiet like ur gal ? C;mon, if u even together with her, im sure u will suffer too as she is not the honest and straight forward type... too bad. this kind of gal is the toughest to deal with -
Pfffttt! Gimme a break.Originally posted by X-men:Girls are sensitive and over reacting animals
You mean if you say the same ego busting sh!t to a guy, he's gonna give you a good hug and kiss for shedding some light on his personality ? -
This type of girl screw already than throw away can liaoOriginally posted by Misogynist:Guys, I don't know if any of you remember this post
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=295556.
Well, nothing worked out in the end.
About 2-3 weeks ago, she began to ignore me. Ergo, I suspected that there's another guy in the picture. I didn't confront her with that as I didn't have any hard evidence. So just 3 days back, we went out for dinner and she was giving me that pissed off look for gawd knows what reason.
So, while sending her back, I told her that she's a lonely person and she got defensive, when I told her my supporting reason is that she requires continuous attention from other guys. And since that statment, I haven't spoken to her. I've been apologizing to her for the past few days thru SMS, as she refuses to pick up my calls.
I still like her, but I guess I'm thoroughly screwed now. There's no chance whatsoever.
Merry Bloody Christmas. -
maybe it has sth to do with your choice of a username
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Miso soup, I think you need to go back to the basic now...as it has been rather quite a messy situation.
If i'll you, (Not you're me), i'll write letters, containing all my true feelings to her. (It'll be good that you have her home address - Either you wait for her downstairs to pass her your letters or "unsincercely" you throw the letters in her letter box. Fcuk the SMSes & "empty" phone calls.)
Handsome or rich or not, it doesn't play a part in your current situation.
Let her know this once or she'll never knows...& let yourself know also.... -
Words are like arrow ..
Why do you have to injure her with your words ???
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she has 2 words for u = not interested
i have 2 words for u too = move on
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TS,Originally posted by Misogynist:Yep..Majorly, thoroughly screwed up down left right center.
I think it's all over unless a miracle happens but in this case, I doubt so.
I don't even know her friends who can help me meditate this situation.
I have been in a somewhat similar position.
You've scored an own goal by saying she's lonely... yes, as someone has said, asking her if another guy is dating her will provoke a "hey, it's none of your business, we are not an item" response.
But I would like to point out that even if you didn't score that own goal, you're already losing at 2-0 down with 5 minutes to fulltime. So, I hope that's a consolation thought.
Guys usually get very attracted to pretty girls, and like someone else said, you're just mourning a loss of a very attractive close friend. After all, defeat is always bitter. It sucks to walk off the field with a 3-0 result against you after all that effort. But hey, there's always another game, or girl, to look forward to.
Outrageously pretty girls like her feel entitled to use guys for emotional support, and after they have recovered, if they feel that the guy is not a good relationship investment, given the view that they are entitled to the best guys (character, money, brains, body ...) with their looks, they will dish out the "get lost" look.
Think of it as a good deed you have done to her, and the coolest response from you is to feel nothing against her in weeks and months to come.
May you find the right girl who desires your love. -
Can't be better expressed. Short and sweet.Originally posted by de_middle:she has 2 words for u = not interested
i have 2 words for u too = move on -
Thanks Ordinary guy. I guess you offered the best advice.
And great insight. Thanks for pointing that out amidst the static.
Omnia mutantur, nihil interit.
Everything changes but nothing is truly loss.