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i've been wondering abt this...
Should the bf always treat or buy stuff for his gf ? Or should he let the gftreat or buy stuff for him sometimes too?
Not saying i have a problem with my gf but it seems everytime that i wan to treat her to the movies or something,she will say she would pay for herself...but in the end,i always pay the full tab...
so just now i asked her to treat me to watch 'i am legend' tmr and she agrees...i wonder whether she did to willingly or she did it just not to disappoint me? -
You can afford just pay for her laa....
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take turns lor
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must see her mood of the day, how she feel......for eg if really u pay for everything, go eat lunch with her, say everytime u pay, time for her to pay for u...
she will then come up with some crap saying whr have.....
then bring the topic to just now u treat movie, tell her treat.....
then she will get pissed off liao(som gals...tsk tsk tsk tsk)
here is whr luck comes in, she will angry, or just treat u for lunch
My instinct: fifi is going to say u meet the wrong type of gals, gals like fifi is beri angelic de
u happy can oreadi
me anything de
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how long together liao? tis kind of thing cannot always the guy pay one.. occasionally, the gal should take the initiative..
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me awaits fifi jus like Pillow's prediction.
my take on this; jus treat if u wan. u wna go dutch tell her. -
if this world filled with gals like fi den shoik lo
** according to pillows "PREDICTIONS" **
Beri angelic -
Does your gf buy ANY stuff for you at all ?Originally posted by Maith:i've been wondering abt this...
Should the bf always treat or buy stuff for his gf ? Or should he let the gftreat or buy stuff for him sometimes too?
Not saying i have a problem with my gf but it seems everytime that i wan to treat her to the movies or something,she will say she would pay for herself...but in the end,i always pay the full tab...
so just now i asked her to treat me to watch 'i am legend' tmr and she agrees...i wonder whether she did to willingly or she did it just not to disappoint me?
It is only good manners for the girl to offer to pay for oneself, although it is common practice for a guy to end up paying(A gesture for guys to show he wants to take care of the woman).
Did she do it willingly ? Yes. Did she do it just so she don't disappoint you ? Yes.
If you don't want to be in such a predicament, you shouldn't have asked her to treat you. Because if she wants to be nice, she will offer it without you asking.
When giving gifts, one should not be expecting something back in return. -
Is ur gal a PRC?
Ok just kidding.
but i agree that this kind of things the ger should take initiative, should not always be the guy paying. If ur financial status allows u to do so and u're fine wif it, well den no complains. Otherwise, u may want to try talk to her? -
IM lucky cuz my gf is a very understanding gal
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do things willingly.....
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Where is your unconditioned love?
Give and you ask for returns? Is this what you call love? -
who pays shouldn't matter... if it's a problem let her know... chivalry doesn't have to be lost. lets face it when the guy pays rule was introduced guys got paid more than girls so it made sense... that ain't the case anymore so... whoevers got the dough can pay imo... share everything, doesn't mean you don't open doors or treat her like a princess in every other way though.
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yesh.
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pay is gentlemanly, dont pay is ok. nevermind la...
best is both of u dun pay....juz run away. -
pay if can ...if cant dun meet...