Virginity

• Mrunknown

  26 Dec 07, 02:08

  if u love/like her that much would u even borther about ur principle of relationship? her physical self is the one that attracts u or her mental self that attacts u ?
  
  think about this before u make a decision
• gigabyte14

  26 Dec 07, 02:12

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  thanks bro. i understand what you're trying to tell me.
  

  u know, if u love her, dunnid to care about that issue 1
• de_middle

  26 Dec 07, 13:19

  if she can come & tell u she lost it while with u, then u shldn't be worried about it rather what u shld be worried about is - fidelity
• dbowie

  26 Dec 07, 13:25

  I read an article debating about non-virgins and virgins ..
  Someone compared virgins to disposable chopsticks .. Would you prefer disposable chopsticks that someone used or would you prefer a new one ?
  If your girlfriend went to buy disposable chopsticks, Would she buy a set of brand new chopsticks or used ?
• dumbdumb!

  26 Dec 07, 13:28

  hmm, she's honest about it. problem would be potential disease.
• Jezmeister

  26 Dec 07, 19:10

  Never made a mistake in your life? if you love her leave it in the past and move on... even if that ain't easy to do.
• Demonight

  26 Dec 07, 19:24

  You're Icarus dude. Take a chance and fly!
• Cool-gal

  26 Dec 07, 19:25

  Originally posted by spadeTwo:

  but if he need to ask a question like this
  it already proves how much he loves her.

  how much??
  
  btw, TS how old are u?
• cheekycheng

  26 Dec 07, 20:41

  loving someone so much is as far as u can go. the other half is from the other party. if lose virginity BEFORE being together, still ok. but losing it AFTER being together, u know where u stand. correct me if im wrong...
• GhostZM

  26 Dec 07, 20:50

  If you really love her, you must learn to accept her imperfections
  
  CheerS!!!
• LordIcarus

  27 Dec 07, 13:10

  i'm seventeen this year. hey, thanks everyone. i think i should accept it. hopefully i'd get use to it. it's her body afterall and everyone is responsible for their own actions.
  
  cheers everyone!
  
• MidnightK

  27 Dec 07, 13:14

  virginity issues is not imperfections..
  you are born one..
  you CHOOSE to be one before marriage or after..
  
  no such rubbish as you love your ex so must give it to him..
  
• MidnightK

  27 Dec 07, 13:18

  looking for one to marry..
  not easy at all..
  with bastards around who pick up girls just to fu*k..
  
• sEphIrOth

  27 Dec 07, 13:37

  well i always think that virginity shows a girl's worth as how she treasures herself.
  
  however, i m not one, so i m in no position to comment.
• extrinsic

  27 Dec 07, 13:38

  oh heck.. Virginity is just a piece of skin..
  ur gf is some1 u sld luv, not sm1 that u r looking to fark.
• sEphIrOth

  27 Dec 07, 13:41

  Originally posted by extrinsic:

  oh heck.. Virginity is just a piece of skin..
  ur gf is some1 u sld luv, not sm1 that u r looking to fark.

  hymen is a piece of skin..
  
  but arguably virginity is a state of mind? physical intensity for the 1st time? experiences? much more than a piece of skin i guess.
• extrinsic

  27 Dec 07, 13:54

  Originally posted by sEphIrOth:

  hymen is a piece of skin..
  
  but arguably virginity is a state of mind? physical intensity for the 1st time? experiences? much more than a piece of skin i guess.

  yup, state of mind does matters to some *sigh*...
  strangely, this "virgin" concept only applies to asian..
  
  anyway, unless u r a V, u sld not ask for a V. thats wad i feel.
• sEphIrOth

  27 Dec 07, 13:57

  Originally posted by extrinsic:

  yup, state of mind does matters to some *sigh*...
  strangely, this "virgin" concept only applies to asian..
  
  anyway, unless u r a V, u sld not ask for a V. thats wad i feel.

  true. so i said im in no position to comment
  
  cuz asia is a big conservative society(applies to me too ) that is why virginity is seen as purity. actually its not western values that virginity is seen as devalued or less important but because of globalization and modernization that caused it to be nothing.
  
  virgins are a bonus but purity is something everyone wants.
  
  however, makes me wonder when u see girls who suck d*cks and getting fingered by so many men but are still virgins...makes me wonder whether the definition of virginity is ruined
• jojobeach

  27 Dec 07, 14:22

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  what do you mean i'm played?
  i've always been looking for a girl with chastity to marry(if it's the right way to use it), but it seems like i'm bending my principles now.

  Why is virginity so important to you?
• LordIcarus

  27 Dec 07, 17:33

  Originally posted by MidnightK:

  looking for one to marry..
  not easy at all..
  with bastards around who pick up girls just to fu*k..
  

  I SECOND THAT BRO!
• MidnightK

  27 Dec 07, 17:51

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  I SECOND THAT BRO!

  say i'm old fashioned or what..
  i don't give a damn..
  but that's my principles..
• angel7030

  27 Dec 07, 18:01

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  Is it important? What if one day, your gf comes up to you and told you she's no longer one. How would you react.
  I told her i love her & i don't mind. Am i doing the right thing?
  

  My Lord, first of all, tell me the true, Are u a virgin?
• LordIcarus

  27 Dec 07, 18:02

  yes of course. i said my principles.
  perhaps the culture got to me.
  you think if you were to tell your parents your gf/bf is not a virgin they won't have a second view at the person?
  
• angel7030

  27 Dec 07, 18:02

  Originally posted by MidnightK:

  looking for one to marry..
  not easy at all..
  with bastards around who pick up girls just to fu*k..
  

  Yalor, bastard guys.
• jay_rocks

  27 Dec 07, 18:03

  I mind.
  
  and this thread quite a number of views