Virginity
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Originally posted by Jezmeister:I am a virgin... and you're a prick. Q.E.D
I agree with kikq. -
and what did i say?Originally posted by kikq:my point is there shouldnt be a line. ppl are ppl. being a virgin doesnt make you any better. your virgin wife might cheat on you in the future and the girl who isnt a virgin might become the most faithful wife in the world.
and i dont act like i know you. i was just replying to what you said. and sore is the last thing i am. i have a wonderful bf who knows i'm not a virgin but still treats me like a princess and i love him very much. if he had stopped seeing me just because i'm not one we both would have missed out on so many good things. fortunately he's not that shallow
so you are saying non virgins are better?
stop bragging here..
not interested on whatever good things you two been through.. -
did you actually read the post?Originally posted by MidnightK:and what did i say?
so you are saying non virgins are better?
stop bragging here..
not interested on whatever good things you two been through.. -
x 2.Originally posted by Jezmeister:did you actually read the post? -
errr. don't start the flaming please. i entirely get everyone's point. anyway, it's the matter of personal perspective.
so. yeah! keep it that way.
there's no definite right or wrong. -
didnt i just say ppl are ppl? doesnt matter if they're virgins or not. it's the personality that counts.Originally posted by MidnightK:and what did i say?
so you are saying non virgins are better?
stop bragging here..
not interested on whatever good things you two been through.. -
I think I'll go to bed thinking of virgins tonight.Originally posted by LordIcarus:errr. don't start the flaming please. i entirely get everyone's point. anyway, it's the matter of personal perspective.
so. yeah! keep it that way.
there's no definite right or wrong. -
then did i say it's about choice?
did i say that non-virgins are bad? -
grow up bro.Originally posted by SBS3625D:I think I'll go to bed thinking of virgins tonight.
this is aunt agony. you got a special point you want to put through? there's a bar.
look at your comments, are they at all helpful to anyone? no.
stop trying to increase your post counts this way man.
anyway, it's not like you'll win a prize doing this.
can you imagine? 3k plus of BULL.
where the heck is your human compassion. freaking dog changed it for your lousy wit? -
I think bar is crap.Originally posted by LordIcarus:grow up bro.
this is aunt agony. you got a special point you want to put through? there's a bar. -
"stale old soggy steak" aww you flattererOriginally posted by MidnightK:then did i say it's about choice?
did i say that non-virgins are bad?
dont think it was your line but you seemed to agree with every word.
sorry TS...i dont think this about you and your gf anymore lol i'll stop spamming. -
err no prob. i get your, initial point too. thanks.Originally posted by kikq:"stale old soggy steak" aww you flatterer dont think it was your line but you seemed to agree with every word.
sorry TS...i dont think this about you and your gf anymore lol i'll stop spamming. -
If you are a virgin and you married a nonvirgin, you will most likely forever have a knot in your heart. You will always think about how pure you are and how "unpure" your partner is. Eventually, you may stray and become "unpure" as well.
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Now that's what I call rekindling flames.Originally posted by Gasfene:If you are a virgin and you married a nonvirgin, you will most likely forever have a knot in your heart. You will always think about how pure you are and how "unpure" your partner is. Eventually, you may stray and become "unpure" as well. -
well, dun take it too hard.Originally posted by Gasfene:If you are a virgin and you married a nonvirgin, you will most likely forever have a knot in your heart. You will always think about how pure you are and how "unpure" your partner is. Eventually, you may stray and become "unpure" as well.
u can't change history anyway. -
me virgin.Originally posted by browniebaobao:u are kidding.
i have never come across one virgin guy.
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pian siang?Originally posted by 798:me virgin. -
IMHO, non-virgin is imperfection in this case. Since this issue matters to TS, it goes to show that if his gal isn't a virgin, she isn't perfect or should I say, close to perfectOriginally posted by MidnightK:virginity issues is not imperfections..
you are born one..
you CHOOSE to be one before marriage or after..
no such rubbish as you love your ex so must give it to him..
But anyway, what I meant to say is if you love someone, you must learn to accept everything (strength & flaws) of him/her..
CheerS!!!
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real one! my belief is still sex after marriage.Originally posted by browniebaobao:pian siang? -
errr.. it's hard to believe.Originally posted by 798:real one! my belief is still sex after marriage. -
well i guess.... everyone...everyone no matter how much u say u dun mind, will have even a slightest tinge of jealous? hatred? anger? in you. it seems that love itself can overcome things, but what's the past is the past. it has been done, u can do nothing about it. but the position of thinking is one thing that bothers the people.
u will think how intimate she has been. how impure she has been. how "dirty" (for some people) she has been. How slutty she has been. but what can you do is to accept and move on. If not, let go and move on.
Can u do anything? stitch back her hymen? Sure! but the fact is that she isnt a virgin. face it. the fact that she has been honest, she has given u her fullest. being angry at her will definitely make her helpless. no point...
what u can do is.. think about why she did it, put urself in her shoes. ask if in doubt to clear ur mind. why she did it? why did she allow it? Picture it. Then understand the whole story. after a few times, u should get over it.
Personal experience into the context of virginity. -
ignore others' opinions .
what matters most is your opinion .
do you mind ?
does it affect you feelings for her ?
and most importantly , don't go losing your V just because you feel no point in keeping it since the other party has already lost hers .
you're only 17 , and she may not be the one you're gonna marry eventually .
i still believe there are girls out there who persist in the belief of keeping their V just for their Significant Others . you'll meet one -
for me i dun really bother for my partner a V or her past. wat matter is she dun go behind my back n cheat me currently or in future.
of course it will be better if i can find a V cos it is very rare nowaday. -
Its individual perception. If you really love her, shouldnt take it to heart.
Think about it a while and let it go, thats life. Everything is unpredictable.
Its not easy to find someone you really love.
Wouldnt it be a pity to give up because she is not V?
Choosing a gf/bf is not like choosing a product, choosing him/her to be in whatever shape you want. She is a human. Its about love, feelings and chemistry.
Even when u really meet one V girl in the future that you have no chemistry with. you will force yourself to love her because she is a V?
So will you wait forever for the one who is a V and has the chemisty with. -
Do you love her? if you do, does it really matter?
We all make mistakes and misjudgement in our lives, as long as both are commited and faithful to each other in a relationship.