to her, he is specialOriginally posted by troubledme99:Call me old-fashion, but I personally believe that first-sex should be given to someone who is special.
No. They both don't have feeling for each other. I am afraid that she might give in after he keep on demanding.Originally posted by FireIce:to her, he is special
The problem is my friend is very confused. Yes to a certain extent, I admit that my friend do like the feeling of being touch, but she's unsure of whether to give her virginity to this guy or not.Originally posted by de_middle:ur frined likes to be touched & the guy is touchy.......where's the problem![]()
She's my friend, and that's why I don't want to see her being cheated.Originally posted by jojobeach:At least the guy is fulfilling one of a few of her needs. That's what a relationship is about.. fulfilling needs.
Your friend may be blur, but she is not stupid. Give her some credit ok ?
If she lose her virginity to this guy and she don't feel like it's a lost. Why are you so worried ? Just remember to remind her, don't go unprotected sex.
You are her friend, not her mother.
If she cannot tell right or wrong, she'll have to learn it the hard way.
You cannot be there for her all the time.
Your duty as a friend is to give some logical advise, and it's up to her to discern it herself.
You cannot live her life for her.
Virginity is only valuable to the person who values it.
Why is it so important to you who she lose her virginity to? Unless you value HER virginity so much ?
My friends and I tried to wake her up, but she seems in her dreamland; She just wouldn't want to break off with that guy~Originally posted by lageihsif:just break off lor...ignore that guy etc etc
Originally posted by troubledme99:No. They both don't have feeling for each other. I am afraid that she might give in after he keep on demanding.
Get another reliable handsome chap to seduce her lol... handsome = look like Wu YanZu, Wang Lee Hong...Originally posted by troubledme99:My friends and I tried to wake her up, but she seems in her dreamland; She just wouldn't want to break off with that guy~
This same thing happened to my fren too. No matter wat we say she still won't listen. In the end...well....its really sad. Anyway if ur fren still doesn't listen after persuading her so much, then the only thing u can do now is prepare to comfort her when she finally gets hurt by the guy.Originally posted by troubledme99:My friend just got into a relationship with this particular guy. What surprised me is that, she doesn't have 'special' feeling for this guy. He looked like some sort of gangster (another friend told me this). According to one of my close friend, I got to know this guy is a player.
The reason why she got into a relationship with him because she wants 'protection' or so called 'security' from the guy. Heard from one of my friend that, she kinda like the feeling of being touched by the guy. So with evidence, I think she's the Kinesthetic person, who love the feeling of touch.
And she also admits that the guy don't like her; He doesn't have feeling for her. I feel that my friend is in the wrong in the first place by asking him to be his boyfriend.
And this guy is very touchy, and she worry that she might lose her virginity to this guy. My friend is very blur, and she's really blur. She couldn't tell what's right or wrong. I'm afraid that this guy might want to have sex with her, and she might not have an idea what to do. To give or not to give. And if my friend were to reject, I'm worried that he might use force(you should know what this means).
Call me old-fashion, but I personally believe that first-sex should be given to someone who is special.
So can someone comment on this, so that I have an idea what to suggest to her.
Thanks. Really appreciate you help.