I am so PATHETIC!!!, can anyone help me??

• CfCJ

  28 Dec 07, 23:25

  Do something and stop complaining
• MidnightK

  28 Dec 07, 23:31

  Originally posted by ellisbeck:

  If something every happened to him, and you get to know of it, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Don't ever say things like that frivolously because you never know the person's emotional state. I am sharing this based on my work experiences..

  does it matter?
  only the fittest survive..
  
  so if someone ask him to jump and he does, who's the stupid one?
  
  no gf, no looks wanna die..
  weak
• Nikar2

  28 Dec 07, 23:59

  if you're fugly, then you need to celebrate and be happy, because fugly people usually end up with very chio chicks.
  it happens everywhere, i tell you.
  even my sister's bf is not very good-looking though she's pretty.
  
  and for me, i'm good-looking, so that means my wife will be a fugly pig....
  handsome guys like me should be the ones feeling depressed and sad.
  i'm very worried.
• Aaron8209

  29 Dec 07, 01:24

  bhb so handsome sia handsome boy...look doesnt matter...imptt is inner beauty ...we know u have a kind soul..so dun give up try harder.NO one is perfect.
• browniebaobao

  29 Dec 07, 01:27

  are u overly sensitive?
  
  Did anyone ever tell u right in your face that u are ugly?
  
  always remember, it doesn't matter much if u dun have a pretty face.. as long as u have a beautiful heart.
• sEphIrOth

  29 Dec 07, 01:49

  i m below ave. im not nice and i dont receive nice comments only for certain facial features distinctively. my mom says so too.
  
  but i cover my flaws with other things. things that make people forget i lack strength in my facial and bodily outlook. and because of my strengths, i have frens, a good family and a devoted girl.
  
  so why cant you?
• N0body

  29 Dec 07, 02:30

  anyway u r right.looks do matter.
  i have low self confidence too when i am in my teens.
  
  but things change when i grow up.
  
  anyway since born ugly..u cant do anything rite?
  
  my tips.
  
  looking ugly is okie..
  
  u can make urself look cleaner. tidy and clean and pleasant. will do the trick.
  
  all the best
• redstone

  29 Dec 07, 04:22

  how old are u now? I know of people who didnt find their first gf/bf til like they're in their mid 20s.
• ahsiang12

  29 Dec 07, 10:23

  Originally posted by redstone:

  how old are u now? I know of people who didnt find their first gf/bf til like they're in their mid 20s.

  Females should start finding boyfriends after 20 and males should start finding girlfriends after 25.This is what a Buddhist monk said.For threadstarter, you should not be in self-pity, you should spend time saving the world.
• Yunhaier

  29 Dec 07, 10:38

  Originally posted by PatheticBoy:

  I am so pathetic, i look so ugly , and no GF, and my look is very SCARY, lot of people scare of ME, i really wanna commit suicide Soon, can anyone help me???

  If you always reckon that you live a pathetic life, you always will.
  
  I wondered what kind of help you need. To me, only you can help to change yourself - nobody else can because this is self affliction.
  
  What happens is that you prefer to wait for solution in a problem that doesn't drop you a solution.
  
  You want someone to save you from your perceived 'pathetic destiny' - but I can tell you, there isn't such a person. If you don't have initiative to change yourself, nothing will happen.
  
  What likely would happen is that you would log off your computer and resume leading a 'pathetic life'.
  
  And I tell you, you don't have to live with such a destiny.
  
  You hold the key to resolve your misery. This key doesn't lies with somebody else.
  
  Cheers
• dmuse

  29 Dec 07, 12:54

  Originally posted by PatheticBoy:

  I am so pathetic, i look so ugly , and no GF, and my look is very SCARY, lot of people scare of ME, i really wanna commit suicide Soon, can anyone help me???

  hey bro, nobody is ugly. go give yourself a good scrub and keep to healthy regimes (mind and body). soon you will attract all the nice people around you.
  cheer it up.
• PPG

  29 Dec 07, 13:46

  looks won't get you far; only character.
  
  but improving your looks would definitely boost your self-esteem, so for now just study hard, next time you can consider going for a make-over.
• Uncertain

  29 Dec 07, 19:27

  Where is TS? dun tell me, he write this for fun lol...
• Virus92

  29 Dec 07, 20:07

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  are u overly sensitive?
  
  Did anyone ever tell u right in your face that u are ugly?
  
  always remember, it doesn't matter much if u dun have a pretty face.. as long as u have a beautiful heart.

  tts sounds good n all but we all know tts not wat ppl really believe. Who among us actually likes sum1 cus they're beautiful inside?
• Allen.Iverson

  31 Dec 07, 01:48

  trust me on this but looks arent the key. its only temporal and superficial. u might see girls ogling hot guys and all that but in the end girls would choose someone stable and able to provide comfort and the right company.
  
  try to groom urself as best as u can. always look ur best no matter what but dont overdo it. always improve yourself. learn new things. try to be the best at everything u do but dont be overly competitive. when u improve urself ppl will realise u possess traits and abilities and recognise u for that. girls will too eventually.
  
  something else important is to keep fit. ur body is something u definitely can change and will add points to ur image. LOTS of points. that is if ure genuinely willing to put in effort to workout.
  
  look at all the hot chicks and look at their partners. u realise their all not very good looking actually. but they have really good character and are fun-loving and confident. this is what attracts them. if ur gona pity urself and do really foolish things like committing suicide, then its too bad for u cos u have so many years of ur life ahead of u that would look so much brighter if u did something positive as mentioned above. develop ur confidence. its extremely important. its something i severely lack in, but im at least making an effort in building up my confidence.
  
  soon u will realise that life is not about looks. but how u live life to the fullest. enjoy life because there are many others who lost their lives so suddenly and unpredicted. im sure they would be willing to live again given the chance.
  
  fu.ck the thought of being pathetic cos ure not. ure an able bodied guy. ure not deaf dumb and blind and limbless which is something u should already be thankful for. do something about ur life if ure really willing to change urself.
  
  then soon the girls will come =)
• FBI

  31 Dec 07, 01:53

  when u have money, u have everything
• magical_wen

  31 Dec 07, 02:20

  tsk..tsk..
  aiyo...
  y say until laidat...
  ugly only mah..
  who say ugly people cnt succeed in life?
  who say handsome people will lead a good life?
  who say pathetic people cnt be happy?
  its all abt ur choice..
  smile
  
• Isis

  31 Dec 07, 06:54

  Alot of guys also don't have GF.
  
  Alot of guys also look scarey.
  
  Yeh u are not the only one.
  
  
• Tier

  31 Dec 07, 10:02

  Nobody is perfect, everyone is unique.
  Of course you have the unique side of you.
  
  Good looks are visually satisfying at first sight but to have a everlasting bond with people still gotta depend on the inner self.
  
  Impress with your personality, confidence and style.
  
  You have to like yourself before others can like you.
  People are attracted to a happy person, so smile more often.
  They are afraid to go near a gloomy person.
  
  By looking down on yourself, you are encouraging others to do the same.
• PatheticBoy

  31 Dec 07, 10:08

  i think ugly and scary look is more worst than deaf dumb and blind and limbless ,
  with my whole look have been disfigure, everyone outside dun dare to walk pass me, and give me a weird look, how to live life like that
• Isis

  31 Dec 07, 10:12

  i ask you huh.....
  
  HOW do you know WHAT those people thinking in the first place???
  Can you read their mind?
  
  If u can't read their mind, how do you know they really think there way.
  Rather you behave there way cos you think there way.
  
  
• sEphIrOth

  31 Dec 07, 10:26

  Originally posted by PatheticBoy:

  i think ugly and scary look is more worst than deaf dumb and blind and limbless ,
  with my whole look have been disfigure, everyone outside dun dare to walk pass me, and give me a weird look, how to live life like that

  it all begins with urself. how u think will be how u portray.
• sCreaMoPuNk

  31 Dec 07, 10:30

  go for a MAKEOVER!
  
  if you are really desperate, for earn some money for plastic surgery.
  
  im not promoting it okay it's just a desperate measure. anyway plastic surgery is oh so common in the world now
• Uncertain

  31 Dec 07, 11:21

  Originally posted by PatheticBoy:

  i think ugly and scary look is more worst than deaf dumb and blind and limbless ,
  with my whole look have been disfigure, everyone outside dun dare to walk pass me, and give me a weird look, how to live life like that

  disfigured U kena slashed by a knife on the face or u have a lot of scars on your face (just like me)? If u kena the first one, i pity u. If u kena the second, i will give u this _|_ I also scarred what, do i end my life?
  
  If u matters what others think about u, then won't celebrity be more stressed up then u? They can't even went out to have lunch in public places and meet up friends.
  
  Y not lead ur life to the fullest? Go do voluntary work... do more goods... maybe one day, a girl may just fall for ur personality. If no girl, won't helping people who are less fortunate than u makes u happier? Y be a forever loser by committing suicide and not be someone with benevolent heart who cares for the less fortunate?
• sprakster

  31 Dec 07, 11:35

  Our million dollar ministers all very handsome meh?