What should I do with this maid!?

• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 02:07

  Originally posted by 798:

  tell her straight in the face dat employer/servant r/s is wrong n draw the line wif her.
  
  i believe she's just want u to zip ur mouth of her misdeed, dat's why she's offer sex so dat u can keep quiet. assure her u wont do dat.
  
  if u bonk her, u will land up in deep sh!t as she might even blackmail u of raping her.

  me siding with 798
• tinkibell

  30 Dec 07, 02:28

  this is such an awkward situation..
  
  the maid must be feeling very lonely.. understandable. she's indo.. studied in local uni.. then come Sg work as maid? no offence but why doesnt a uni grad find a better job.. sounds quite fishy to me..
  
  what she suggested .. sex w/o obligations.. sounds like she is just plain lonely here, or maybe over these mths.. she has developed a liking towards you.
  
  ive no idea if u are married or not, but if u do not want to have a relationship with her (as in boy-girl relationship), i think its best to send her off.. after explaining to her of course.. if not, things may get messy n complicated if she starts to fall for you.. wants sex with you.. etc etc..
  
  i feel its best for u and her.. after all, a uni grad shouldnt have much of a problem getting jobs in indo, right?
  
  
• angel7030

  30 Dec 07, 10:58

  I think her bangala and mynmar bfs are waiting for her. You let her extend her stay here, and they will be very grateful to you with mynmar and bangala kisses.
• Hanagata

  30 Dec 07, 11:02

  +1
• caleb_chiang

  30 Dec 07, 22:13

  Originally posted by Xiao Bao Ge:

  I think he meant their own local uni

  Read post and see profile...
  
  If what TS is genuine about this, he is 24 this year.
  
  Had a house with enough rooms for him, a private room, the maid and his parents.
  
  So, he is staying in a 5 room hdb flat the least.
  
  Had a salary that is sufficient to support his luxury expenditure, his parents and the salary of the maid.
  
  Judging from his profile, he stay in SG. else he is lying and this thread is a lie as well.
  
  So local uni refer to sg uni, a indonesian rich enough to come sg to study for degree and ended up a maid?
• Isis

  31 Dec 07, 06:46

  Don't do anythings. Let her do everythings.
• Xiao Bao Ge

  31 Dec 07, 14:45

  Originally posted by caleb_chiang:

  Read post and see profile...
  
  If what TS is genuine about this, he is 24 this year.
  
  Had a house with enough rooms for him, a private room, the maid and his parents.
  
  So, he is staying in a 5 room hdb flat the least.
  
  Had a salary that is sufficient to support his luxury expenditure, his parents and the salary of the maid.
  
  Judging from his profile, he stay in SG. else he is lying and this thread is a lie as well.
  
  So local uni refer to sg uni, a indonesian rich enough to come sg to study for degree and ended up a maid?

  Local uni refer to Indo uni la.... simple also kenot understand.
  TS is from sg and his maid is a grad from Indo uni....is simple as that...