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i've mentioned above i'm not that young.Originally posted by Maith:i think TS is like 14 yrs old -
aiyah, i go shopping wif mommy to buy cny clothes n she's helping me to choose clothes as well. very paiseh too when encounter chio salesgirl who might think me a mommy-person.
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glad to hear it.Originally posted by felirox:Nah my mom is an outgoing person..kind of fun loving...myb yeah,sometiems i do feel paiseh if a gal dubbed me a mummy's boy actually.But after seeing all of your advice,im enlightened
maybe sometimes u felt suffocated? because sometimes i feel like "why am i always spending time with my family, its not as if i don't have friends to spend the weekends with".
i think must balance lor.
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but it's a good thing watOriginally posted by 798:aiyah, i go shopping wif mommy to buy cny clothes n she's helping me to choose clothes as well. very paiseh too when encounter chio salesgirl who might think me a mommy-person.
can build good r/s with mommy -
i find a guy who shops with his parents really sweet...
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Same sentiments.Originally posted by FireIce:i find guys who go walk walk with parents quite attractive.....
When I see guys like that I always give them a smile. -
Oh mine!, those guys who go out with parents are my main target for future bf or even husband. If they can care for parents, surely they can care for me and our future family. Good boys.
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i also find shopping in supermarket a very warm and romatic thingOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:why wld tt make a difference? Err except that I didn't want to buy much, and if I am taking public transport, I always use the basket so I know how heavy my stuff are getting! Use trolley in the end buy too much, cannot carry.
mebbe being a rather 'domesticated' person myself, I find it very romantic to go supermarket shopping with a guy.. err of course, now i only go with my hubby - but we still feel its romantic u know.. hurhur.. building a home together.
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haiz... sadly..
my mum is the type of make screne type but dunno that she is making a scene...
i still go out with her oftenly...
i just feel that she dont love me as much as i do for her.... -
Sometimes it would help if we could simply use our heart more than the head, and this is especially so here. Stop thinking about what others may think of you and/or see of you. Just be happy that you are able to spend these times with both your parents for when you are grown up you will find that there will be lesser available time to spend with them.
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Why bother about what others would think?
There is only so much time you can spend with your family. Your parents would pass on, sooner or later.
Treasure each moment with them, don't let others stop you. When they are gone, what is left of them is their memories in you. And wouldn't be it tragic that the only memories you had of them was all their constant nagging and how they cause embarrassment? -
wats so embarrassing? i find it that for me its that i have nothing much to talk to them abt..Originally posted by felirox:Sometimes,whenever my parents asked me to go out for shopping and stuffs, I will turn them down. But when I turned them down they will say I am embarrassed of them and stuffs. But I have to admit that at times i am embarrased. I am afraid of people saying..what does this big boy doing outside with his parents?? help me overcoem this? i'm ashame t oadmit this but I must say it to overcoem this. -
lol
that means i'm potential target for all the aunties in sgf already
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shi nai sha shou!Originally posted by gigabyte14:lol
that means i'm potential target for all the aunties already 
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i always very close with my mom 1 lehOriginally posted by FBI:shi nai sha shou!
almost every weekend i will go out with my mom and dad 1
but i dun see people staring or smiling also -
Originally posted by FireIce:i find guys who go walk walk with parents quite attractive..... Originally posted by Quinsy:Me likes filial boys.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I remember the first time i went grocery shopping with this guy, and the first thing he did was to take my shopping basket. I told him, its okay, I can handle it myself but he said he always does it when he goes shopping with his family.
Suddenly, I find that I look at him in a different way - like instead of just being a boy, he is more 'manly' - someone who plays a significant part of his family, contribute and can take care of his parents.
I think that's attractive.Originally posted by tinkibell:i find a guy who shops with his parents really sweet...Originally posted by jojobeach:Same sentiments.
When I see guys like that I always give them a smile.
TS, i guess your worries are unfounded..?Originally posted by angel7030:Oh mine!, those guys who go out with parents are my main target for future bf or even husband. If they can care for parents, surely they can care for me and our future family. Good boys. the ladies have all spoken their thots.. -
im 18 going to 19 and im still always going out shopping and buying things with my parents. why care about how others look at you? its the quality of time that your family spends together and thats good enough!
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yeh nothing to be ashamed of la. Just remember to help your mom carry all the stuffs that she bought for you and be there for your mom. Ya... it shows that you are a gentlemen and a good son.
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Nth to be ashamed off, on the contrary it would show that u are a responsible n mature guy, manly as well as it shows u know how to grocery shop to take care of the family. Also by having no qualms abt it shows that u are secure and confident of yourself. Also shows that u have a soft side to u rather than ur outwardly hard impression u prefer to show.
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After reading this thread, i went out with my parents yday.
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there's definitely nothing wrong by going out with parents..
always remb that your parents give birth to you..
without them, u wouldn't be living in this earth.. -
i tink its just a growing phase during teens dat some guys are embarrassed to be seen going out with their parents.
they'll eventually grow out of it..
juz my 2cents -
same age, same mindset.Originally posted by sCreaMoPuNk:im 18 going to 19 and im still always going out shopping and buying things with my parents. why care about how others look at you? its the quality of time that your family spends together and thats good enough! -
the oni reason i dun like going shopping with parents is cause boring and lazy
