over paranoid about

• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 01:10

  my parents
  
  after my grandpa passed away sometime ago, i keep worrying about how it is their turn, and eventually mine
  
  a mixed feeling of fear and anxiety
  
  i am very close with them, but then, i'm still afraid
  
  it's like, every night these thoughts will come and haunt me
  
  been going on for quite a while already, and making me depressed at night, and like tears coming from inside or something
  
  how? how can i stop that kind of thought?
• fairlady_xoxo

  30 Dec 07, 01:12

  Treasure what you have now...and do your best...that's the best way to reassure them of your future...and that they won't need to worry so much about you...
  
  Its good to think about the future...but don't think too much...cheers =)
• Pitot

  30 Dec 07, 01:12

  get a life.
  
  really.
  
  after all death is life.
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 01:14

  cos i don't believe in such religious things, so it's like, after death, like there's nothing left or something
• ShrodingersCat

  30 Dec 07, 01:15

  it is normal and good to have a healthy appreciation of death.
  
  it enables us to live our life better, love more sincerely and have more courage
  and to have less grudges when fulfilling our responsibilities to those we love
  
• fairlady_xoxo

  30 Dec 07, 01:16

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  cos i don't believe in such religious things, so it's like, after death, like there's nothing left or something

  There's a saying that goes...
  
  There's always life after death...
  
  
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 01:17

  Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

  There's a saying that goes...
  
  There's always life after death...
  
  

  i believe in ghosts, but not in that heaven and hell thing
  
  i'm weird right?
• fairlady_xoxo

  30 Dec 07, 01:19

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  i believe in ghosts, but not in that heaven and hell thing
  
  i'm weird right?

  No you're not...who doesn't
• browniebaobao

  30 Dec 07, 01:22

  i understand how u are feeling..
  
  i also felt the same way aft my dad passed away..
  
  spend more time with ur family.. show them more concern..
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 01:29

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  it is normal and good to have a healthy appreciation of death.
  
  it enables us to live our life better, love more sincerely and have more courage
  and to have less grudges when fulfilling our responsibilities to those we love
  

  i tink i can get all of your points
  
  treasure them so i will have less grudges when fulfilling responsibilities
  
  i feel much better already
  
  thanks all
  
  but lol, i feel like a mummy's boy, i really am a mummy's boy
• Y_Shun

  30 Dec 07, 01:31

  1. treasure ppl around you
  2. live your life to the fullest, lead a happy life.
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 01:33

  Originally posted by Y_Shun:

  1. treasure ppl around you
  2. live your life to the fullest, lead a happy life.

  i don't get angry easily also
  
  i always look on the bright side of life 1
• Maith

  30 Dec 07, 02:06

  play sports or get a girlfriend
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 02:08

  Originally posted by Maith:

  play sports or get a girlfriend

  i jog everyday, i swim every week
  
  and i think i am not ready for a gf
• FBI

  30 Dec 07, 02:10

  don b afraid of death.. but i miss my friends and loved ones..
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 02:11

  Originally posted by FBI:

  don b afraid of death.. but i miss my friends and loved ones..

  i happier already
  
  then u demoralise me again
• Maith

  30 Dec 07, 02:13

  when its ur time to die,u die.Why scared?At least when u die,u get to see someone u wanted to see most in ur life right...and that's god
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 02:16

  Originally posted by Maith:

  when its ur time to die,u die.Why scared?At least when u die,u get to see someone u wanted to see most in ur life right...and that's god

  i don't believe in that kinda stuffs, that's the problem
• cApitaland

  30 Dec 07, 02:46

  some ple dun realli believe in God but still choose to believe in life after death or heaven and hell if you will as a way of consoling themselves that death isnt the end...
• gigabyte14

  30 Dec 07, 02:54

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  some ple dun realli believe in God but still choose to believe in life after death or heaven and hell if you will as a way of consoling themselves that death isnt the end...

  wat chiu mean?
• cApitaland

  30 Dec 07, 03:01

  hurhur too cheem.
  
  i think i mean tht they are like lying to themselves that there is life after death but in actual fact they are non-believers. am i making sense here?
• gunner77

  30 Dec 07, 03:11

  its normal after a while u will not be paranoid
• jojobeach

  30 Dec 07, 08:17

  Originally posted by gigabyte14:

  my parents
  
  after my grandpa passed away sometime ago, i keep worrying about how it is their turn, and eventually mine
  
  a mixed feeling of fear and anxiety
  
  i am very close with them, but then, i'm still afraid
  
  it's like, every night these thoughts will come and haunt me
  
  been going on for quite a while already, and making me depressed at night, and like tears coming from inside or something
  
  how? how can i stop that kind of thought?

  You are afraid of losing them because you love them.
  Such is the irony of human emotions.
  
  
• nuub1987

  30 Dec 07, 12:42

   life is too short to worry about such things

• Isis

  31 Dec 07, 06:40

  occupy your mind with something.