What if there really is no "You" [page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]... you can do it! You can realize that there is no you!Originally posted by jr.spikey:Hi,
How do I change myself??
I'm not the outgoing type and I tend to be shy around girls, especially prettier ones. How do I curb this my behaviour?
Another question, I am afraid of competitions, unless it's something that I have done and excelled in without failure for a period of time. I am the 'kancheong' type and in competitions, I know I cannot be my usual and will surely lose.![]()
go out with someone ugly then..Originally posted by jr.spikey:Hi,
How do I change myself??
I'm not the outgoing type and I tend to be shy around girls, especially prettier ones. How do I curb this my behaviour?
Another question, I am afraid of competitions, unless it's something that I have done and excelled in without failure for a period of time. I am the 'kancheong' type and in competitions, I know I cannot be my usual and will surely lose.![]()
U just need one thing to change them all... Confidents!Originally posted by jr.spikey:Hi,
How do I change myself??
I'm not the outgoing type and I tend to be shy around girls, especially prettier ones. How do I curb this my behaviour?
Another question, I am afraid of competitions, unless it's something that I have done and excelled in without failure for a period of time. I am the 'kancheong' type and in competitions, I know I cannot be my usual and will surely lose.![]()
=________="Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:What if there really is no "You" [page: 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9]... you can do it! You can realize that there is no you!
If there is no you, how can 'you' be shy?
I agree with the Bear.Originally posted by the Bear:confidence and all that.. it's all easily said than done..
small steps... force yourself to speak a bit more.. to smile a bit more... to converse a bit more...
force yourself to take the first step.. initiate conversation.. be it "wow.. that's a nice dress!" or "hey man.. saw that movie with Clooney in it?"
make small talk...
keep at it.. it will not be easy.. it will not be overnight... but it will become easier...
work at it...
good luck
-coos shyly-Originally posted by mistyblue:yandao very shy. I can confirm one.. Look look ... yandao blushing....![]()
TS, what is your motive?
kiam pah.Originally posted by Ferret:-coos shyly-![]()
One afraid of competition because he has no confidence to win and afraid of losing.Originally posted by jr.spikey:Hi,
How do I change myself??
I'm not the outgoing type and I tend to be shy around girls, especially prettier ones. How do I curb this my behaviour?
Another question, I am afraid of competitions, unless it's something that I have done and excelled in without failure for a period of time. I am the 'kancheong' type and in competitions, I know I cannot be my usual and will surely lose.![]()