she says...
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she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20. -
if reject den try to continue to woo her lor.
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she say dun wan means dun wan la.
try again n u'll risk losing e frenship.
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jiayou! make her touch by doing lots of things for her with sincereity , and u must make her feel that you wont let her worry about u.Originally posted by Deunamist:she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20. -
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it's not easy..Originally posted by Deunamist:she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20.
one more time might be good, it might cause you a friendship..
well, what doesn't come with a price?
are your feelings for her strong?
does she have any interest in you?
going out with you doesn't mean she's interested..
she might find you a good friend, someone she can talk and click with..
that's the problem many people faced..
friends-> to best friends but never to ->couples..
so when starting a friendship, don't go to the best friend stage if you intend to be with her..
or else it's real hard to get her to be your girl.. -
1.she only enjoy your company as a friend
2.doesnt want to be attached
3.doesnt see a future with you, she is keeping her options open -
I think the friendship is already lost.Originally posted by ChoCoChips:she say dun wan means dun wan la.
try again n u'll risk losing e frenship.
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yeah, i've always kept that distance.
learnt from my previous failed relationship with my ex-girlfriend in september last year (now back to best friend) -
a lot pf people say it's possible for ex-gf to be good friends..
maybe i should change my mindset..
TS, do you still keep in contact with her? -
take it easy..
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which girl?Originally posted by MidnightK:a lot pf people say it's possible for ex-gf to be good friends..
maybe i should change my mindset..
TS, do you still keep in contact with her?
the one i'm talking about in this thread, yes, but it's not like last time anymore. according to my friend, she just doesn't know what to say to me.
as for my ex-gf.. we still keep contact, cause we both accepted the fact that we don't have a future as a couple. -
the one you are mentioning in this thread..Originally posted by Deunamist:which girl?
the one i'm talking about in this thread, yes, but it's not like last time anymore. according to my friend, she just doesn't know what to say to me.
as for my ex-gf.. we still keep contact, cause we both accepted the fact that we don't have a future as a couple.
sigh..
i come across such situations too..
well, it's hard to say what to do now..
i think you give up the idea on wooing her..
now is getting the friendship back..
cause it's just awkwardness now..
no damage have been done yet -
perhaps.. perhaps.. perhaps..
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Going out alot shows she is comfortable with u but doesn't mean her chemistry with u is deep!Originally posted by Deunamist:she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20.
Btw,if u still wanted to try this r/s. U gonna have patience... -
getting along well does not mean she will make a good gf.Originally posted by Deunamist:she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20.
Usually when a girl is so carefree about her thoughts with another guy, is becos she does not see a future with him.
Is her choice on whether she likes you or not. If you truly like her, like you say, respect her choice and walk the talk. -
carefree as in she's got no worries as she isn't in a relationship.
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she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
well , give her some time.. Are you a person that that cannot take care of yourself? Being in a relationship mean that she have to worry for you...
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20.
Then make her dun worry for you lor.. ensure her that she would not have a feeling again..
But you enter into a relationship , it is a bit different from friendship..
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oh plz dun try agian
when a gal said NO,.. it means NO in r/s,,, why being a wussy trying to get her even though she said that already ? u just give her an impression that u cannot accept the truth and cant go on with your own life.. how pathetic..
Dun do it man, live it again, but u can just start talking to her just as a normal fren. Who knows in future she might be the one. Give her some time to get over her bad experience in the past. Mayb u should show to her that u r independant and can take care of urself till she see it inside u. -
yes, some are indeed afraid to get into a R/S. u might just wanna hang around for awhile longer.......Originally posted by Deunamist:carefree as in she's got no worries as she isn't in a relationship. -
can 1 lar, my girl last time oso say she will never be with a guy like me, in the end things turn out fine, it depends on how and what you do to touch her heart, i've done alot to achieve that, so think about it TS
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just give it up..
no means no..
quite impossible to become yes..
i encounter sth like this too..
sms also half-hearted..
msn..
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soemhow tat sounds like an excuse... n oso means u not macho enuff tat she wun need to worry abt u... since u lost round 1 still can continue to woo her... then when u finish ns then jio her if she still "dun wan to worry for her bf"... jz continue as per norm n ask her out n go on dates...Originally posted by Deunamist:she doesn't want to get into a relationship now because she doesn't like to worry for her boyfriend. based on her past experience, she doesn't like the feeling at all.
she also said that that's one of the reasons why she is able to be so carefree and cheerful like she is right now.
we've been going out at least twice a week since mid November, and on christmas eve and i asked her to be my girlfriend but she thought i was kidding. it was only when i said i was serious then she turned me down.
i was a little surprised by her decision and since then we haven't talked.
my final decision is to try one more time, but i'm quite lost at how to do so
P.S. i'm going 19, she's going 20. -
she doesn't like u . period.