Will U Regret Letting Go?
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Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now... -
I will say u deserve better person. cause since he/she dun treasure u and fell for others while with u. it show how fickle minded he is. and he may do it again and again!
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why not
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Sometimes a relationship doesn't have to be peppered with anguish. Why deal with the foulness of fear and mistake when you can choose to imagine, wish and hope for the best in the future (whether or not he comes back)?Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now... -
Girl, you need a rebound guy.Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now...
There will always be regrets after the breakup.
And there will always be regrets after the patch back. -
I will not let her go without her asking.Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now...
She may love me and may love another person at the same time. I will leave the decision to her to make the choice on who is the 1 tat can give her the most happiness rather than making the choice for her.
To accept her back? It really depends. I can accept her when she regrets her decision. But there is a limit for me to live a life for her and when finally I move on, my decision to accept her changes as my life changes. -
i believe once it's gone it's gone. no point liao
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no patchOriginally posted by jojobeach:Girl, you need a rebound guy.
There will always be regrets after the breakup.
And there will always be regrets after the patch back.
ever heard of one chinese phrase "hao ma bu chi hui dou cao"
Good horse won't turn back and eat grass -
First question-I'll just leave, no questions asked.
Second question-Might consider. -
1. I'll just leave with no questions asked. If he can fall for somebody else while with you, that bugger is definitely not worth it.Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now...
2. I'll never take the person back. Betrayal - once is enuff.
Then again, the above answers are just my opinion.
One should not worry about love, but to honor its coming with all his/her heart. -
Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now...
If you want to let go - don't ever look back.
If you plan to look back - forget about letting go.
Cheers -
Just move on...
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i will open my arms and release him.
and no, i wont open my arms to welcome him back later.
cos it normally dun turn out good.
just my 2cents. -
i used to think that i will regret for giving up the love of my life. It has been a few years now. NOw i think, why didnt i give up earlier? I am so much happier now
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depends on how you wanna see it. sometimes its better to let go, no use dwindling on the past and holding on to it.
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happened to me.. i'll just say let it go...
its too agonising. trust no longer there. betrayal is the worst..
although lonely, but u'll feel lighter =) -
wont take back what i let go under this kind of circumstances ba.
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(joking)
It may be better to let them go and move on, find a replacement and all that.
If they came back you can tell them there's someone else but I don't know if it will work out. Are they willing to wait?
That way if the current relationship doesn't work out, you have someone to fall back on.
Also because you have an ex waiting for you, it is proof that you are a good thing and your current bf better treat you well.
If your current bf backs off, then they didn't care for you anyway, better to learn now then later.
If current bf works out, you just punished you ex for leaving you.
You can make them both do silly things to prove they love you more and deserve you. This way you can amuse yourself.
If your ex got tired of waiting and move on, you avoided breaking your heart twice.
You get more presents.
Your gossip will be more exciting.
Your friends will be envious and think you are super cool.
This is why some people prefer to have 2 at the same time. As long as people don't throw acid on your face. -
well.. i would communicate with him though to let decide who is the person he wants to be with. no matter what his decision to be, i will support him.Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now...
if he regrets after that, i would not take him back
the answers that i provided above is the actions that i thought i would do if i have encountered this situation. but if i was ever encountered this situation, i dun knoe what decision i would make though. -
let things be. shun qi zhi run.Originally posted by mother-of-pearl:Say if ur other half fell in love with another person, will u let him/her go without him/her asking?
I'll say Yes...But I will choose a good time to tell n catch him by big surprise but never due to a 3rd party..
However, If he/she regrets their decision later on, Will u accept him/her back again?
I'll say , It depends... I got so many self conflicts going on within myself now... -
before i fell in love, i'd say no.i wont take him back. but i guess..love(rs) are blind..so yeah..i'd probably take him back even after we broke up..
if i see him like someone else when we're together, i'd let him go.. -
in reply to one of the earlier mails about the "good horse dont eat returned grass"....let me fill in the reason why:
becuase when a horse is eating th grass, he is shitting also at the same time. and hence u get the pic that if the horse returned to eat the patch bhind him, what does he get??
so my take is: not meant to be la...let go and move on..
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if she falls in love with another, i will let her go.
Just as if i have fallen in love with another, i could want you to let me go.