Coming home really late..

• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 12:09

  No, you are not thinking too much. *pats
• de_middle

  3 Jan 08, 12:10

  sorry to say this but she shldn't have gotten married if she was afraid of responsibility
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 12:10

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  Why ppl can be that irresponsible ? sigh..is the child is like a tool to simply give and take ? what would happen to the kid when he grow up knowing his mother is a farktard ??

  I just read an article lately. it says many people want to have children, but, how many are ready to be a parent?
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 12:13

  Originally posted by de_middle:

  sorry to say this but she shldn't have gotten married if she was afraid of responsibility

  Many people nowadays dont take marriage seriously.
  
  To some, they get married because they want to get married.
  To some, they get married because they want to buy a flat.
  To some, they get married because they want to be PR.
• Terribear

  3 Jan 08, 12:22

  to TS,
  
  For sure she playing the game outside, looking for a better catch and the chance to leave you. She not settled yet, still looking for better alternative.
  
  Better leave her before she leaves you. or send private investigator to check up on what she actually does *on those clubbing* nights..
  
  Don't hesitate anymore, do what needs to be done..
• de_middle

  3 Jan 08, 12:28

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Many people nowadays dont take marriage seriously.
  
  To some, they get married because they want to get married.
  To some, they get married because they want to buy a flat.
  To some, they get married because they want to be PR.

  yeah & that explains why divorces are on the rise
• Devilplot 3

  3 Jan 08, 12:40

  Divorce is the only way i can 100percent tell u she has an affair with other guy. this kind of girl i won't protect sorry..
• caleb_chiang

  3 Jan 08, 12:40

  I think she's only using you to get pr...
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 14:01

  Was your wife like this before marriage ?
  
  If she is spending more time on Facebook and MSN than with you.... She's tired of you already.
  Are you a boring husband ?
  
  When was the last time you and her go on a trip overseas together ?
  
  As for the child thingy, maybe she is just not ready to have one.
  You can wait till she's past her 30s, when her body clock starts to nag at her, she may change her mind.
  
  Or, it could just be that you are too ugly, and she really don't want you to father her kid.
  
  
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 14:29

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Was your wife like this before marriage ?
  
  If she is spending more time on Facebook and MSN than with you.... She's tired of you already.
  Are you a boring husband ?
  
  When was the last time you and her go on a trip overseas together ?
  
  As for the child thingy, maybe she is just not ready to have one.
  You can wait till she's past her 30s, when her body clock starts to nag at her, she may change her mind.
  
  Or, it could just be that you are too ugly, and she really don't want you to father her kid.
  
  

  Regardless. She chose to marry him, and i am sure how gd or bad looking he is now, it was not overnight. She knew how he looks like BEFORE they married. And it was her choice to marry him regardless of the reason.
  
  And lastly, that comment is really below the belt.
• yiha093

  3 Jan 08, 14:38

  hi!
  divorce her.
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 14:49

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Regardless. She chose to marry him, and i am sure how gd or bad looking he is now, it was not overnight. She knew how he looks like BEFORE they married. And it was her choice to marry him regardless of the reason.
  
  And lastly, that comment is really below the belt.

  Girl, sorry to have to tell the truth.
  
  Agreeing to marry a guy, does not mean she's agreeing to have his kid.
  
  
• Zarks

  3 Jan 08, 14:55

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Girl, sorry to have to tell the truth.
  
  Agreeing to marry a guy, does not mean she's agreeing to have his kid.
  
  

  Nex time ask the Question before married..
  
  Are you gonna have kids after we get married?
  
  We guys need to ask this.. if not we will regret..
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 14:57

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  Nex time ask the Question before married..
  
  Are you gonna have kids after we get married?
  
  We guys need to ask this.. if not we will regret..

  That's very true Zarks.
  
  
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 14:57

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Girl, sorry to have to tell the truth.
  
  Agreeing to marry a guy, does not mean she's agreeing to have his kid.
  
  

  Yes, agreeing to marry is not equivalent to agreeing to have kids.
  But it is certainly unfair to attribute loss of interest or failure of relationship to a party's looks.
  
  I have a female acquaintant, who constantly mock at her bf for being ugly and fat in public. We all think that is the most unfair thing to do since he looks exactly the same before they were together! Instead of feeling bad for her that she has a not gd looking bf, we pity him for having such a gf.
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 15:00

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  Yes, agreeing to marry is not equivalent to agreeing to have kids.
  But it is certainly unfair to attribute loss of interest or failure of relationship to a party's looks.
  
  I have a female acquaintant, who constantly mock at her bf for being ugly and fat in public. We all think that is the most unfair thing to do since he looks exactly the same before they were together! Instead of feeling bad for her that she has a not gd looking bf, we pity him for having such a gf.

  Your friend is not the stupid one. Its the guy who is stupid enough to have married your friend. So yes, it is right that you should pity the guy.
  
  
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 15:00

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  That's very true Zarks.
  
  

  i think you've missed the pont. TS' problem is not even about his wife not wanting kids. His main problem is he 'ai shang yi ge bu hui jia de nu ren'
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 15:01

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  i think you've missed the pont. TS' problem is not even about his wife not wanting kids. His main problem is he 'ai shang yi ge bu hui jia de nu ren'

  That is why I asked if his wife was like this before she marry him ?
  
  
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 15:03

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  Your friend is not the stupid one. Its the guy who is stupid enough to have married your friend. So yes, it is right that you should pity the guy.
  
  

  erm... how come i dunno that they are married?
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 15:04

  Originally posted by blu_sky:

  erm... how come i dunno that they are married?

  Ok my bad.
  He is still with her , yes ?
• Zarks

  3 Jan 08, 15:04

  problem is they used to be together and stick to each other..
  
  now, its the wife seems to stay a distant from her hubby and 4 sentences a day.. its like duno how to say.. the love might have just gone pale. its like they are married but just by name/status.
• blu_sky

  3 Jan 08, 15:04

  Originally posted by jojobeach:

  That is why I asked if his wife was like this before she marry him ?
  
  

  TS had stated above that they were loving.
• jojobeach

  3 Jan 08, 15:08

  Originally posted by Zarks:

  problem is they used to be together and stick to each other..
  
  now, its the wife seems to stay a distant from her hubby and 4 sentences a day.. its like duno how to say.. the love might have just gone pale. its like they are married but just by name/status.

  Yep, I think so too.
  
  Freedom never tasted so good.
  
  So TS can wait for her to "hui xing juan yi" or wait till she finds a guy she loves.
  
  50/50 chance.
• Boka v2.0

  3 Jan 08, 15:14

  Just dump that wife.
  rather than wearing the yellow hat,dump that girl and look for others.
  To spare the hurt,look at Girls as objects.
  remember that.
  
  I do not how it is so difficult since you can always another one.
  To be numb from the cruelness of the world,be cruel to oneself first.
• Quinsy

  3 Jan 08, 15:38

  I have a feeling she's just using you to get the citizenship you know