Shld i pay for it?
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then again, i get irritated by the way u type. wtf is tem?
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ps la..got influenced...tem = then = them. lolsOriginally posted by sEphIrOth:then again, i get irritated by the way u type. wtf is tem? -
how long have u and ur gf been together?
how is her character?
but you can ignore the above qns if she is important enough for you. -
goin 2 months..shes important to mi =) although she always say i don love her..Originally posted by dibilo:how long have u and ur gf been together?
how is her character?
but you can ignore the above qns if she is important enough for you. -
tem?
THEM arh?
sounds so different leh. -
/me looks at 0tah's sigOriginally posted by 0tah:goin 2 months..shes important to mi =) although she always say i don love her..
You two timer! -
something is fishy.. seroius..Originally posted by 0tah:but i really love her la...i noe i can tell her who ask u to take those things bak...she sure said who ask ur cousin tk?!?! she said if she tell her manager ish my cousin use de the situation sure ugly 1..will report police... sometimes i oso felt abit weird..the whole thing ish fishy...cos we r not tgt for very long..cannot pay installment..deadline 6th..maybe ask her to ask her manager to return b4 cny...least i can work..
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Since all products have been returned, why do you have to pay?
2 months is very short. I wouldnt have trust her. Even if it's a 2 year r/s the person still can cheat.
I will advise you not to pay a cent. Really! Dont....
Ok you love her and then? This whole thing sounds like a scam to me....
I agree with Y_Shun, either your girl is cheatin you or her boss is cheatin her.
And dont drag your parents down by borrowing from them....
Keep us updated
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she said still got some missin..but how do i confront her? i don wanna make her feel gao wei...Originally posted by Lorry`:
Since all products have been returned, why do you have to pay?
2 months is very short. I wouldnt have trust her. Even if it's a 2 year r/s the person still can cheat.
I will advise you not to pay a cent. Really! Dont....
Ok you love her and then? This whole thing sounds like a scam to me....
I agree with Y_Shun, either your girl is cheatin you or her boss is cheatin her.
And dont drag your parents down by borrowing from them....
Keep us updated
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In the first place why she take the samples leh and oso why put in your house instead her own home?
Are you sure your gf is not having something going on with her boss and trying to cream you instead?
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this situation is tough lah.. because u were at fault too (thanks to your sis and your cousin) so even if someone is out to squeeze you dry, you can't do anything. Its greediness that had landed you in your predicament, so you will have to pay a price for it.
one thing i noticed is that she says you dont love her, which means your r/s with her is weak, which also goes to say there is a chance that this whole thing might be a setup. in another angle, 1k to see a person's heart is pretty well worth it. it might save u a lot more if this drags on for years.
imho, just pay and see what happens. lol if i were you, i'd quietly observe and see if she goes on a spending spree after you have paid up.
1k... enough for me to buy a whole lifetime of shampoo. -
First thing you should do is to scold your cousins for being so itchy handed or whatever .. ask them to donate any amount they think its suitable ( If they still have conscience .. )
Second thing is to pay the amount your girlfriend asked. If you did find out later that she is just out to cheat your feelings and money, at least you saw the true side of her. Just play along for now. -
Since you have made some payments (on your cousin's behalf without telling her), i suggest you tell her that your cousin wants receipt of those payments from the company. That will eliminate risks of you or her being cheated.
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i dunno if she go on shoppin spree but i noe she kip takin cab lately..
i intend to find out her bank acc...maybe can gey gey say help her make IBank nid to use atm? -
IBank u apply u need to wait for approval.. if bank acc not enough money they won't allow u make one..Originally posted by 0tah:i dunno if she go on shoppin spree but i noe she kip takin cab lately..
i intend to find out her bank acc...maybe can gey gey say help her make IBank nid to use atm? -
seriously i hope u won';t get scam.. jus a piece of advice.. jus not worth it.. etter find out things first b4 u gave her the moneyOriginally posted by 0tah:she said still got some missin..but how do i confront her? i don wanna make her feel gao wei...
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dump your gf as she cannot be trusted at all.Originally posted by 0tah:Hi guys,
Actually tis happened during the mid of dec last yr...my gf actually took alot of sample products frm her company. she put it at my hse,and told mi if my sis wan use can tk 1 or 2 bottles..so i told my sis lo..but dunno wtf la..my sis and my cousins go tk all the porducts..my gf found out the nxt day..very angry...she told mi to tk bak all the products...ok lo so i go and tk bak all the products..but 1 of my cousin got use abit liao...tem bo bian wipe it tem return her...
Here the problem ish,she said alot missin when my sis and my cousin said tey returned mi all le.kana niam by her..nbm tem over liao..
THEN,month end manager check stock i tink...found out she took alot of samples..ask her to return all the samples..tem her manager ask her got use anot..cos i told her all nvr been used..tem she say no lor..but manager still found out...tem she LL..but she nvr say anything abt my sis cousin...meanin like admit its her fault..
Then she cannot produce all the products as earlier she said got alot missin..
in the end she come bak told mi the samples ish actually wat limited edition de...tem ish oni given out when customer purchase a certain amount..
each set ish 100+ missin of 10 sets.. total 1000+
she kip askin mi to find my cousins to fork out $$ to pay ...but my cousin said oreadi return all...how i supposed to tk $$ frm tem... so i borrowed frm my bro and frenz oni half of the amount and lied to her its my cousins's share...tem now still got another sum of $$ still haben fork out...she kip ask mi to find the $$..but herself nvr like fork out a cent...i ask her to help she say no $$..the pay kana holded...but i cant find the other sum of $$ oreadi..deadline ish 6th jan..
how? shld i really return all the $$ myself? 1 side ish my relative..1 side ish my gf...don wanna hurt both side...
sry for the long story....
When things are ok she is so nice but when things turn for the worst she shift the blame on to you. It shows the person character of pushing bad things away. -
I'll find out if the whole story about your gf's boss asking ur gf to pay for it thing is true. There should be some document/invoice/etc proof from your gf's boss. bu4 ke3 neng2 your gf just plainly handover $1K to the boss just like that. (If really so, how will your gf knows what he do with the $?)
Worst come to worst your gf can just resign from the company, if really can't pay. Did the boss have any hard evidence that your gf took the samples? If not, the company is unlikely to report to the police about the "theft". If ur gf had signed something that says that she stole the stuff, then ask her to produce it. It should not be some rubbish document.
If it's geninue case, then pay or no pay, ur gf may still wanna quit.
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ok wat shld i do now? how do i tell her?
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"she put it at my hse,and told mi if my sis wan use can tk 1 or 2 bottles..so i told my sis lo.."
Hmm...
She did say your sis can use them... -
yea she did say that then now shes blaming TS and the cousins and demand for money!
Another question will be how come she placed those stuffs at TS's house? To lure people's itchy hands to take?
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working 2 jobs to pay for her....?Originally posted by 0tah:she said still got some missin..but how do i confront her? i don wanna make her feel gao wei...
i nvr borrow frm my parents..workin 2 jobs now...hope can clear up soon
Some missin? and that add up to 1k? tsk.. will be good if there are some document for proofs or somethin
Actually not worth it.... i would hope you dont pass her the $$$ just like that. 1k might as well go use it to treat your parents to eat or buy them things -
Originally posted by popikachu:
but my sis and cousin took all...tats y she got advantage...
"she put it at my hse,and told mi if my sis [b]wan use can tk 1 or 2 bottles..so i told my sis lo.."
Hmm...
She did say your sis can use them...[/b]
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pay but ask for official receipt regardless of what she says, if not, dont pay.
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U have to ask ur cousins and sis to come out with some money at least as they had used all even though you said one or two. From what it looks like, you are probably being taken advantage by ur gf since u like her so much. As others have said, ask for hardcore evidence. Don't just be dumb and feel sorry and pay up!!!Originally posted by 0tah:but my sis and cousin took all...tats y she got advantage...
right now wat shld i do? how do i confront her?
Even if you owe others money, its your RIGHT to ask for proof of receipts/invoices. Good luck.
And if I were you, I will break up with my gf if she doesn't give me a proper, clear and accurate explanation as to what happened. Trust is very important in a relationship and you are just trusting her after being with her for JUST 2 months? Don't do that mistake..