Sigh, someone please help me!
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hi people, had actually patched back with my gf like say a yr ago.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
she had already turn over a new leaf.
however, recently i had enlisted to army, and she is kinda always not around with me.
her job require her to fly in and out of singapore almost every other day.so its like sometimes i bookout of army i also cant get to see her. there was once i never get to see her for a whole straight month.
in camp i feel so stress. i feel i am so lonely, so stressful, cos people ard me is doin so well in their fitness and stuffs, whereas i am always nowhere near them. i cried many times alone in the nite, i cried because i need her.
in camp i got not many friends, as i feel so inferior to them.
I am so afraid she might leave me. I am also afraid i will lose her and yet i duno what can i do. I am never able to concentrate and i dread going back to camp cos i cant stand not seein her for an hr. i need her very badly.
can someone please advise me what should i do?
I need real help here. thanks. i really duno what i should do. -
How old are you? Still in NS that means around 20's? And you are already behaving like you are missing your wife or what.. Anyways, you are supposed to be a man, stop being sissy and crying in toilets. If people are doing well around you and you are not doing as good as them, then whose fault izzit? Is it because of your gf not being around you? Think about it. Doesn't it sound stupid? Can you only perform well when your gf is sitting beside you?Originally posted by mitgalant:hi people, had actually patched back with my gf like say a yr ago.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
she had already turn over a new leaf.
however, recently i had enlisted to army, and she is kinda always not around with me.
her job require her to fly in and out of singapore almost every other day.so its like sometimes i bookout of army i also cant get to see her. there was once i never get to see her for a whole straight month.
in camp i feel so stress. i feel i am so lonely, so stressful, cos people ard me is doin so well in their fitness and stuffs, whereas i am always nowhere near them. i cried many times alone in the nite, i cried because i need her.
in camp i got not many friends, as i feel so inferior to them.
I am so afraid she might leave me. I am also afraid i will lose her and yet i duno what can i do. I am never able to concentrate and i dread going back to camp cos i cant stand not seein her for an hr. i need her very badly.
can someone please advise me what should i do?
I need real help here. thanks. i really duno what i should do.
Alrite, given that you are not able to concentrate at all on your stuff due to your lack of knowledge about where she is, does she know how you are feeling? Does she know that you are suffering so much? If she really loves you then why she is doing this to you? Can't you ask her to keep in touch with you, update you, inform you which days she will be in Singapore and so on, so that you can plan and have at least something to look forward to?
In any case, you should grow up bro, you can't be weak like this. You should develop more will power and learn to concentrate on things instead of being distracted by other matters. Like this you won't even excel in studies (if you are planning to do further studies).
Do yourself a favor, be a bit selfish, work hard for yourself first. -
My friend once told me something about life: "live with it if you want to live in it".
no point getting so upset over a girl.
Its time to grow up, suck it up and live for a better tomorrow -
Air stewardess???
I have very low regards for air stewardess because some of them sleep around when overseas. -
Originally posted by mitgalant:
You need a mother
hi people, had actually patched back with my gf like say a yr ago.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887
she had already turn over a new leaf.
however, recently i had enlisted to army, and she is kinda always not around with me.
her job require her to fly in and out of singapore almost every other day.so its like sometimes i bookout of army i also cant get to see her. there was once i never get to see her for a whole straight month.
in camp i feel so stress. i feel i am so lonely, so stressful, cos people ard me is doin so well in their fitness and stuffs, whereas i am always nowhere near them. i cried many times alone in the nite,[b] i cried because i need her.
in camp i got not many friends, as i feel so inferior to them.
I am so afraid she might leave me. I am also afraid i will lose her and yet i duno what can i do. I am never able to concentrate and i dread going back to camp cos i cant stand not seein her for an hr. i need her very badly.
can someone please advise me what should i do?
I need real help here. thanks. i really duno what i should do.[/b]
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u lived 18-20+ years without her, now why?
and for youhttp://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217887 -
Do you personally know anyone who has slept around and is an air stewardess? Please don't just say things because you heard rumours. Majority of the air stewardesses are working hard to feed their families and are not exactly rich.Originally posted by maurizio13:Air stewardess???
I have very low regards for air stewardess because some of them sleep around when overseas.
Don't call the whole basket bad just because one egg is bad.. Shame on you. -
yeah, work something out with your girl la dude. she's bound to be able to make some time for you. as for NS, i know bananas about it, but i believe that if you want to do better, you can if you really really want it. and even if you don't succeed, it feels good to know that you have tried your frucking best. making more friends help i think. even if you are more inferior than them, it doesn't make your chances of having more friends any lower. anyone has the right to make friends. be confident of yourself. go dude!
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Ermm....Originally posted by coolgeek84:Do you personally know anyone who has slept around and is an air stewardess? Please don't just say things because you heard rumours. Majority of the air stewardesses are working hard to feed their families and are not exactly rich.
Don't call the whole basket bad just because one egg is bad.. Shame on you.
Did I say WHOLE or SOME???
Maybe you should read carefully before blabbing. -
ur a man so behave like one please
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Maybe gay mah.Originally posted by de_middle:ur a man so behave like one please -
sigh.
u know sometimes physical this type of things, how to train overnight?
its like people is doing it so much more better than me. i am lagging behind yet what can i do about it?
ya, she got constantly update me and stuffs, yet i still miss her alot
i felt lonely because, i'm inferior. people get to bookout and stuffs whereas i still have to undergo more training.
i hardly get to meet her sometimes because of the schedule also. its very pack so we can meet like say 1 day in a week or maybe lesser at times.
Well, i know i'm a man and blah blah. but cant a man show his emotions?
so u're going to tell me i cant even let my emotions out when i am alone?
maybe it's my way of letting my emotions -
go AWOL so can meet up with her.
