What to do?

• Sakuragi86

  6 Jan 08, 20:18

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?
• shobogen

  6 Jan 08, 20:21

  ask and you shall be given
• selfobliged

  6 Jan 08, 20:31

  leave her alone since she has a bf!
• Sakuragi86

  6 Jan 08, 21:02

  But i think they break up already.
• MidnightK

  6 Jan 08, 21:07

  it's online and you don't dare to talk to her..
  forget it man..
  how to talk to her face to face?
  
• tut4nkh4m3n

  6 Jan 08, 21:11

  Originally posted by MidnightK:

  it's online and you don't dare to talk to her..
  forget it man..
  how to talk to her face to face?
  

  x2
  
  you know you got to take that chance dont you
• coolgeek84

  6 Jan 08, 21:15

  U don't dare to talk with her? Any particular reason? Its been 2 years already and you don't even have the guts to talk to a gal whom you liked and that to thru online!! Go and send her msg la! Just send something like "hey how r u, long time never hear from u, what r u donig nowadays? we shd meetup sometime for coffee and catch up" or something along those lines..
• allentyb_v2.01

  6 Jan 08, 21:18

  If you are so chicken S H I T, then good luck in having your very first girlfriend bah, and you are hopeless, can't you just treat her normal as a friend, and work your way up, if you are going to keep your mouth shut, perhaps it would be best for you to just look for those 16 year old girl, perhaps it would be easier for you
• MidnightK

  6 Jan 08, 21:22

  Originally posted by allentyb_v2.01:

  If you are so chicken S H I T, then good luck in having your very first girlfriend bah, and you are hopeless, can't you just treat her normal as a friend, and work your way up, if you are going to keep your mouth shut, perhaps it would be best for you to just look for those 16 year old girl, perhaps it would be easier for you

  not younger girl = easier to get..
  it doesn't work this way..
  
  
• Darkness_hacker99

  6 Jan 08, 23:15

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  Could it be you interpret the signals wrongly? When a signal is sent, there's many way to interpret it.
  
  Those Facebook application thingy, don't take that as hints because she probably sent it to everyone in the list.
• de_middle

  8 Jan 08, 11:55

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  But i think they break up already.

  better be sure
• nehpyh

  8 Jan 08, 12:00

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  Tell me her facebook email and I'll relay the message for you!!!!!
• angel7030

  8 Jan 08, 16:36

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  But i think they break up already.

  You better make sure, or else u may end up with a black eye pea.
  
  My advice is go for first hand one.
• ghast.

  16 Jan 08, 22:41

  better don get too close, as much as you like her.
• crimson soldier

  18 Jan 08, 16:37

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  A girl can buy you gifts, call you up and spend lotsa time with you; but if she doesn't say that she like you in those exact words, she doesn't like you.
  
  It's really hard to confirm whether "she likes you" unless you pursue and ask her.
  
  Since you are not very close to her atm I suggest you go for her then. It's always easier to chase some one who is not your "close friend"....isn't it?
• Jamie Zawinski

  18 Jan 08, 16:42

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  But i think they break up already.

  you think, she thought, who confirm?
• phil30k

  20 Jan 08, 12:20

  Singapore does not have laws prohibiting a boy approaching a girl.
  Our society does not expect you to have matching social standings.
  Our community accepts that boys and girls can be friends.
  Our Religions have a limited influence these days.
  Our families don't arrange marriages.
  Our friends will not stigmatize you if a girl rejects you.
  Both boys and girls respect each other's right to choose bf/gf.
  We learn and become better people from our experiences.
  Rejection will still hurt.
• frakfrakfrak

  20 Jan 08, 12:30

  phil, switch off analysis mode yo, no more GP topic.
  
  TS: Go for it lah, nothing to lose, everything to gain.
• New Creation

  22 Jan 08, 12:23

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  Please do not over-read too much into this. A lot of men are trouble simply because they over-read a woman. This is NOTHING.
  
  Do you think after 2 years have passed, she will have the same kind of affection for you? I do not think so. The only tangible signs that she is interested in you, is when she takes the initiative to ask you out to hang out with her and just her.
• xavier1979

  24 Jan 08, 21:38

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  Frankly, Nature has made it so that shy people like you will get extinct first.
  
  So, PLUCK UP THAT COURAGE! It's not as though you're going to kneel down and propose to her right now. Words won't kill, right?
• Guardx

  25 Jan 08, 01:13

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  Bang your head on the wall and die.
  
  Since you have no guts why still want to live on?
  
  Life is Reality, do it or forever wasting your time by whinning.
• Isis

  25 Jan 08, 01:22

  Originally posted by Sakuragi86:

  I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

  If you are sure she has no bf and you have a feeling that she like u too - > that means someone has fallen from the sky onto your lap, aiyo, don't waste the golden opportunity that perhaps come only once.
  
  No guts no Glory.
  
  Don't be indecisive when you are sure of yourself.
  Be yourself and if she like you, she like you.
  
• bananaking

  25 Jan 08, 01:25

  hey TS...go for it..the forumees from sgForums will back u up all the way!!