we broke up...

• HyuugaNeji

  8 Jan 08, 13:35

  Originally posted by RedizAlertz:
  Why??
  
  LOVE is suppose to b selfless, raceless, religion-less, age-less, sex-less kindda thing.
  Just because of diff callin tat u have to break up? If tat is the case tat u believe in, get it over & done with, cos u made the choice.
  It can onli be a good memory for u from now onwards, UNLESS u make another choice.
  
  It's definately not easy to find someone who loves u so much & vice versa..Issit worth to let go for something else? Love shld overcome all boundaries.

  
• shade343

  8 Jan 08, 14:43

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  it's not up to us to decide..it's due to religious reasons that we can't be tgt..it's hard to explain because u guys wont understand..
  
  mayb i shld have posted this in eternal hope..

  PLEASE. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS BREAKING UP BECAUSE OF RELIGION.
  
  
  
  Breaking up because of religion is pure nonsense.
• shade343

  8 Jan 08, 14:45

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  we believe that we have different callings in life..we both are christians..yeahhs..but don think that God is a couple breaker or anything.coz i don think of it as that way..who knows, mayb a few years down the road, God will arrange a better man for me to meet..((:
  
  BUT, rite now, im still sad and stuff..=X

  You are a christian and he is a catholic?
  
  God never says you need to break up with a person who has a different idea on who God is. Love conquers all.
• Rigante

  8 Jan 08, 14:52

  The last excuse you should use for a break-up is religion. Love itself is the true religion all man has inherently.
• dangerboi

  8 Jan 08, 15:24

  move on girl
• angel7030

  8 Jan 08, 16:33

  Got sex or not? no sex nevermind, let it go, if got sex, lugi alot.
  
  And please dun cry so much ya. Be cool, like me, so many breakup still strong as hell.
• furturecop

  8 Jan 08, 16:58

  i believe in love over everything else. there is always flexibility in whatever we believe in and we shouldn't be letting our beliefs affect whatever we cherish. maybe i'm not a christian i do not know. but from my personal opinion. breaking up because if religion is quite nonsensical to me no offense. but since the breakup has already happened. why not think of how to spend the days ahead. often many doors of happiness open for us when one closes but so often we sink into despair that we do miss it.
• mir4cle

  8 Jan 08, 18:44

  thanks...we broke up is coz of 'unequal yoke'. both of us are very different in terms of our spirituality level.. i donno lahhs..i guess we're not helping each other grow spiritually.
  
  i have a qn to ask actually..wad is AA? i come sgforums.com i see onli these few things i can click..i onli noe of eternal hope coz u guys kept talking abt it..how to see other forums??
• qrex

  8 Jan 08, 18:51

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  thanks...we broke up is coz of 'unequal yoke'. both of us are very different in terms of our spirituality level.. i donno lahhs..i guess we're not helping each other grow spiritually.
  
  i have a qn to ask actually..wad is AA? i come sgforums.com i see onli these few things i can click..i onli noe of eternal hope coz u guys kept talking abt it..how to see other forums??

  click "all forums"?
• mir4cle

  8 Jan 08, 19:08

  oh..wow..okayy..O_o i didn't see that button.
• Zarks

  8 Jan 08, 19:15

  Why u both cant be together?
  
  Bcuz u both have the thinking religion is the wall.
  
  Isnt that foolish ?
  
  if you both think religion is the wall.. then i believe u both dont love each other that much.. yea ur right.. better break up if love is not strong
• Maith

  8 Jan 08, 22:34

  broke up cause of religions...?That's pure crap...(no offense),if both of u broke up because if that that means u two dont truly love each other at all.
  
  If true love existed between both of u,then nothing can seperate u two.And why is this problem only happening now instead of at the beginning
• Rigante

  9 Jan 08, 00:43

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  thanks...we broke up is coz of 'unequal yoke'. both of us are very different in terms of our spirituality level.. i donno lahhs..i guess we're not helping each other grow spiritually.
  
  i have a qn to ask actually..wad is AA? i come sgforums.com i see onli these few things i can click..i onli noe of eternal hope coz u guys kept talking abt it..how to see other forums??

  sorry but that is rubbish - to blame or rely upon another for spiritual growth is a sure sign you are spiritually immature yourself - else you would not bring upon yourself such pain based on such an intolerable excuse.
• Pitot

  9 Jan 08, 00:45

  omfg. i dont really know wad to say.
  
  really different level..
  
  
• browniebaobao

  9 Jan 08, 00:49

  religion should not be a big barrier.
  
  if two truly love each other, then try to work it out lor...
  
  rules are dead, but humans are alive.
  
  
• Yunhaier

  9 Jan 08, 01:10

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  thanks...we broke up is coz of 'unequal yoke'. both of us are very different in terms of our spirituality level.. i donno lahhs..i guess we're not helping each other grow spiritually.
  
  i have a qn to ask actually..wad is AA? i come sgforums.com i see onli these few things i can click..i onli noe of eternal hope coz u guys kept talking abt it..how to see other forums??

  AA stands for Aunt Agony.
  
  Cheers
• tzr79

  9 Jan 08, 16:12

  Originally posted by Maith:

  broke up cause of religions...?That's pure crap...(no offense),if both of u broke up because if that that means u two dont truly love each other at all.
  
  If true love existed between both of u,then nothing can seperate u two.And why is this problem only happening now instead of at the beginning

  ya, pure crap.....even not the same religion also mah.
  
  
• raymond_sianz

  9 Jan 08, 16:17

  Why you guys make things so complicated? I tell you very simple. Is just an excuse. Wait till few month down the road. I guess he got another GIRL. is that simple. I even see ppl christian marrying a buddhist. This is call love. If there is really call he will bless true love. I believe in GOD but not religion which some human use it to twist and turn things.
• gigabyte14

  9 Jan 08, 16:22

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  religion should not be a big barrier.
  
  if two truly love each other, then try to work it out lor...
  
  rules are dead, but humans are alive.
  
  

  religion IS a big barrier
• gigabyte14

  9 Jan 08, 16:26

  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=302041&page=0
• justdoit77

  9 Jan 08, 16:58

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  it's not up to us to decide..it's due to religious reasons that we can't be tgt..it's hard to explain because u guys wont understand..
  
  mayb i shld have posted this in eternal hope..

  This kind of thing should bring it out long long ago.
  That's why sometimes in love, it is good to show your bad thing to your loved one. Hiding is no good in long term.
  
  tell you what, may be you should post it in buddhism wisdom bliss.
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=forum_display&forum_id=1728
  
  Seriously & actually I have way for you to be with your bf happily if you don't mind my harsh method.
• HyuugaNeji

  9 Jan 08, 17:26

  your father is a pastor and his father is a priest???
• de_middle

  9 Jan 08, 17:37

  i supposed both of u know in the very beginning that this is gonna be a problem & yet went on with it right? so what happen is more than just religion issues, i'm sure about it
• kiss_my (_i_)

  16 Jan 08, 16:22

  God does not involv in relationship.
  IT does not say break up thn break up, patch thn patch...
  
  gosh... wtf i talking
  
  anyway, timereally can heal...
• hao_hao

  16 Jan 08, 21:02

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  it's not up to us to decide..it's due to religious reasons that we can't be tgt..it's hard to explain because u guys wont understand..
  
  mayb i shld have posted this in eternal hope..

  he's christian while u're not ... or is it the other way round?