If you r the driver, the front passenger seat is empty, 2 ppl seating at back of the van...u ask one of them to move to the front...but bcos either guy will feel dat letting the poor guy alone behind is no goot...
Constructive n mature comments pls...
Think its the feeling of being treated as a 'Ahmad' that irritates you.
Actually, most pple with driving license will know that its not nice (proper courtesy and manner) that they should not let the driver to be alone in the front. So, the qns is are yr friends drivers (or they seldom take private transport)? If not, try explaining to them, i am sure they will understand.
My friend drives a van too, never encounter this problem cos all of us know. Admit that at some time in life a few pple will tend to do that, but then i explain to them and so far no1 really 'guai lan', heh......if he/she is, think i will kick him/her out of the car.
Well the bottomline is, i hate this too.
well well Vinz, seems like feedback is as per what i told u guys..generally, its a basic gesture for courtesy and politeness..it all goes back to INSENSITIVE..i dun take sides, objective pt of view
i cudn't care less now...basically i haf apologised for wat i need to apologise...i dun think i said anything wrong after dat...
Well if it's a couple, I wouldn't mind lwtting them sit at the back but if it's only mutual frens, I would ask one of them to sit beside me, jokingly saying that I hate to sit alone in front.
Well, issit really that annoying if u are the driver and ur friends (2 of them) just wan to sit behind. If one is to go forward, wat would the other one think? and just to highlight, the sit was previously occupied and that the occupant has just dropped of, thus leaving the sit empty, it wasn't empty right from the beginning..
[This message has been edited by SecMinHr (edited 18 May 2000).]
datz the problem....therz a couple behind wat...walau...some more somebody was in front at dat time...
couple?? errr...couple means MALE n FEMALE leh...mr vinz..did i miss out on something???