Need some advice and sense of direction. I'm confused.
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I am a guy, had a steady relationship with my gf for almost 5yrs.
In Feb 07, I happen to know a Filipino gal. Soon our relationship began closer n she tell me about her past. During our relationship, I found out she had a bf in spore but she denied. Later she admits she had a bf whom was a businessman but had left him bcos of me and this guy had a wife. She also had many admirers whom majority were Caucasions n shower her with expensive gifts and money. When we quarell, its like in the hell. We often quarelling. Sometimes i felt that to be with her are damn too expensive.
Few mths later I went to philipines and get married and she was about 3mths pregnant. I had asked advice from few of my best frens and they told me that I had made a big mistake in life, that was to marry her. Some even advise to left her.
Frankly speaking, I cannot forget her past what she do and I fear that after we marry in spore, she will still flirt. I did told her about my fear and she told me she will change but I doubt so. The problem with her that she always like to lie to me. Furthermore, there are also a religion barrier but she told me she wanted to convert.
I really wish to settle down but do not know which one is going to be my life time partner. If I choose my Filipino wife, I feel unsecure n fear. If I married my spore gf, i don't feel fear as i trust her but my love for her had faded.
I'm lost. -
I really wanted to settle down and get marry but i confused? If I choose my Filipino wife, I feel fear, suffering, my financial will be in chaos and never trust her at all but I really love her so much. I can't bear to lose her. If I married my spore gf, i don't feel fear as i trust her so much but my love for her kept on fading and fading. I don't feel happy when I with her as I always think my Filipino wife abroad.
1) You prefer the filipino over the local girl because she looks prettier and gives you good sex.
2) You just want good sex.
3) She just wants to marry you so she can continue working here. No doubt about that. Just read between the lines.
4) Your local gf has been very good to you. However, you are being a jerk by not returning her the favour. Thus, you are not worthy of her.
5) Actually the solution is very simple. Just think logically with your head. And by head, i mean the one on top. Not down there.
6) Please practice safe sex. Especially with such people.
7) Stop being blinded by lust. After work, go out play play nevermind. But know what you have and appreciate it. Don't be stupid. -
i cna help u
THe solution:
Leave them both, u dumb a s s
This canot , that cannot then leave them both !
u got a gf and so much excuse that u trust her but u feel ur love to her is fading
u got this phil gal then u said u love her but u dun trust her..
wat the hell u want ar ?
Instead of giving yourself so much excuse. why not try to make the love between u n ur gf shines more? you just whine whine whine and with this excuse u seek other gal whom u find attractive.
To the phil gal, its not love. its just ur lust... You cant love some1 if you dont trust her.. understood ??!?
What the hell love her but dun trust her? Ask urself ! -
Does your singapore gf know that you got married to this filipino girl? She is willing to take you back?
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u are simply HORRIBLE
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Leave your LOCAL GF...
SHE DESERVE SOME1 WAY BETTER THAN YOU...
AND YOU DESERVE TO SUFFER IN HELL!!! -
What the hell? You
You got married with the Filipino girl whom u have lust with for only a year plus and now u asking if u shld stay with ur steady girlfriend of 5 years instead??
marriage is a serious decision. you are already married with a wife now.
so no point discussing this anymore.
Seriously you are a jerk. -
So you are legally married to the Filipino in the Philippines. And back in your own country, you are wondering which girlfriend you should marry.Originally posted by sanchez_santiago:I am a guy, had a steady relationship with my gf for almost 5yrs.
In Feb 07, I happen to know a Filipino gal. Soon our relationship began closer n she tell me about her past. During our relationship, I found out she had a bf in spore but she denied. Later she admits she had a bf whom was a businessman but had left him bcos of me and this guy had a wife. She also had many admirers whom majority were Caucasions n shower her with expensive gifts and money. When we quarell, its like in the hell. We often quarelling. Sometimes i felt that to be with her are damn too expensive.
Few mths later I went to philipines and get married and she was about 3mths pregnant. I had asked advice from few of my best frens and they told me that I had made a big mistake in life, that was to marry her. Some even advise to left her.
Frankly speaking, I cannot forget her past what she do and I fear that after we marry in spore, she will still flirt. I did told her about my fear and she told me she will change but I doubt so. The problem with her that she always like to lie to me. Furthermore, there are also a religion barrier but she told me she wanted to convert.
I really wish to settle down but do not know which one is going to be my life time partner. If I choose my Filipino wife, I feel unsecure n fear. If I married my spore gf, i don't feel fear as i trust her but my love for her had faded.
I'm lost.
I don't think F confused your life dude. She just confused you, that's all. You have a woman of 5 years and you are willing to throw her aside for a quarrelsome , flirtatious relationship that came together simply because somebody got knocked up. So what even if you were in love with F, who had a relationship with a married man. And she was messing around with you until they broke up. Doesn't sound like you know anything about her at all mate.
And you know what sucks, is if you do choose F over your long time girlfriend S, you'd better be ready for the consequences. All the consequences. Since F has dumped all her boyfriends and she is now pregnant with your child, you have no more choice but to let S go. Then when your marriage with F falls apart because she gets bored with you, you will go back to S and F will go back to the Caucasian boyfriends she has been flirting with. Her admirers will take her back because she is probably hot and attractive but guess what, S won't take you back because you're nothing like Brad Pitt.
What you probably need to do now is marry none of them and think long and hard about the word Loyalty. Just another story about unavailable people betraying partners they are supposed to be loyal to, that's all. -
This is madness !!!! R U TO BE ROTTEN IN HELL !
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quarelling+ lying = low interest rate on you. If she really loves you, will she quarel + lie? Anyway, she is using the baby to tie you up. U must ensure to wear condom every time ma but you prefer raw sex. In other word , i can say she has a good plan. I also think that she is making up the story about those rich ang mo la to raise her status and lie to you that she loves you. I comfirm after she suck ur money dry, she will run. Be careful.
If u want a wife. No need to be so pretty. Personality is very important cos she is ur life time partner. If u sianz about your girl, then go geylang and have some free hot fark but wear condom pls. -
Reminds of dramas where the guy actor enters his private house with a slam on the entrance door against the walls. With a furious look, he walks towards his wife at the sofa and gave her a tight slap.
Wife: What's that for?
Guy: Stop acting dumb. So, you have been lying to me all along eh.
Wife: What are you talking about?
Guy: *throws a file with a logo of a hospital on the sofa seat beside hers*
Wife: *becomes frantic as she flips through the file*
Guy: Had I not made the trip to the hospital today, I will probably never know that bastard in your stomach is not my child! How many more lies are you going to tell me?
Wife: It's not true! You've gotta believe me. I...
Guy: Say no more, Maria. It's time we get a divorce.
Wife: NO, wait, please...*tears start to flow*
Guy: *walks to his own room with heavy footsteps and slams the door*
*Camera zooms out to a mysterious person, covered in black veil, standing outside the house.*
?: *makes a phone call*
Dr. Allen: Hello. May I know who's speaking?
?: Good job, Dr Allen. You'll receive the 2nd $1 million cheque at your doorstep tomorrow morning, as promised.
Dr Allen: So it's you. Mind telling me why are you doing this?
?: What would you do if someone snatched your girlfriend of 5 years and had sex with her while keeping you in the dark even after they got married?
Dr Allen: Well, I would...
?: *hangs up phone*
Dr Allen: Hello? Hello, are you still there? -
Such a nice gf is wasted on someone like ts.
Why don't he introduce her to me instead.
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Confusion stems from self-conflicting ideas?
Yeh just don't get married lah.
If u are not sure, why stick to it ?
Greed.. dude...