Should I forgive him.........???
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ur over-reacting.......
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i think the husband would have avoided all this if he just went to call a chicken.
higher chance of TS not finding out.
bang finish fast fast then come home.
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dun fret too much.Originally posted by iluvham:maybe i didnt mentioned that this is going to be my 2nd marriage and my 1st marriage failed because my ex-husband committed adultery.
yes, i had serious depresssion after i found out my ex-husband slept with another woman... i commited suicides several times
so now i am just being extra cautious, i dont wish for history to repeat itself...
that is why i scream & shout at every of his intention for betrayal...
in my opinion, this current husband of urs is v caring and understandable towards u. he lied cux he doesnt wan u to worry..its a white lie.
give him a peck on the lips and show him how much u love him. give him a gd hug. dat would be sweet of ya as a wife.
show some support for hes working hard for u. -
omg u are making her more worried.Originally posted by kopiosatu:i think the husband would have avoided all this if he just went to call a chicken.
higher chance of TS not finding out.
bang finish fast fast then come home.
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well then she jolly well learn to loosen upOriginally posted by Pitot:omg u are making her more worried.
unless she wants to lose this husband because of her reactions
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u not mentally matured n u still want to b mother n have baby?
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It's normal to keep comparing your ex husband with your current one and imagine the worse. Try to set things straight with him, make him give you assurances and draw some boundaries between you two.. might help..
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scream and shout only worsen the problem. If it continues, you may very well find that you'll be in your 3rd marriage soon.
Communicate your fears to him. Not shout. Guys dont like it. No one does. -
i cant access that link...Originally posted by soleachip:Hi iluvham,
Thought you might find this clip amusing: About men, women, sex, videos and porn.
Coupling - Inferno
thanks anyway soleachip.. -
am i really the one to decide to have baby anot haizOriginally posted by bryanw:u not mentally matured n u still want to b mother n have baby? -
u r so sweet, yuko-ogura.. thksOriginally posted by yuko-ogura:dun fret too much.
in my opinion, this current husband of urs is v caring and understandable towards u. he lied cux he doesnt wan u to worry..its a white lie.
give him a peck on the lips and show him how much u love him. give him a gd hug. dat would be sweet of ya as a wife.
show some support for hes working hard for u. -
i dont mean i really scream and shout at him... but my heart is screaming and shouting..Originally posted by dibilo:scream and shout only worsen the problem. If it continues, you may very well find that you'll be in your 3rd marriage soon.
Communicate your fears to him. Not shout. Guys dont like it. No one does.
if front of him, i still act calm, talk to him over it & cries uncontrollably.. -
Aiyoh, no wonder people say pregnant ladies always think too much, as in over think weird things. Watch porn then can be more skillful mah, more skillful then you more happy mah, then you will want more mah... The other time I heard from my Dr friend, she looks after recently married couples and they can't conceive baby because they dunno how to mate... so your husband past that stage but maybe he want to learn more to please you mah... always look on the bright side of life...Originally posted by iluvham:what should i do? i am really at a total loss now.. -
HE HAS DONE NOTHING WRONG, SO THERE'S NOTHING TO BE FORGIVEN.
YOU ARE IN THE WRONG BECAUSE YOU OVERLOOKED HIS NEEDS.
APOLOGISE TO HIM AND GIVE HIM A NICE BJ. -
No problem, it's a pretty neat show on how men and woman can be wired so differently. The chemistry is hilarious and it lightens certain perspectives.Originally posted by iluvham:i cant access that link...
thanks anyway soleachip..
Take care.
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Originally posted by Jamie Zawinski:
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HE HAS DONE NOTHING WRONG, SO THERE'S NOTHING TO BE FORGIVEN.
YOU ARE IN THE WRONG BECAUSE YOU OVERLOOKED HIS NEEDS.
APOLOGISE TO HIM AND GIVE HIM A NICE BJ.
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The husband should have clear his damn cookies after he visit those damn sites, and don't bookmark it.
How about it this way, your husband would rather watch P O R N, instead of finding another..... to ......, and he knows you are not feeling too well, and he is being considerate enough
P O R N may not necessary lead to adultery but over masturbation will lead OCB which obsessive compulsive behaviour.
I am sorry If any of my comment is too crude -
Sometime hubby'll ask me to watch the porn CD that his friends loan him *OK wat*
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SHEESH for christs sake its just porn!
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if he dun do his part in this you can do yours, there's such thing call contraceptive pills and you being a typical singaporean jus overlook your own fault and find excuses to cover it upOriginally posted by iluvham:am i really the one to decide to have baby anot haiz -
Past, present and future. Should not MIX.
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Its not wrong to surf porn...but if he has promised you many times that he will change but did not...would you still give him a chance to try?
Even if he lied...he isn't wrong...because he hasn't found another person to have sex...he didn't bother you because he was afraid it might put you and the baby at risk when both of you are doing it...
Please don't think about suicide...its not just the 2 of you...there's still the baby...and he/she is innocent...work things out...don't think about suicide....if there's really nothing you can do...perhaps both of you should give each other some time off to cool off...right now...because of over-suspicion...you are over-reacting...its not healthy for your mental state of mind...and not healthy for the baby... during this point of time...you should have more rest and less worries...
You can always come here to vent your frustrations =) as long as you feel better after it...you're always welcomed...
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Aiyah.... men surfing porn is no indication that they are straying or a sign of infidelity towards you lah.
It's just that men need something to fill his eyes and spare capacity. Harmless one.
It's essentially a men thingy that women will find hard to understand coz it's an inate difference between the 2 species, according to a book by Alan & Barbara Pease.
Relax. Surfing porn is nuhthing. You would rather be worrying if he doesn't surf porn!
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so envy that u can do that..Originally posted by JerryYan:Sometime hubby'll ask me to watch the porn CD that his friends loan him *OK wat*
maybe i should learn more from u -
none of yr comments is crude as compared to some others hereOriginally posted by allentyb_v2.01:The husband should have clear his damn cookies after he visit those damn sites, and don't bookmark it.
How about it this way, your husband would rather watch P O R N, instead of finding another..... to ......, and he knows you are not feeling too well, and he is being considerate enough
P O R N may not necessary lead to adultery but over masturbation will lead OCB which obsessive compulsive behaviour.
I am sorry If any of my comment is too crude