Don't allow yr r/s to be stagnant..Originally posted by coldzero:I have been with my gf for near 8 months already and the feeling have been fading. We used to be so lovely. Right now, we hardly got anything to talk about and sometimes, I rather talk to other girls whom I'm close with. I really wanna maintain a long-term relationship with my gf. Any suggestions?
ur friends can give u support too...Originally posted by coldzero:Because I need her as a support. She gives me a lot of support, just that kind of girl as an ideal gf of mine.
gf for support?Originally posted by coldzero:Because I need her as a support. She gives me a lot of support, just that kind of girl as an ideal gf of mine.
Yup.. This is exactly how I'm feeling.Originally posted by rainee:after a while, definitely the feeling will settled down to become something "calmer"? The beginning excitement will slowly give way to contentment and the feeling of security instead...
then it is alright ma, doesn't mean everyday when meet her need to have sparks flying everywhere, hear bells ringing, see angels and all those thingsOriginally posted by coldzero:Yup.. This is exactly how I'm feeling.
different people have different length of honeymoon period...Originally posted by kiseki:i've already been with my bf for 1 year and 5 months ...
but we're still the same as before .
i dun feel that any of the initial sparks has gone off .
i think it all boils down to you .
do you really feel the spark is gone ?
then break up .
i feel its unfair to your gf if you carry on like this , period .
not a good suggestion...imagine someone who's married & feels the same...will a separation be necessaryOriginally posted by mir4cle:u two have breaks and see how u feel ba..if u miss her, go back to her. absence makes the heart fonder.
Do u still love her? If the answer is Yes, then I think you are not doing what you shld be doing to maintain it.Originally posted by coldzero:I have been with my gf for near 8 months already and the feeling have been fading. We used to be so lovely. Right now, we hardly got anything to talk about and sometimes, I rather talk to other girls whom I'm close with. I really wanna maintain a long-term relationship with my gf. Any suggestions?