Originally posted by french fries:
little man and the rest:
how often do u think that a couple should meet?
and to what extent should they share secrets?
how often a couple should meet ? This is really subjective. It depends on a few factors :
a. how busy both are with their personal life (ie study/work/family)
b. personaililty of the person (some are more possessive than others. We are all possessive, just at different extend)
But one thing for sure, once you find that the both of you have been meeting up too often and it is getting a bit boring/nothing to say ... good to see each other less (like from every 2 days to every 4 days). Dun mian qiang stick together just becos you are a couple. It is just going to harm the r/s.
Secrets ....
It all depends on wat type of secrets. Sometimes we do not possess the secret alone. For example, your close fren tell you something very personal about him/her and now the both of you share the same secret. Such secret should not be shared with your bf/gf otherwise you'll be breaching the trust your fren has on you. Unless you got permissoin from your fren.
But if it is your personal secret, then i think it is ok to share. But dun share secrets for the sake of sharing secrets, really stupid.
I believe in truthfulness. 2 persons must be truthful to each other to make a r/s works. So if there is a *need* to share secrets, i will not hesitate to do it.
One more thing, the extent to sharing secrets also depends a lot on the level of r/s you both are in. Dun tell me the both of you are attached only for 1 week and you spill all your secrets to him. It is plain foolish.