gal problem
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TS mentioned as a good friend?
this is a simple case..
girl shows a bit of affection, guy think too much.. -
dude!!
its only less than 2 weeks! from experience, you better build a foundation (a solid one while you are at it) -
Hmmmm....i know you are excited and want to do things a bf would want to do for his gf...but you have to take things slowly...firstly both of you can still have time to spend so much time together is because class hasn't even started yet...so things might be different...
Let nature take its course...and try to maintain your relationship with her as friendship first....anyway all the best and cheers =D -
normally ppl say friends = ownself lol
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hoho. reminds me of me.
anyway, YES. listen to her, take things slow. dont rush into it too fast or you'll end up like me trying to patch up all the cracks in the foundation.
good luck
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holding hands on the first date? too quick la. the fact that she want more time means she is giving serious thought about the relationship.
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Well my little boy. God blesses order not legalism. As God mention in the bible, earn your keep in the field, before you build your house and then marry your spouse.
Go study well in your A levels, Know more friends and forget about her. Establish your career 1st ( in this case, doing well in ur Studies, CCA and all). -
dude, you guys are actually moving WAYYY too fast! no wonder, she's scared.
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pls dun play wif ger's feelings like what my fren did to another fren of mine.
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yupp..Originally posted by cApitaland:pls dun play wif ger's feelings like what my fren did to another fren of mine.
do anything you want except hurting people's feelings.. -
THe fark la !
TS, if this is really your case then admit it !!
Why got ppl need to post other ppls problem here ??
Arggghhhh !!
Huat da fag TS u still need to write " I... me ... " The fag.. i know this is your situation TS dun bluff . -
Just treat her as friend. Don't enter into a r/s. so fast.
Go & concentrate on yr "A' level, very crucial u do well to get into U cos without full cert. can't go far.
Most jc relationships don't last long esp. when the guys go army & the girls go uni. where they meet older guys. If u start a r/s, u may suffer heartbreak, so wait till u get into uni. there are plenty of girls. -
My friend, you are 17.Originally posted by ah koh:Recently during CJC orientation camp, i met a gal from the same orientaton group. After the orientation dinner, i accompany her to bus stop as she do not know which bus stop. After a few days, i realised she had feelings for me,as she was positive of everything i said. My fren did asked her if she liked me, she took a long time to reply him. After that, i asked her out for dinner on fri, she say not free. I asked on sat, she said ok. Then we went to some restaurant to makan, i paid everything. Then we went esplanade to walk, we spoke abt alot of stuff, i asked abt her ex, then i held her hands. & she let me hold it.I asked her wad she saw in me, she say is my personality & stuff like that. Then we had a good time talking. Then i accompany her to her hse bus stop, then she waited with me for my bus. Then todays she suddenly sms me, say"hey, i ve been thinking, i think we should take things slow, like i dont know if i can commit, when lessons & CCAs start, & its not fair to you at all."
The following is the situation of my fren. Anyone of you knows wad the gal is tihnking??
DO a survey, you will find that the chances of people who do settle down and get married and have kids with their mates whom they have met when they were 17 is like......striking lottery. You do not invest in a lottery ticket, you gamble, with the odds of winning at bare minimum, but the potential returns enormous. Gambling, is at best a form of entertainment.
I hope I have made it simple for you to understand.
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I confirm what crosshairs said is true! Very few can make such relationship last till marriage. I remember 2 ex-colleagues who had mates dating since school days and that's like 10 over years! Both were near the marriage milestone and then their relationships just break! I dunno the details for the break up but what a waste of time, 10+ yrs relationship!!!Originally posted by crosshairs:My friend, you are 17.
DO a survey, you will find that the chances of people who do settle down and get married and have kids with their mates whom they have met when they were 17 is like......striking lottery. You do not invest in a lottery ticket, you gamble, with the odds of winning at bare minimum, but the potential returns enormous. Gambling, is at best a form of entertainment.
I hope I have made it simple for you to understand.
You're welcome.
Don't start relationship early. It's a lousy bet. -
10 years ++ r/s is surely goin down or break up soon.Originally posted by apples:I confirm what crosshairs said is true! Very few can make such relationship last till marriage. I remember 2 ex-colleagues who had mates dating since school days and that's like 10 over years! Both were near the marriage milestone and then their relationships just break! I dunno the details for the break up but what a waste of time, 10+ yrs relationship!!!
Don't start relationship early. It's a lousy bet.
The r/s is too long and if they both never upgrade their r/s to the nex level, it will just become dull. Too dull means nothing new in their r/s. Watever type of sex also they already tried lol.
Ppl said its the best if your r/s is around 2-3 years then get married.. the feeling is still fresh anyway.. Most ppl ended up getting married after 1 and half year of r/s -
follow her instructions
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Ya, in case TS forget, here are the instructions.Originally posted by de_middle:follow her instructions
1. Study hard and smart first.
2. Get a good career
3. Find a good gal slowly
4. Get marry
4. Have childrens
5. Buy properties
6. Visit Casinos
7. Buy car
8. Retire
9. Get CPF
10. Visit Hospital and wait for your time -
slow and steady wins the race
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speeding kills .. think twice before u speed
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ake thing slow? You are stupid to be so desperate for a companionship in such a short period of time in JC.Originally posted by ah koh:Recently during CJC orientation camp, i met a gal from the same orientaton group. After the orientation dinner, i accompany her to bus stop as she do not know which bus stop. After a few days, i realised she had feelings for me,as she was positive of everything i said. My fren did asked her if she liked me, she took a long time to reply him. After that, i asked her out for dinner on fri, she say not free. I asked on sat, she said ok. Then we went to some restaurant to makan, i paid everything. Then we went esplanade to walk, we spoke abt alot of stuff, i asked abt her ex, then i held her hands. & she let me hold it.I asked her wad she saw in me, she say is my personality & stuff like that. Then we had a good time talking. Then i accompany her to her hse bus stop, then she waited with me for my bus. Then todays she suddenly sms me, say"hey, i ve been thinking, i think we should take things slow, like i dont know if i can commit, when lessons & CCAs start, & its not fair to you at all."
The following is the situation of my fren. Anyone of you knows wad the gal is tihnking??
BE ELATED! Consider yourself damn lucky that she ask you to slow things down. GO OUT THERE and SOCIALISE with other GIRLS in Your JC now, including other girls in other JCs. When you stop bothering her, she is the one chasing after you.
If I were you , I am busy socialising with Other JC girls , including her and making them Laugh, making them WET! -
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seriously not me la. my fren dun have sgforums acc. so he tell me his probs, ask me give advice. But i think i not experiecnce enough mah, so i help me post la, ask all of you mah. i scared i give him wrong advice.
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i heard cj people are really WILDOriginally posted by limywv:CJC like that one?LOL
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aiya scared she run away ? NVM ... u go F*U* her lo .
She chio ? chio then okay .
not chio
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We knew, that is why we are also not that serious about our postings.Originally posted by ah koh:seriously not me la. my fren dun have sgforums acc. so he tell me his probs, ask me give advice. But i think i not experiecnce enough mah, so i help me post la, ask all of you mah. i scared i give him wrong advice.