LoveOrLust?
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Hi ,i am a first time writer to this page ,so i juz wanna ask,and hopefully get some advice.....u see i've been attracted to this girl,"D" for the last 3 years of my life and have not given up hope on us being an item or shall i say a couple......well
we write to each other regularly viaa email..and well i feel comfy with the situation at the moment.....but i want this thing to up a level. I have met her b4 and also work along side with her,i dont know why i kept in touch with her so long.....could it be a sense that tell me that she is the one,or could it be because i really have feeling for her and she is the one for me......please help me and advice me on this point...........I think of her everyday and not look at other girls cause i know she is the one for me.....so pls help...thank u..... -
Why not you create some opportunities for interaction? You should already know her likes and interests from the emails, so you can join in her activities sometimes.
BTW, it's not very wise to allow yourself to be SO engrossed for so long. 3 years, no action some more! (Is it because she's attached???) Very likely, you've already become too emotionally attached to her, just simply through your very own imaginations! -
Well... If she's not attached ... it's well time you tell her your feelings ! Don't hide it any more ... 3 years is alot of time, don't waste any more time okay ?
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hi,its me again,anyway nexts week is her birthday and well,i called her buti dont know she whether she'll be free to have dinner with,could u tell me what to do on a date......And ,how to react when it doesnt work....Another thing i need to know, how do i ask a girl to be mine and also what to do on first date....thanks,all comments i greatly appreciated......
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Great work...
It's good to have the first step.
I dun think this helps a lot, but I just wanna say, be urself. Let her see the real u, the u when u are alone with her, dun go to extreme of being too nice. She might not like it esp when it's the first date, coz it might just be too perfect.
Furthermore, Even though it has been 3 yrs, but I still dun think u shld pose the qns at the first date. Might frighten her off. Ask her out more often, feel easy when u r alone with her first before u ask her that qn.
Watever happen on that day is not in ur control. U can't predict, so if things is to go bad, then make the best out of it. To u, it may have not been according to plan. But to her, she might enjoy the atmosphere of not having things to come naturally...
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Hi ,yes
She asked me to call her,but i have a problem,what should we talk about...could u give some ideas on what to talk about...casue i dont want the conversation to go mono toneness......pls help...... -
ASk about how she's doing etc etc and talk about your life,family,ask her about hers also and expand from there,you could talk about hobbies and don't ever get carried away with talking about yourself until she can hardly get a word it,give her space to talk also,hehehe
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It's take a second to look at my makan,a minute to finish my burger and a lifetime to enjoy all the food i want
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Go for it
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he asked you to call her ? That's your chance man ! GO for it ! You won't get lost for a topic ... just talk about what comes into your mind ... Studies, movies, music, radio, tv, games or anything ... Do tell us about your telephone call the next time
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The night is near and dawn is coming... I Lay awake on my bed thinking of you... I wonder ... when will we meet again ? When will we talk once more ? I Know my love to you is deep and true ... but i wonder how you feel for me ... -
well,the big call is tomorrow ,wish me luck guys,and thanks for all your support...
she juz send me her photo and well,...i hope everthing will work out well....