Which one most likely to go astray in r/s??
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Suppose u start young for r/s like 16 yrs old(both/peer) and have maintain the r/s for abt 4yrs. During the 4 years,both of u grow up and met a lot of people and knew more things.
Which type is more likely to go astray in the r/s as even more years goes by?
-good socialising skill with opposite sex/same sex,have many circle of friends, confident with himself/herself ,full of surprise and fun to be with and always being assume as a flirt.
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-not very good in socialising with opposite sex but doing fine with same sex.
circle of friends are mostly same sex. Confident lvl ok. Always doing the routine lifestyle. -
The one that can't control him/herself both equal likelihood.
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Stick to my question la..Originally posted by kramnave:The one that can't control him/herself both equal likelihood.
If possible tell me the reason why u choose that. Thanks. -
Yah what. Somebody may be flirtatious and very outgoing but can be very loyal mah. Besides, perhaps nobody is as good as the present partner.
On the other hand, the reserved person may meet just one member of the opposite sex and Bingo ! -
in general ,people with better socializing skills are more prone to going astray in R/s
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x2. yeah. more outgoing people tend to attract other parties to notice them.Originally posted by 2cansam:in general ,people with better socializing skills are more prone to going astray in R/s -
This.Originally posted by CannyOng:-not very good in socialising with opposite sex but doing fine with same sex.
circle of friends are mostly same sex. Confident lvl ok. Always doing the routine lifestyle.
Because they don't get enough.
In simple hokkien term " GIAN ".
If you don't have enough of it, you will GIAN.
If you already had enough liao, less likely to GIAN. -
I think it will be the one who thinks the other is not fulfilling their part of the relationship.
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Surprising ,both the lady and guy gives different view..Originally posted by jojobeach:This.
Because they don't get enough.
In simple hokkien term " GIAN ".
If you don't have enough of it, you will GIAN.
If you already had enough liao, less likely to GIAN.
So far from my observation, looks like it is the socialise handicapped is the one likely to go astray in r/s. Which is an answer vey different from my own opinion. All the while,I thought those social outgoing and popular hunk/lady is the most likely to be unfaithful.
Jojo has a very good explanation. But how do we know he/she has enough?
But seems like from personal experience is, those social outgoing and outspoken one has experience many of this flirt and is less likely to be tempt.
WHile the less social one may not experience one may not encounter many of these flirt or tempt due to his social handicapped with opposite sex. But as they grow in adult and being forced to expose of more outside world, temptation may comes in and they starts to discover the joy of those flirt with hunk/babe.
Just want to have a piece of advise, observe yr partner more ,especially those young couple. DOn't simply think his/her social handicapped will make him a safe asset as yr life time parnter.. -
i'll pick the 1st type
my ex was like that. even though she was attached. she doesnt keep clear from guys that came up to her knowing they wanted more than just friends. eventually, one of them got her o.o
but it depends on person to person really.. some demanded ALOT of attention and if u cant do it, he/she will find some1 else to fulfill the needs -
aiyah dun start so early lah
"it's sad to belong to someone else when the right one comes along"
nvr hear the song sing meh?
u attach at 16
have to live together till 70 or 80 depends on how long u live
say 70
you have to face each other for FIFTY FOUR YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
kua liao mah sian -
its equal for both sides
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The first one.Originally posted by CannyOng:Suppose u start young for r/s like 16 yrs old(both/peer) and have maintain the r/s for abt 4yrs. During the 4 years,both of u grow up and met a lot of people and knew more things.
Which type is more likely to go astray in the r/s as even more years goes by?
-good socialising skill with opposite sex/same sex,have many circle of friends, confident with himself/herself ,full of surprise and fun to be with and always being assume as a flirt.
or
-not very good in socialising with opposite sex but doing fine with same sex.
circle of friends are mostly same sex. Confident lvl ok. Always doing the routine lifestyle. -
The person who is not contented with what she or he is having at anytime of life is the one who will go astray.Originally posted by CannyOng:Suppose u start young for r/s like 16 yrs old(both/peer) and have maintain the r/s for abt 4yrs. During the 4 years,both of u grow up and met a lot of people and knew more things.
Which type is more likely to go astray in the r/s as even more years goes by?
-good socialising skill with opposite sex/same sex,have many circle of friends, confident with himself/herself ,full of surprise and fun to be with and always being assume as a flirt.
or
-not very good in socialising with opposite sex but doing fine with same sex.
circle of friends are mostly same sex. Confident lvl ok. Always doing the routine lifestyle.
example 1: if a beautifull gal whp is not contented with a normal average bf will stray in due time unless she is happy with the fact that he is the perfect one for her.
example 2: If a normal guy starts to earn more money and realise that his gf beside him no longer can fit his status, he will stray cos he is no longer contented with his current gf.
Humans tends to go astray when they crave for more in life. The wants and needs is the driving force behind it all.