Age Gaps?
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Hello..
Bascially, i start this topic is to know, how many of u here find that age gaps means alot to u? Let say, a 15years old girl fall in love with 14yrs old senior. Do you think this kinda relationships will work well? What if that guy who is 14years old senior has a girlfriend or wife? But, 15yr old girl and 14yrs old senior like each other? How would u handle it? Just giving a example.. =)
Sincerely,
enDlessly -
watch too many serials liao ah...Originally posted by enDlessly:Hello..
Bascially, i start this topic is to know, how many of u here find that age gaps means alot to u? Let say, a 15years old girl fall in love with 14yrs old senior. Do you think this kinda relationships will work well? What if that guy who is 14years old senior has a girlfriend or wife? But, 15yr old girl and 14yrs old senior like each other? How would u handle it? Just giving a example.. =)
Sincerely,
enDlessly
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Well, Not really cos of watching tv all what. In real life, there's such thing. =) My friend's mum 40yrs old, and her husband 50yrs old. See? They're still loving. Perhaps now different century. Just wanna get some point of view loh..
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its not that age gap that matters, its the mental age gap.
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hahaha. maybe loh.
Different people different point of view anyway.. hee -
actually as what some of them have pointed out, as long as the mentality and thinking belong to the same frequency then difference in age should not be a problem... even if couple the same age or small difference, their mentality n the way they see and handles things are different, problems will also arises.... so in conclusion, if u want to be together with that person, know him/her well first... so that u would know how his/her thinking is like and whether u belong to the same category or not.. nber try to accomodate or try to force yrself to think like him/her.....
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Oh.. okays.
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if that guy is really 14 years your senior, ask yourself if he really loves you or he just wants to play with you.
if he already has a wife or girlfriend..worse...if he can cheat on his gal...what makes u think u can trust him -
i think very funni loh..
u say a ger...15 with a guy 30
how abt..a ger who is 20+..with a guy in his 30s..u wont' find it weird rite...