R/s Money matters
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If u ask me, seems like she's taking you for granted. cannot spoil her like dat. If she carries on like this, you acct will drop like hell. Better keep track of your expenses. She needs to understand u better.Originally posted by gnab:any idea how can i ask her to share money.
Its always like, she act like she understands that money is important. I dont have much at current, she also say she dont have.
But always end up she want eat good food, and i pays for it, or she normally pays like 2dollars or some money, and say later this week no money. Its like i cant bare to see her wallet so empty, my bank now is keep withdrawing and withdrawing...
Working part time now isnt a choice, my study is quite heavy and project work all the time. So working isnt a choice now..
main point, she always say she understand etc... and end up wanna this wanna that... and later say sorry giving those sad and disappointed face. After that dont really wanna talk, mood bad.
But after i withdraw 50bucks, she very fast say want eat icecream, those expensive 1, like 6dollars each... i forgot what name.. anderson icecream..
I mean like how? she always act like understand, but later in the end what happen? When i remind her in a serious tone, she become sad and sometimes cry and say i am fierce. I mean... WTF? i really dont dont dont understand it.
she act like she understood, but then.. her actions?
i really dont know what to do really...
i know money can solve it... but this got to do with personality, i wonder if next time i no money means?
no money = no honey? -
treat as if you're paying for a prostitute lor, have sex also must pay $$$ whatOriginally posted by gnab:its really tough always paying for the meals, movies...etc...
talked to her, she also no money, then she say dont come out lor.... like go cheap places... which i think not possible la...
then she like undersatnds when wanna eat dinner say go cheap place... walked the foodcourt dunno what to eat.. in the end go to expensive resnt swensen eat...
PS: i am a 19 and not working part time so money all from parents.. so kinna poor too, but she say she nv work, also need money buy this n that...
can anyone share this experience?