gf/bf facing family problems
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suppose your gf/bf is facing many family problems and is constantly under intense pressure, stress and unhappiness.
for example, parents no longer on talking terms, parents in the process of divorce, or a delinquent younger sibling causing the family stress and shame.
how can you help him/her out in such situation? keeping in mind that this is not a 'one-off' situation where he/she will only feel depressed for a while.
it is long term and long lasting, and frankly, i dunno what else i can do besides listening and offering some form of emotional support.. -
oh gud. my fren facing such problems. someone pls help both of us
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Give her plenty of encouragement and try to always be there for her..
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yup thats the basic thing to do rite?Originally posted by CannyOng:Give her plenty of encouragement and try to always be there for her..
but is there anything else to do? because seeing her always sad and troubled and not able to do anything about it just kinda sucks.. -
alamak.. u posted, is it going to be the last post as per your sig??Originally posted by cApitaland:oh gud. my fren facing such problems. someone pls help both of us 
EDIT: spelling mistake -
Last time I also faced many problems at home
The only way out is to get married
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Use yr imagination.. Couragement can be in many form and not just words!Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:yup thats the basic thing to do rite?
but is there anything else to do? because seeing her always sad and troubled and not able to do anything about it just kinda sucks.. -
hmm care to give some ideas ma?Originally posted by CannyOng:Use yr imagination.. Couragement can be in many form and not just words! -
There's nothing much an outsider can do.Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:suppose your gf/bf is facing many family problems and is constantly under intense pressure, stress and unhappiness.
for example, parents no longer on talking terms, parents in the process of divorce, or a delinquent younger sibling causing the family stress and shame.
how can you help him/her out in such situation? keeping in mind that this is not a 'one-off' situation where he/she will only feel depressed for a while.
it is long term and long lasting, and frankly, i dunno what else i can do besides listening and offering some form of emotional support..
If you're a guy, maybe you can work hard, marry her, and start a new family. Let her enjoy a different life.