I cun get over with myself....
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I have a very frustrating prob. I had been with my bf for abt 4 mths,but i had known him for a yr+ lah. Recently, i had stopped studying and is now wrking fulltime. Thus,i seldom have time to go out with him. Even if its my offday,he'll be wrking. But becoz we r wrking in the same company, but diff outlet, we tried to request off on the same day. However,not everytime we'll have the request granted.
Yesterday, we finally got wat we wanted!!
so we made plans to go out together. Everything was fine, i was very happy and very much enjoying myself.However, during dinner time, his shop pple called him and asked him to go for supper,said it was to celebrate the last day of his colleague. Honest speaking,i was very disappointed.But wat can i do??i cun stop him from going...so my day is spoilt... 
I tried not to show my disappoinment out, but its just so difficult for me!i mean,this is not the first time lidat,last time oso same thing happened.I just cun put that down!!y must it be me??
I dun wish to quarrel this with my bf, and i oso dun want to make things diff for him...but i just cun get over with myself... -
Go with Him and enjoy spending time with him. Maybe i'm wrong, but it will be better to make the best out of a beautiful day.
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yah i can understand....
/me hug hug apple
dn quarrel wit ur bf...alot of understanding is needed here -
things dont always work out fine.
as a guy, i do understand that we are occasionally obliged to mix around with the gang even when we have a date. i guess it is because one hates benig labeled as someone who ditches the gang when he has a girlfriend.
give him the benefit of doubt. its only a isolated bad incident and it's not as if he two-timed you. the both of you still have a long way to go and such trivia matter should not be hindering your faith.
look at the bright side, at least the both of you are together. there are still plenty of time in future when you two can plan something else. -
I am a guy, i agree that it's bad of us to do that. But it's nan ren lah.
Talk to him, don't quarrel, don't Ren, just say it gracefully - discuss. So that he also very willingly see things your view and accept to change.
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ya...i noe...im trying very hard to get over with myself here...Originally posted by Xiao Long Nu:yah i can understand....
/me hug hug apple
dn quarrel wit ur bf...alot of understanding is needed here -
i guess this is one way to find out if he longs to spend some quality time with u as u do with him.
otherwise u coulda gone with him right? i mean if u two are really and rightfully in love, the first thing i'd if it were me is to intro u to all my frens!
hope things work out. make sure u keep communication lines open so he knows how u feel.. -
yup, i'll definitely keep communication lines open!think i still have a long way to go to learn how to speak up....Originally posted by jOhO:i guess this is one way to find out if he longs to spend some quality time with u as u do with him.
otherwise u coulda gone with him right? i mean if u two are really and rightfully in love, the first thing i'd if it were me is to intro u to all my frens!
hope things work out. make sure u keep communication lines open so he knows how u feel..
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Guys are always like that one lah..... Friends is more important... you will get use to it!!1 Your 1st love huh?
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yes... don't worree u're not alone in this questOriginally posted by ApPlE_PiE:yup, i'll definitely keep communication lines open!think i still have a long way to go to learn how to speak up.... 
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actually i beg to differ.Originally posted by sugardaddy:Guys are always like that one lah..... Friends is more important... you will get use to it!!1 Your 1st love huh?
most of my (guy) frens are either married or engaged. and i *HARDLY* see them... not that i mind. i believe work and family comes first to them, and it will to me when the time is right too.
of course, my frens and i belong to the late 20s early 30s group, as compared to apple's bf who's assumably early 20s or even younger. -
no lar...hes not my first love, just that i really hope he'll be my last "bus stop"...i dun wish to cont that kind of journey anymore, im happy with him, and thats all it matters to me...Originally posted by jOhO:actually i beg to differ.
most of my (guy) frens are either married or engaged. and i *HARDLY* see them... not that i mind. i believe work and family comes first to them, and it will to me when the time is right too.
of course, my frens and i belong to the late 20s early 30s group, as compared to apple's bf who's assumably early 20s or even younger. -
think u are replying to sugardaddy?Originally posted by ApPlE_PiE:no lar...hes not my first love, just that i really hope he'll be my last "bus stop"...i dun wish to cont that kind of journey anymore, im happy with him, and thats all it matters to me... -
erm...ya...sorri..Originally posted by jOhO:think u are replying to sugardaddy?
btw,hw old are you? -
www is always giving people the benefit of the doubtOriginally posted by www:things dont always work out fine.
as a guy, i do understand that we are occasionally obliged to mix around with the gang even when we have a date. i guess it is because one hates benig labeled as someone who ditches the gang when he has a girlfriend.
give him the benefit of doubt. its only a isolated bad incident and it's not as if he two-timed you. the both of you still have a long way to go and such trivia matter should not be hindering your faith.
look at the bright side, at least the both of you are together. there are still plenty of time in future when you two can plan something else. -
hahaha. i suppose we have to. after all, we only heard one side of the story. its not as bad as she thinks.Originally posted by jeramy:www is always giving people the benefit of the doubt 
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yo Joho...Originally posted by jOhO:actually i beg to differ.
most of my (guy) frens are either married or engaged. and i *HARDLY* see them... not that i mind. i believe work and family comes first to them, and it will to me when the time is right too.
of course, my frens and i belong to the late 20s early 30s group, as compared to apple's bf who's assumably early 20s or even younger.
Kekeke...that is after you got settle down.... family weight more then but in steady status...guys tend to entertain friend more then their GF....i think so -
why u cannot go with him the celebration meh? Bring gf go sia sway meh? hahaha heng i don have this prob sia... i go where with my camp people i oso bring my gf along one... i'm so proud to let everyone know my gf heheheOriginally posted by ApPlE_PiE:I have a very frustrating prob. I had been with my bf for abt 4 mths,but i had known him for a yr+ lah. Recently, i had stopped studying and is now wrking fulltime. Thus,i seldom have time to go out with him. Even if its my offday,he'll be wrking. But becoz we r wrking in the same company, but diff outlet, we tried to request off on the same day. However,not everytime we'll have the request granted.
Yesterday, we finally got wat we wanted!! so we made plans to go out together. Everything was fine, i was very happy and very much enjoying myself.However, during dinner time, his shop pple called him and asked him to go for supper,said it was to celebrate the last day of his colleague. Honest speaking,i was very disappointed.But wat can i do??i cun stop him from going...so my day is spoilt...
I tried not to show my disappoinment out, but its just so difficult for me!i mean,this is not the first time lidat,last time oso same thing happened.I just cun put that down!!y must it be me??
I dun wish to quarrel this with my bf, and i oso dun want to make things diff for him...but i just cun get over with myself... -
Yah lah, but some guys GF are anti social or some stuck up one or face black black. Make people Tu Lan only.Originally posted by TZR:why u cannot go with him the celebration meh? Bring gf go sia sway meh? hahaha heng i don have this prob sia... i go where with my camp people i oso bring my gf along one... i'm so proud to let everyone know my gf hehehe