Shld i let go even if i still love him?
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Now i gt another problem...well...i did show other ppl information in this post...but then i alrdy edit it..but if anyone still search the person email in yahoo or any search engine they will still be able to see the details...wat can i do????
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u cant do anything much.. coz the email is other people quote ur post that time include inside their chatbox de.. unless u pm them to edit? or pm mod to ask them help edit? or del the entire thread..?
so i reckon u now nv train maple liao..?
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
u cant do anything much.. coz the email is other people quote ur post that time include inside their chatbox de.. unless u pm them to edit? or pm mod to ask them help edit? or del the entire thread..?
so i reckon u now nv train maple liao..?
hmm...i think ill PM and try....
well...more like not going back to play..but i still contact the friends inside maple...:) i have a guild inside u see..:) its Saints..im not sure there are still inside...but i hope they are doing well...they are hardcore mapler...haha...so if anyone stil playing...be nice to them..they will surely help u out..
:)
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Originally posted by BangHong:
wat does tat means?hmmm....
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hi w8~
after seeing so much comments/advices frm all e peeps here.. hw r you feeling nw? still doing well?
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Originally posted by elvalite:
hi w8~
after seeing so much comments/advices frm all e peeps here.. hw r you feeling nw? still doing well?
doing well? well..its more like keeping myself busy everyday...i cannot say im doing well...but im dong my best...
thanks for asking..its really very sweet..:)
well..i come here everyday to read about other ppls story too...to keep my mind off things too...well...
at least in here i have encouragement from ppl like u.. u see... :)
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icic. keeping urself busy is gd.. try to move forward n u will probably realise tat there are alot other beautiful things in front of u..
mostly impt dun tink too much of e past le.. sometime things dun go the way u wan it to be.. u will find a better one~ n till den u might oso realise tat 如果�是以�那个那么糟，我怎么会知�现在这个是多么好的。
at least u urself muz treat urself good.. pamper urself.. live ur everyday to e fullest. jiayou!
=)
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u 19 yr old now.. not studying? keep urself occupied is good la.. n spend more time with ur parents.. spend some quality time with them like meals n going out.. there's a whole lot more ppl waiting for ur attention den u know it..
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W8.. im speaking from a guys pt of view.. this guy that u love so much.. unfortunately is toying wif ur soft heart, having the best of both worlds.. i was in ur situation juz recently.. luckily im out of it now.. n im glad u r getting along fine too.. i know its very very very hard at first to let go.. n u will convieniently choose to stay wif him if he chooses u.. but ultimately i realise if he really loves u enuff.. hw wun even get involved with another girl.. samore ask u to wait for him then he outsde tao jiak..
u deserve someone better.. juz like me.. heehee.. keep ur chin up yeah.. cheers~
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Originally posted by elvalite:
icic. keeping urself busy is gd.. try to move forward n u will probably realise tat there are alot other beautiful things in front of u..
mostly impt dun tink too much of e past le.. sometime things dun go the way u wan it to be.. u will find a better one~ n till den u might oso realise tat 如果�是以�那个那么糟，我怎么会知�现在这个是多么好的。
at least u urself muz treat urself good.. pamper urself.. live ur everyday to e fullest. jiayou!
=)
Thanks alot...i haven really have the time to find a better one though...haha...maybe not now i think...i really have enough to relationships..:) 6 yrs never once without bf...tat is y im suffering now..hope no one will be as worst as me...
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Originally posted by purpledragon84:
u 19 yr old now.. not studying? keep urself occupied is good la.. n spend more time with ur parents.. spend some quality time with them like meals n going out.. there's a whole lot more ppl waiting for ur attention den u know it..
I am studying...but it is jus like eating meals everyday to me now...i am spending my time with my parents more then last time...but my family members are alws not around the hse..so im mostly lonely at home...i do have friends but hardly meet out...only chat online...or meet in sch...well..im not sure about waiting for my attention..but i really hope so too..thanks..
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Originally posted by Paul Smith:
W8.. im speaking from a guys pt of view.. this guy that u love so much.. unfortunately is toying wif ur soft heart, having the best of both worlds.. i was in ur situation juz recently.. luckily im out of it now.. n im glad u r getting along fine too.. i know its very very very hard at first to let go.. n u will convieniently choose to stay wif him if he chooses u.. but ultimately i realise if he really loves u enuff.. hw wun even get involved with another girl.. samore ask u to wait for him then he outsde tao jiak..
u deserve someone better.. juz like me.. heehee.. keep ur chin up yeah.. cheers~
Thanks...I know i really have to move on..but i think this relationship with W have alrdy affect me deeply...well..thanks for replying in a guys view...at least it is a gd one...some others are like
he loves u...but not only u...coz there are too many choices...
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he loves u with his heart...he loves another with his eyes....
well...these are some of the views that my guy friends in sch tell me...and most of them tell me to enjoy my life with more freedom and not jus confine myself in a small world of mine...
after listening and reading all the comments here...i can only say life is unfair...life is full of surprises...but be prepare it is not a gd surprise that will make u forget...
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its hard to let go
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Originally posted by Ed11790:
its hard to let go
Not asking to let go completely.. Some sweet memories are to be kept in some corner of your heart deep below.. -
u will find the one la..
why u still love a person who do bad things behind u ? that is very stupid of you.
Is that really love ? or just u scared of loneliness?
You're stupid !
Beeh song? PM ME LA LET ME TEACH U A GOOD LESSON!
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Chillli .. She's getting over it
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Hi TS,
Im going to make a guess here.
Your boyfriend likes both of you..... unfortunately you are choice #2.
He won't mind having both of you.... but.... you will never be #1 in his eyes.
Should you end it? You already know. Question is how do you end it with minimal pain
But knowing you should end it is the first step.... the second step is to do something you like... go exercise and do abit of shopping ... get a part time job and doll yourself up abit
.... who knows the next hot thing might have his eyes set on you.Regards
Genie99
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should end it dear.
The person who love u the most wont make u sad or tears from you.
Think bout it.
U know wats right now. your heart just dun wanna follow what your brain are telling u..
Following heart all time will be disaster.. take some vacation without him callin or msg u. get to know more guys. then u will forget this bastard la.. ok
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Let it go, he don't love u. let the other girl have the taste also. the time will come. u r still young.
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let him go. this type of guys sucks.
it may take a few days to a few weeks or months to forget him, but there will be a day u can forget him, and move on =)
Cheer up, ur not the only one is this situation, lots of ppl have been in similar things before, its just tat sometimes in life u reali have to learn to let go and move on.
forget abt him, find a better guy.
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Originally posted by W8:
well...ya...i realise im not really cant let go of him...its more like i cant let go of the memories of him...im letting it go slowly...and i still wan to be friends with him...like i alws be friends with my ex even after we break up...i dun need to learn how to not love him...but i think i shld learn how to be myself without him..:)thanks for the advice...:)
while you're only 19 years old
still kind of young..
but there are some things which you ought to put into serious consideration if you were to think about your future. (at your current thinking, i would say it's a bit too soon for you to think about, unless something happens.. which might chance you for the better)
although i might be coming close to 21 in less than 1 month's time, but since i've come across somebody (my fren actually) who got similar problems, and i managed to talk to her and got to pinpoint the exact problem of her with her bf who happens to be my poly mate.. (not to mention he is clueless about what his gf is doing behind his back)..
for your consecutively 6 years of none-stop relationship with various guys..and plently of negative experiences, i think it's about time that you start thinking about what you actually want in your life.
give it some thoughts..perhaps that might help you to sort out your thinking and your directions..
as for me, inside army for 2 years in the current vocation (since it's a "relaxing" life inside), all i can say is that i've come across and heard from my army frens during coversation of some even more dis-heartening cases..your's isn't the first..
it's about time you give it some thoughts..just observe (pay a little bit more attention to) the people around you, be it your frens, relatives or even colleagues (if you happen to be working part time); sometimes it pays to be KPO..only via this way, you get to learn stuffs like how to handle problems and getting over it..from EXPERIENCE..
going into the army, made me think of lots of things..from what i regretted doing in the passed to what i wanna do when i ORD..how i'm gonna live my life etc..since i'm exposed to different types of people..
it's about time you learn to think for yourself..not necessary must try to solve your current problem..instead..find something which is more important to you at this point of time and work towards it..
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he is right. army made me think about a lot of things about life.
you live your life not for just one thing alone, there are still many other things.
anyway take care.. dont worry, everything will come out well.
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actually you noe wat i'm somehow in the same situation as u n it wasnt over yet for me
my bf is still dragging
it' s lonely i noe that
all the tym i'm trying to lie to myself trying to cheat on myself even though i noe his heart is no longer with me
after break up we still hugs n stuff
i feel happy only for that moment but....
when he leave me
i tot is the end of the world
but actually when i look arnd there's alot pple to care abt me
but seriously if my guy wants to 2 tym i'll really leave him alone n hack abt his life its true that it is hard to let go
when u just break up wat ever things that anyone saes just doesnt apply to wat u think
wat they sae is only stuff lyk get over it n forget abt him
i wanna do that too
but i just cant
however as tym passby u will find the strenght to stand again
cheer up gal
i'm glad to hear that u are trying to divert ur loneliness in doing oer things
two timing is really a very greedy thing to do
wat more is that he keep telling you he cants decide just lyk my ex
it's just lying
u noe wat
u are her being unhappy cos of losing someone u love but think
over at the oer end he is enjoying himself with another gal is it worthy
why not be more happy gal
go n have an make over find more friends n let him noe that u can actually live without him
go n find a part tym job just lykl me
n work n work all day
at the end of the day when u get ur pay
treat urself with sth gd
cheer up gal:)
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well, you should deserve a someone better. let yourself be more happy. when you grow older you will understand wat we mean by this.