please help. if can ;(
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Originally posted by Dongybell:
Thanks for your advices.
One more question..Will a relationship of more than 2 years be forgotten in 3 months? I really miss my ex. Sigh.
It depends on how many options you have at the moment.
Most people with many options moved on within 3 months.
Some with less options moved on after 6 - 12 months.
Those without any options never move on.
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if u miss ur ex, then go back to ur ex
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Kids........... sigh!
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stay put. i think that's quite enough. stabilize yr feelings 1st la. if nt more will get hurt.
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Originally posted by <Precious>:
Kids........... sigh!
Kids, are Humans too...So are you not one? Are you a thing without emotions?
Cheers
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how long does it take to forget?
It depends on whether you want to accept the fact that the relationship is over.
some take hours, some take a lifetime.
The road to recovery depends on yourself, do you seriously want to cheat yourself that there is another chance or do you want to face reality and say is truely over?
Is hard to accept the fact that is finally over but it is a growing up process of growing up.
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I presume you are in your teen years right? I mean you met your 2 guy friends in secondary school and rumours were spread in school about you and one of the guys.
Truly. Guardx is right. This is part of growing up. It may all seem very hard at the moment but when you are abit older and look back, you will laugh it through. But that doesn't mean that you should stop discovering relationships, discovering love.
If guy X is really that important to you. If you want to treat this matter maturely. Perhaps you would want to consider talking to guy X about it. Perhaps you would want to consider holding him as a good friend until you are emotionally prepared to accept him.
No point waiting till you forget about guy Y cos it will never happen! Life moves on. He will be part of your growing up experience/ memory.
Decision is all yours, gal. Good luck.
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From my Pov .. You are still young .. Be single for a while and think about it thru .. Heart breaking is part and parcel of growing up.. There's no rush in this kind of matter =]