someone please help me explain...
-
It's been almost 5 months I broke up with my ex and I have no doubt that living in my single life does make me happy.
However, I have this empty space in me that drives me crazy. This space makes me feel like I'm not loved and cared despite that my family and friends are always there for me.
I did not want to get attached now as I wanted to live up with this single life since I am studying.
But this empty space drives me crazy that I wish that someone would able to fill it up despite that I realised it took time for me to get over things.
I did tried make myself busy. The empty space is still around and distrubs me.
Anyone can help me to explain what is this empty space and how can I overcome it?
-
YOu need emotional healing before going to the next relationship.
-
deleted
-
Cos no piak piak mah...
-
deleted
-
Originally posted by Wai Leng:
What does piak piak means? I tot no more muack muack...
what do it sounds like?
-
If you can get use to him being around, you can get use to him NOT being around. Go do CIP or something meaningful or learn sth new to make yrself more busy
-
Community services...
-
becoz no one is there to do everything and company you anymore...
-
Well u cant have ur cake and eat it.
-
Originally posted by LiLmSmischief:
It's been almost 5 months I broke up with my ex and I have no doubt that living in my single life does make me happy.
However, I have this empty space in me that drives me crazy. This space makes me feel like I'm not loved and cared despite that my family and friends are always there for me.
I did not want to get attached now as I wanted to live up with this single life since I am studying.
But this empty space drives me crazy that I wish that someone would able to fill it up despite that I realised it took time for me to get over things.
I did tried make myself busy. The empty space is still around and distrubs me.
Anyone can help me to explain what is this empty space and how can I overcome it?
You are feeling lonely. Loneliness is different to isolation or forced solitude.
Lonely from not having a meaningful person/lifestyle to spend your excess time with.
Lonely from lacking a meaningful existence in this world.
Being lonely is not new to anyone. Not even yourself.
When you were a baby, you went through loneliness when your parents left you to sleep alone in the crib.
When you were a teenager, you went through loneliness when you start to learn what is independence.
When you were growing up without a bf you survived loneliness, didn't you?
You overcomed it all before, why not now ?
Has your need for human interaction increased ? Or is it that you are looking for a higher level of meaningful existence ?
Why do people remain single, so that they can pursue a life in the wild chasing after animals or helping impoverized children in mountainous villages ?
Because they found the true meaning of their life.
-
That's because you are too used to the life being with your ex and that it somehow affects you even though both of you had broken up 5 months ago.
You feel empty because you felt that some kind of love given from your ex is missing in your life now. This kind of love is different from family and friends.
I guess the solution is to meet more friends and get more interaction.
Cheers.
