At a loss again.. was it a wrong decision?

• Nobunaga Oda

  13 Feb 08, 23:01

  Haix.

  u are right.

  But isnt he indirectly doing the same thing to me.

  i thought i had a chance when she was single.

  Now...

  Haix.

• purpledragon84

  13 Feb 08, 23:07

  Originally posted by Nobunaga Oda:

  Haix.

  u are right.

  But isnt he indirectly doing the same thing to me.

  i thought i had a chance when she was single.

  Now...

  Haix.

  dun worry la.. let Time do its thing.. Time can do wonders.. it can reveal whether she's worth the wait, and it can even bring u another person.. and when Time brings along Opportunity, dun let it slip.. but at all times, u must be tactful and be considerate to her feelings as much as u want her for urself.. all the best bro..

• jojobeach

  14 Feb 08, 08:23

  Nobu,

  Love waits for no one.

• Nobunaga Oda

  14 Feb 08, 11:53

  Wah 2 opposing views.

  Both of u are right.

  Thats my dilema.

   

  Thanks to all who replied my post.

  I appreciate it.

  I guess i need to give this matter a careful thought.

• dokono

  15 Feb 08, 02:29

  arghhh, you are wasting too much of your time. Go for other girls.

  And don't lie to yourself. You don't just want to be her friend. You obviously want more than that.

  But you are just afraid of rejection. You like her but are afraid to say. You think women like men like these ?

  I think she knows you like her as well. And by the way, women don't necesssarily reject men always.

  It's time for men to establish power and say in relationships.

  doko

• henshin

  16 Feb 08, 01:07

  Haha, I was in the same case as you, but mine lasted like 4 years.

• Nobunaga Oda

  17 Feb 08, 02:00

  Thanks to all for advising me.

  I appreciate all the comments.

  Case close.

  I have made my decision already.

  Thanks once again.

   

   

   

   

• ^tamago^

  17 Feb 08, 02:03

  
• Sakuraflower

  17 Feb 08, 02:11

  well, if you are superb , you can make her fall in love with you! then have good ending!

  if not cut the contact with her..

  or just be her friend until you feel the timing is right!

• rafTiger

  21 Feb 08, 23:03

  in just about the same situation too, still waiting, one moment like has hope, the next moment she so cold again...

   

  easy to say things like "wait for a while more", "get over her", "give her up" etc.... but the anxiety, heartache, helplessness and frustration within are just so unbearable!

   

  How i wish i can fast-forward time now by months, or even by years... and see if waiting does yield any result 

   

  i'm still waiting for her, but i doubt anything will come out of it in the end.. guess that's the harsh REALITY, no chemistry means no chemistry, wait for how long also no use.