How many S'pore Gers still virgin?
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prefer to wait till marriage. Losing your virginity before marriage feels like being betrayed by either partners.
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sama sama.....Originally posted by Flight Cadet Officer:prefer to wait till marriage. Losing your virginity before marriage feels like being betrayed by either partners.
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But if the ger is the one u really lov deep deep ...i think u will still accept her rite...Originally posted by Flight Cadet Officer:prefer to wait till marriage. Losing your virginity before marriage feels like being betrayed by either partners.
Aiya...nowadays...dont c those innocent girls...they also got f, and many lost it oredi too.
Just to let u know... a lot of tertiary students now do part-time 'selling" to earn sch fees and pocket money...my gal was approached b4 by the "lady pimp' b4...I know some of my gal friends who did this too...they of course can choose the guys lah...usu not the Ah Pek type ones...got a lot of professionals now go for such gers...
Hope u can find one not broken one.
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I don't know. Its kinda like a junction not knowing which route to take. Depends on how deeply in love one can be to be able to forget one's past. Personally, I wouldn't know. Haven't had a gf since I was born.
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Basically i find singaporeans (no offences pls) too traditional and conservative already. Virgin or not they are still humans right? My gf got forced on some bastard earlier this year, she told me about it and i said it was alright becos i knew it wasn't her fault at all
Anyway, virginity talk is crap. someday u will lose the +v and become -v
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Will lose it someday...the question that some pple are particular is...lose to who?Originally posted by Moonstriker:Basically i find singaporeans (no offences pls) too traditional and conservative already. Virgin or not they are still humans right? My gf got forced on some bastard earlier this year, she told me about it and i said it was alright becos i knew it wasn't her fault at all
Anyway, virginity talk is crap. someday u will lose the +v and become -v
So what's the fuss all about... -
Let's assume next time should u noe a gal, fell in love, and then on one nite, both of u alone, suddenly she told u she no longer a virgin, will u reject her?Originally posted by Flight Cadet Officer:I don't know. Its kinda like a junction not knowing which route to take. Depends on how deeply in love one can be to be able to forget one's past. Personally, I wouldn't know. Haven't had a gf since I was born. -
*sighz*
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To love is to accept willing and knowingly. If you want to love her - you have to accept her past, her status and most important: her character.
If you mind her not being a virgin, think about this - Do you love her or do you love that piece of membrane? -
fully agree with you!! me too try to accept my gf when she told me she lost it to his first bf!!! at first me flicking two lan... but later, come to think of it... KNN me screw hopw many girl liao..... if i say NOT FAIR!! then what i did in the past also not fair to her mah.......Originally posted by Yunhaier:To love is to accept willing and knowingly. If you want to love her - you have to accept her past, her status and most important: her character.
If you mind her not being a virgin, think about this - Do you love her or do you love that piece of membrane? 
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consider this.Originally posted by Yunhaier:To love is to accept willing and knowingly. If you want to love her - you have to accept her past, her status and most important: her character.
If you mind her not being a virgin, think about this - Do you love her or do you love that piece of membrane?
doesn't losing their virginity also adds up to their character... as in gullible, naive or didn't consider their righteous image or (at least) what others might think of them then? come to think of it, its not really just a piece of membrane. you have to learn to be more RESPONSIBLE for these things. it could lead to sexual diseases if they fail to consult the docs. it could ALSO very well be fatal for the other party.
if she had considered ALL of that, that action would say a lot about her character now wouldn't it? -
U pple think it is so easy that these gal lose their virginity...they think it is worth it at that time and hence lose it to that guy mah.
Tell u, it is quite painful to break tat membrane for the gal...quite pain and will bleed lor...i tried a few oredi (paiseh)...willing parties wat... can c her tears coming out when i poked thru... and how she will scream in pain... my first time to poke thru very scared lor...both of us veri scared actually, cos she bleed and then we stopped there...she go and bath... and then i went in to bath wif her.
Not easy lor.
Watever it is, gals, cherish it lor -
Case fo morals?
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jus curious, how long has this relationship been between u and her?Originally posted by sgboy2004:U pple think it is so easy that these gal lose their virginity...they think it is worth it at that time and hence lose it to that guy mah.
Tell u, it is quite painful to break tat membrane for the gal...quite pain and will bleed lor...i tried a few oredi (paiseh)...willing parties wat... can c her tears coming out when i poked thru... and how she will scream in pain... my first time to poke thru very scared lor...both of us veri scared actually, cos she bleed and then we stopped there...she go and bath... and then i went in to bath wif her.
Not easy lor.
Watever it is, gals, cherish it lor -
cant remember...i think 4 mths or 5???Originally posted by spy8reak:jus curious, how long has this relationship been between u and her?
Y? That time cos i just enter army, she went to work while waiting for A level results...then she noe some other guys in tat company...day in day out also c each other...and she no virgin anymore...so they do tat too lor...when i ask her later, she admit she seeing tat guy and they even went on short tour to Langkawi alone (tat's when they made love)... so tat time i down, then met my cousin lor...she going overseas mah... she very pretty lor...she very down cos got to leave sg...so we went out and after a few times, we start doing it too.
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hey eagle!Originally posted by eagle:Case fo morals?
long time no c! -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:cant remember...i think 4 mths or 5???
Y? That time cos i just enter army, she went to work while waiting for A level results...then she noe some other guys in tat company...day in day out also c each other...and she no virgin anymore...so they do tat too lor...when i ask her later, she admit she seeing tat guy and they even went on short tour to Langkawi alone (tat's when they made love)... so tat time i down, then met my cousin lor...she going overseas mah... she very pretty lor...she very down cos got to leave sg...so we went out and after a few times, we start doing it too.
wah.... cousin u also poke!!! knn.... u good lah..... me smell no smoke!!!!
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happened so long oredi...now she happily married and got kids too
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see how quick relationships come and go and they already hit the gas too soon? not that there isn't trust but it sounds pretty reckless dun u think?Originally posted by sgboy2004:happened so long oredi...now she happily married and got kids too
anyways, i just discover something regarding the transition of a "junior" to a "member" in this forums. i joined in february, been like 10 months plus and only 90+ posts. some guys joined like in August and have a thousand posts at least and they're "members". goes to show that this thing works both ways... if you joined earlier... you become a member... or if you post more... you become a member. its BOTH! either THAT or somebody up there really loves me... -
bro... see when i join.... kekekek u sure anot>??? if u r so sure... then me jialat.... comdemn liao... hahahahahhOriginally posted by spy8reak:see how quick relationships come and go and they already hit the gas too soon? not that there isn't trust but it sounds pretty reckless dun u think?
anyways, i just discover something regarding the transition of a "junior" to a "member" in this forums. i joined in february, been like 10 months plus and only 90+ posts. some guys joined like in August and have a thousand posts at least and they're "members". goes to show that this thing works both ways... if you joined earlier... you become a member... or if you post more... you become a member. its BOTH! either THAT or somebody up there really loves me... -
I don't know. I mean if they did it once, who knows there might be a second during your marriage perhaps ? you never know. I just find it hard to trust. I once devoted whatever free time I had to this girl 24/7 who once said she liked me. After 6 months and she decided to presue some other guy. Of course I never confess my love for her because I knew it wasn't gonna work out. But the very fact she act as if its perfectly normal is just too much for me.
I don't really give a damn about the virginity thing. But the thought of her sleeping with someone else before kinda disgust me.
Imagine 1 fine day the both of you walk the streets of the city just finishing a romantic dinner and right that moment you run into her ex,
"Hey ! hows it going man ! I slept with your wife before ! Man, she was good in bed"
"At first I thought I was in love.... it was so real.. and I knew we could be together forever.... Boy was I a dumbass!"
Qoute from Get over it. -
I got 2700+ posts and i join on 2 dec 2002..but still Junior memberOriginally posted by spy8reak:see how quick relationships come and go and they already hit the gas too soon? not that there isn't trust but it sounds pretty reckless dun u think?
anyways, i just discover something regarding the transition of a "junior" to a "member" in this forums. i joined in february, been like 10 months plus and only 90+ posts. some guys joined like in August and have a thousand posts at least and they're "members". goes to show that this thing works both ways... if you joined earlier... you become a member... or if you post more... you become a member. its BOTH! either THAT or somebody up there really loves me...
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Kinda think of it, I once read the newpaper and this story interest me.
Its about this couple having a wedding thingy going on at the in-law's house or something. This photographer was taking photos for the couple when the bride had to retreat to her room to do the make up and stuff. So basically everyone were outside. The photographer "claimed he needed to take some photos of the bride" and so he entered the room. There she lay on her chair "surprised" to see the photographer in her room.
He took a couple of photos and asked the bride if he could "help her" with the dress as it was "somehow out of place". She agreed. He run his hands through her chest area as "claimed by him" as he was "merely adjusting" her whatever. He than bent down and adjusted her garter and the most interesting thing is the bride "claimed she was shocked" and yet "did nothing" about it.
She could had resisted ? Shout ? or jab a knife into the guy's ears ? And what can the guy do ? use the camera and kill her ? She's got an entire battalion out there ready to charge in there and smash the jerk's head through the wall.
Obviously the newpaper adopted a more sarcastic approach the way the report was written. 5 yr old kids could tell what the hell's going through the photographer's head. -
agreed...Originally posted by sgboy2004:U pple think it is so easy that these gal lose their virginity...they think it is worth it at that time and hence lose it to that guy mah.
Tell u, it is quite painful to break tat membrane for the gal...quite pain and will bleed lor...i tried a few oredi (paiseh)...willing parties wat... can c her tears coming out when i poked thru... and how she will scream in pain... my first time to poke thru very scared lor...both of us veri scared actually, cos she bleed and then we stopped there...she go and bath... and then i went in to bath wif her.
Not easy lor.
Watever it is, gals, cherish it lor -
u realy sibei Tua Kang Leh! WHahhahahha AAA aaaheheheheOriginally posted by sgboy2004:U pple think it is so easy that these gal lose their virginity...they think it is worth it at that time and hence lose it to that guy mah.
Tell u, it is quite painful to break tat membrane for the gal...quite pain and will bleed lor...i tried a few oredi (paiseh)...willing parties wat... can c her tears coming out when i poked thru... and how she will scream in pain... my first time to poke thru very scared lor...both of us veri scared actually, cos she bleed and then we stopped there...she go and bath... and then i went in to bath wif her.
Not easy lor.
Watever it is, gals, cherish it lor
